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Remember "The Tale of the Fisherman and the Fish"? After all, Alexander Sergeevich described in it a fairly common situation - a henpecked husband who is humiliated, beaten and literally driven away from the world by a tyrant wife. A fairy tale, as they say, is a lie and there is a hint in it. Have you ever wondered why the old man meekly fulfilled the most absurd demands of the tyrant old woman? And what to do to the modern man, who got the same eccentric, cruel, mentally unstable wife as his wife?
Nothing foretold
“This is not the person I knew before. This is just a tyrant who constantly yells at the child, at me and is unhappy with everything!” - writes a desperate man. “She yells and swears in front of the child, at the child, at me everywhere with or without reason. She hits the child because he disturbs her sleep. Such a bestial attitude towards your family is a flagrant crime,” these are the words of another man who became a victim of a tyrant wife.
Reading these sad stories, many, obviously, are asking a completely logical question - where were the eyes of these unfortunate people when they went to the registry office? Was it really impossible even then to calculate how the situation would develop?
This question cannot be answered monosyllabically and unambiguously. It happens that in the character, or more precisely, in the psyche of a woman, metamorphoses occur associated with certain events and changes in life.
Sometimes during the bouquet and candy period she skillfully disguises her hysteria, and then, when there is already a stamp in her passport, she lets go, not considering it necessary to hide dark sides of your nature.
But it also happens differently. It just seems that no one in their right mind would tie their fate with a hysterical, aggressive, eternally dissatisfied woman. In fact, they also marry people like this: “I got a girl who almost threw her fists at me - she slammed the door, or didn’t wash her cup. At first I joked that she should sign up for boxing to relieve herself, until I became a “pear” myself.”
Who do you have to be to voluntarily become a victim?
Voluntary sacrifice
The same man who admitted that his fiancée used him as a punching bag says: “At first my father beat me because I was ‘not a man, but a musician.’ He would grab me and give me a clipper if he didn’t like my hairstyle.” "I went to college covered in bruises." That is, a person has been “programmed” from childhood to play the role of a victim. And it's not special case- Research shows that men who were beaten as children often become victims of violence in their families. Just as the daughters of alcoholics marry alcoholics - not only because they choose a life partner from the same marginal environment in which they themselves grow up, but also because the same program works.
Very often, tyrants get married to men raised by a powerful, despotic mother - again, creating their own “unit of society,” these representatives of the stronger half of humanity “copy” the behavior patterns that they observed in their parental families.
Of course, this program, like any other, has glitches. But all the same, if you were humiliated by your parents, if you grew up in a dysfunctional family and realize this, consult a psychologist. In your case, this is not a whim and not a waste of time and money. It is very important to get rid of your unfavorable background, talk to a specialist about all the problems and try to solve them together. If before your eyes your father, under the menacing cry of your mother or under her heavy hand, turned into an unrequited, humiliated creature, this picture cannot help but stand before your eyes. You don't want your children to see the same thing, do you? For their peace of mind, peace of mind you should get out of the role of the victim.
From a trembling doe - into an evil fury
For women who have experienced domestic violence, there are special centers where they are provided with appropriate assistance. But no one has heard of such centers for men. Why? Obviously, the reason is that boys are raised to be these staunch tin soldiers, instilling in them that admitting their weakness is shameful. Having become adults, they will never wash their dirty linen in public, saying that they are beaten, humiliated, oppressed.
What should you do if your wife, whom you loved and with whom you dreamed of living a long and happy life, has turned into a fury, a monster that does not allow you or your children to live?
Coming to terms with domestic tyranny and enduring it is like stepping into a swamp: sooner or later it will drag on.
We need to act. First, analyze the situation - how far it has gone. If outbursts of anger, rage, and aggression are isolated, there is still a chance that the spouse can be helped. This is especially true if you have a child: postpartum is not an invention of idle ladies, but terrible disease, which can result in anything, including aggression towards loved ones. But sitting and waiting for everything to go away by itself is unacceptable. If you really love your wife and want to save your family, immediately contact specialists. Depression is a disease, and the disease must be treated.
Break the vicious circle
If the role of a victim of domestic tyranny has been firmly established for you for a long time, do not hide your head in the sand. Admit that the problem exists and solve it radically - get a divorce. Save yourself and your children. By the way, it is possible that your children, who have heard many times from their mother that you are a “rag”, “eccentric with the letter M”, “loser”, “henpecked” - have already become accustomed to thinking about you this way and have had respect for you for a long time It’s up to you whether the vicious circle will be broken or whether your son will, just like you, with his head pulled into his shoulders, listen to his own wife tell him that he is a rag, doesn’t know how to earn money and is generally not good for anything.
Taking such a step is, of course, not easy. In this case, there can be only one piece of advice - work with a psychologist who will help you survive the situation, adapt to a new life, and feel like a human again.
And further. Women who are aggressors are often experienced manipulators. Do not succumb to provocations, do not believe false promises and do not enter into another circle.
Remember - this is your life and it is in your hands to make it happy.
In our lives today there is still quite a lot of negativity that we encounter every day. a large number of of people. And one of these harmful ones psychological factors- domestic tyranny. How often do we hear complaints from women who are literally bullied by their husbands. Moreover, their tyranny is so strong and pervasive that women for the most part cannot even think about getting rid of this slave position and parting with their tyrant husband forever. Living next to a person who constantly humiliates and insults his wife and other household members is very difficult, but rarely does anyone try to free themselves from the oppression of their domestic tyrant and continue to endure all this bullying in silence.
Let's try to figure out what is the secret of such endless patience of women and how to get rid of a domestic tyrant. It is impossible to understand and justify a husband who brings pain and fear into the family. But why women meekly agree to tolerate such treatment is a mystery. The psychological phenomenon of this phenomenon has been studied deeply for a long time. Modern psychology has already accumulated enough material to understand this phenomenon and is trying to adequately resist such shameful manifestations of their superiority by domestic tyrants. On household level to be able to resist the despot. Therefore, you need to know the psychology and signs of a domestic tyrant. What to do with such a husband and how to get rid of him? We will talk about this further.
What are the signs of a spouse with tyrannical tendencies?
The main feature of people prone to ruthless tyranny can be considered their obvious obsession with the thirst for omnipotence. They passionately desire to occupy a dominant position in the house and control everything around them. If your husband is a domestic tyrant, then he is extremely annoyed by any attempt at disobedience, and his open resistance psychological pressure and completely infuriating. He clearly feels complete discomfort when someone escapes the zone of his total control and subordination. With such a man, you are not supposed to have your own opinion on any question, because for him there are only two opinions - his and the wrong one.
Other signs of a domestic tyrant are that a man demonstrates his power and blatant inadequacy of behavior if someone tries to remove him from his pedestal and debunk his significance. He will try in every possible way to suppress disobedient people who pose even the slightest threat to his indisputable authority. For a tyrant, it is important to spread his power as far as possible and subject everything to his control - every little thing must be agreed with him and the final decision also remains with him.
The tyrant behaves like a slave owner
Domestic tyranny is a neurotic disease. Its owner doesn’t even know about it. He will never admit mental health problems, but under all his suppressive aggressive actions he will provide a suitable plausible reason, which should whitewash his ugly actions and attitude towards others. It would seem that all the signs of a domestic tyrant are present. The husband behaves like a slave owner, does not allow anyone to take a step without his obligatory participation, keeps his wife and children in strict obedience - but it turns out that this is how he shows his concern for them. And it doesn’t matter that this concern looks like a colony strict regime- it is impossible to convince the tyrant of this.
The tyrant's opinion is the only true one
And, by the way, it is also impossible to convince him of anything. After all, in any dispute, the opinion expressed by the domestic tyrant should win. The signs of the disease are that agreeing with someone else’s opinion is beyond his strength. He considers this a manifestation of the weakness of his positions and an undermining of his authority. Even if this is completely obvious, and you provide a bunch of evidence that he was wrong, you still won’t hear him admit that he was wrong - he would rather burst into abuse and demonstratively leave his interlocutors than agree with their point of view.
Dependent position of the spouse
Such a spouse sees his main task as putting his wife and household members in a position dependent on him. Characteristic signs The behavior of a domestic tyrant manifests itself in cutting off his loved ones, those whom he considers his property, from other people and views on life and family structure that are different from his. He will definitely try to ensure that his wife does not work, even if he himself does not earn very much. It is important for him that she does not for a moment fall out of the zone of his influence and control, that she does not see another model family relations and did not want to get rid of his power.
Motivating the demand with concern for his wife’s health and the fact that while staying at home, she will be able to pay more attention to the issue of raising children, the tyrant husband achieves his plans. A psychologist would see in such behavior undoubted signs of domestic extravagance. After all, it is clear that a non-working woman becomes completely financially dependent on her husband. Not having own income, she is forced to ask her husband for money, motivating each of her purchases. Meanwhile, he gains excellent leverage over the personality of his wife, and children too, reproaching them from time to time for the fact that he feeds and clothes everyone.
What happens to a wife whose husband is a tyrant? Changes in the psychological state of the victim spouse
Of course, in such a situation there are few who want to throw off domestic tyranny. Clear signs of a domestic tyrant are also manifested in the fact that a non-working wife, after a short period of time, will lose self-confidence and the sufficiency of her knowledge and skills to perform a particular job. There are enough examples in psychology of how a lady who has been sitting at home for several years is afraid to go to work. At the same time, she loses her independence even more, becoming free application to its owner.
But, having dissuaded his wife from work, the tyrant will not rest on this and will go much further. He will begin to show dissatisfaction with the fact that her relatives and friends are visiting them. If your husband forbids you to communicate with relatives, neighbors, friends, classmates and other numerous acquaintances from premarital life, these are also signs of a domestic tyrant. A man will discourage you from those people who are capable of at least a little shaking his authority, and will impose as friends those whom he considers necessary.
Such total control over the wife’s environment provides her with complete isolation from the outside world and past life. Now for her there should be one authority and light in the window - her husband. What to do with a domestic tyrant so that he does not seize complete power over you? After all, this person wants to reign supreme and completely subjugate his half. He will stubbornly and fiercely defend his power, because its loss for him is similar to the loss of the meaning of life.
With the advent of emancipation in our lives, everything more women decisively get rid of domestic tyrants. The signs of illness in their husbands are completely obvious to them, and most modern girls pays attention to the peculiarities of the behavior of his partners in a timely manner. Noticing the attempts of their husbands to crush them under themselves and begin to dictate their will, they break family bonds and forever leave the sphere of influence of the usurper spouse. But these are women who are strong in spirit and look at the world soberly, without closing their eyes rose-colored glasses. They can see these painful signs and resist them.
But there are many women who want to believe in the best and try not to notice the signs of a domestic tyrant. What should such stubborn idealists do who, in a crude and unceremonious attempt to deprive them of work, money, friends, personal opinion and freedom, see it as a manifestation of concern for the family? How can we teach them to respect their unique personality and not let anyone suppress it? Where can they find enough strength to resist the strong will of their tyrant husband? And do they really want to resist their beloved guardian and master? Maybe they feel loved and protected from external aggression with such an attentive husband?
Stand up for your rights
If you want to preserve your individuality and personal freedom, if you want to live by your own mind, and not be a silent executor of someone else’s will, take measures to limit your husband’s influence on you and your children, as soon as you detect signs of a domestic tyrant in him. What can you do to prevent your relationship from going so far that you have to urgently break it off? First of all, there is no need to submit to all your husband’s commands. After all, by doing this you provoke a previously hidden neurosis to break out. At the beginning of your family life, your husband may not know about his claims to life and it is quite possible to get along with him. But by recognizing his exceptional position and fulfilling all his even erroneous demands, by your obedience you convince your husband of his leading role.
After all, the psychology of a domestic tyrant is such that it is very important for him to have a victim who provides him with the necessary emotions. If you begin to defend your rights from the very beginning of the relationship and do not agree with the role of the victim prepared for you, then you will not allow his distorted signs of a domestic tyrant to develop. What to do to avoid becoming a victim of an overly ambitious husband? We'll talk about this a little later.
The relationship between a domestic tyrant and his victim
Now I would like to shed some light on the relationship between a domestic tyrant and his victim. Psychologists classify an overly obsessive desire for power as a sign of neurosis. And it is typical for a neurotic to divide people into weak and strong. The strong admire him, and he really wants to appear so to others. But he himself is weak, which is why he needs material confirmation that he is not weak. For real strong people do not need to attract attention or demand admiration. They are confident in themselves, everyone around them also sees this confidence, and no one would think of doubting their strength.
Weak people, burdened by neurosis, try to prove not only to others, but also to themselves that they, too, are among the strong. And to do this, they need to demonstrate their strength on someone and differ favorably from someone. This is where the victim’s finest hour comes! In fact, she is just a decoration, against the background of which the tyrant hopes to look strong and confident - a kind of all-powerful master, manager of hearts and souls. It’s not for nothing that they say that the king is played by his retinue, otherwise how can one understand that he is a king?
For this simple reason, a domestic tyrant is in dire need of victims, and the more of them there are in his environment, the wider the borders of his possessions and the larger the “kingdom”. A neurotic person is constantly tormented by a feeling of weakness and worthlessness, because he knows about this and first of all needs to convince himself of the opposite. And he achieves this by humiliating and oppressing victims who are completely dependent on him. It’s not in vain that he chooses such a woman to begin his exaltation and humiliation of his wife. difficult period, like pregnancy and the first years of raising a child, when a woman is most weak, vulnerable, defenseless and requires support. This best time to break her will and curb her character.
The neurotic very skillfully manipulates his victim, using both the carrot and the stick. But he is also easy to manipulate - you just need to pretend to be humble and agree with his decisions. He encourages such “reasonable” behavior not only with praise, but also with expensive gifts. So, a smart wife may well twirl her ambitious husband like a gypsy with the sun, and he won’t even understand it. For him, the main thing is that he is admired and shown who is boss in the house, and the fact that his wife carefully led him to make a decision is the tenth thing.
But if such coexistence does not suit you, consider useful tips psychologists on how to get rid of a domestic tyrant. It is better to leave your husband without explanation.
When a woman has learned to manipulate her own tyrant husband, there is no need to fear for her fate. She herself will cope with this issue perfectly, since she is not a real victim, but simply plays it in her own interests. Her psyche is intact, and she thinks adequately. But if a woman feels like a victim of tyranny, is attacked by her husband and suffers incredibly from this, but does nothing to defend her interests - this is already sad and sad.
It is difficult to teach a potential victim how to deal with a domestic tyrant. A despot husband is her karma. If he suddenly dies, such a woman will again marry the same tyrant and will suffer in the same way. But she needs to understand one thing - no one from the outside can help her here - either she will learn to respect herself and begin to fight for her rights, or she will remain a victim for life. A woman herself must want to become different - brave, independent, free, only in this case is it appropriate to fight against her tyrant husband. We will focus on those women who decided to eradicate the victim within themselves and start a new one. free life. Which, however, does not necessarily mean an inevitable divorce - if you can show by the force of your character that you are no longer a victim, and he accepts it, you can continue family life, just don’t give in again - be alert and always defend your rights.
Changing the psychology of the victim
So, what to do if your husband is a domestic tyrant. The advice of a psychologist will be useful to those who have already understood that simply leaving your husband does not solve the problem. To be happy and free, you need to change your psychology and worldview, otherwise you will go in circles and your next husband will be an exact copy previous one. If you have firmly decided that there is no longer a place for tyrant men in your life, these tips are for you.
Once you decide to make changes in your life, don’t be afraid to be independent and make decisions about how you want to live next. Cut the umbilical cord that connects you to your husband and take responsibility for yourself.
Having chosen freedom and the desire to be an individual, completely reconsider your worldview, make a serious reassessment of values and life priorities. Think about how you would like to build your future independent life, where to live, what to do. Make a step-by-step plan for achieving your dreams and start making it happen small. If you feel difficulties and uncertainty, visit a psychoanalyst. Qualified specialist will help you gain confidence and choose the direction of movement.
Increasing self-esteem
After suppressing your Self for a long time, you may initially feel a tendency to lower your self-esteem. Buy fashionable clothes, do beautiful hairstyle, dazzling makeup and admire yourself in the mirror. Walk down the street - nothing increases self-esteem more than the admiring glances of men and the envious glances of women. Love yourself - and the world around you will change for the better.
Staying with your tyrant husband, succumbing to his persuasion and tearful assurances, do not be mistaken about him - it will not be possible to re-educate the tyrant, so you will have to ruthlessly suppress all his attempts to dominate so that he does not put on the crown again.
If your children are holding you back from taking a decisive step, think about the fact that they also suffer morally in such an environment. In addition, the constant suppression of personality in childhood gives rise to such severe psychological consequences and incurable complexes that it will be very difficult for your children to enter into with them normal life.
Conclusion
If your husband is a tyrant, then staying with him or leaving is up to you. The main thing is to remember that you have self-esteem, which no one should trample on.
Women's gatherings: Women's Health
Hello, my beloved women! Today I have prepared for you material on women’s health, which was born during our joint gatherings with leading women - Goddesses and Magi on the subtle and dense planes. We sometimes meet, practice magic, practice shamanism with a tambourine in the forest near a fire, and fly on brooms.
I feel that this time has come, because our visitors have questions, and I hear them. That is why this material was organized. I decided to put the notes that I made over five years into one article. Here you will find answers to your many questions, as well as receive specific practical medical and healing recipes.
With love, your Vedana
Physiological features of women's diseases
Yin (purely female) diseases always come from the “bottom” - they begin with genitourinary system. The kidneys hurt - this is either the transmitted disease programs from the mother, or fears, or it was the wrong first sexual intercourse (you need to approach it consciously and prepare, because this is one of the age-related initiations and, as a rule, it is stressful for a woman).
Now this is the process of transmitting infection during sexual intercourse. The infection goes up - to the bladder and kidneys. As a result, kidney protection decreases. One kidney (left) contains prenatal energy transferred from parents, the second (right) is responsible for eliminating toxins. When a woman does not enter into family union during sexual contact, then there is a decrease in energy protection. And if the family is still weak, then the defense weakens even more. Then the infection goes further - the pancreas and stomach. Then it goes to the level of the lungs. The lungs do not show infection for a long time, and then tonsillitis and bronchitis begin. If girls have this, then they need to look at their kidneys. If the girl has not had sexual intercourse yet, it will be passed on from her mother. Next, the infection goes to the heart.
It's clean women's development diseases, men it goes a different way: from the kidneys - clockwise, liver, heart (tendency to heart attacks). A woman most often does not face a heart attack - phytoestrogens protect her. If a woman does have a heart attack, this means that she has a lot of yang energies and is performing tasks that are not her own, but masculine ones.
The woman is very connected with. Although the Slavs professed a solar cult, this is still a masculine approach; a woman, nevertheless, is associated with the moon. Normal cycle for a woman - 28 days. Normally, 40 weeks of pregnancy. Our Ancestors had the following gradation by age: up to 7 years - a child; up to 14 - childhood; up to 16 (Men)/28 years (Women) - youth; up to 32 (Men)/up to 49 (Women) - maturity; from 49 to 56 - old age. Global changes in a woman occur from 49 to 56 years - menopausal changes - cessation of menstruation, the end of the childbearing period. If this happened earlier, it means that biological aging has begun.
The presence of phytoestrogens in the body makes a woman more feminine and youthful.
Natural phytoestrogens are found in: Clover, licorice, soybean, agnus castus - vitex sacred (vitex sacred - good for PMS, menopause, irregular periods; the need for food is also reduced when taking vitex).
During menstruation, women lose all negativity and appear in a good mood, strength and energy. This is normal. If your periods are painful, your mood is bad, lethargy, apathy, then we are looking at your women's system- where is it that is wrong. This may be just the level of the first or second chakra. Ideally, there should be no PMS either. Girls often receive programs from their mother. Mothers do not talk to girls even about menstruation and do not explain anything to them. If you have PMS and painful periods, look at the liver. The liver removes toxins. But here she can’t cope, she doesn’t remove toxins. We cleanse the liver twice a year - October and March - April. It is better to cleanse the liver. Previously, “smart books” wrote methods for cleaning the liver with oil and lemon. I cleaned my liver this way several times. I came to the following conclusion: cleansing the liver with oil is dangerous and is not suitable for everyone. This swipe through the pancreas. And if suddenly as a result of this cleaning the stone goes, the ambulance will not have time to get there...
Biorhythms
From one in the morning to three - liver work. That’s why it’s imperative to sleep from 11 p.m. to 3 a.m., otherwise irritation will accumulate, and brushing or not cleaning won’t help.
From 3 to 5 o'clock the work of the lungs occurs, from 5 to 7 - the work of the large intestine, from 7 to 9 o'clock - the work of the stomach. It is better to produce a chair and a table from 5 to 9 am.
From 9 - 11 am the work of the stomach and pancreas. From 11 a.m. to 1 p.m., the heart is active. If there is pain in the heart, it is at this time that it is useful to take something that harmonizes the work of the heart. For example, .
Active from 13:00 to 15:00 small intestine and 12 duodenum. After lunch, it is advisable to rest, not work, walk around, so that everything settles down in your stomach. If you want to sleep, you need to pay attention to the pancreas and intestines.
From 15:00 to 17:00 the bladder channel.
From 17:00 to 19:00 the kidney channel is active.
From 19 to 21 hours - the pericardial channel and three heaters.
From 21 to 23 - work endocrine system, at this time it is good to take various medications, because it is at this time that the body plans for itself which organs and systems to patch up. There is an examination by the hypothalamus, from which information is sent to all organs and systems - to issue a statin or liberin, what needs to be corrected, adjusted. If a person wakes up at the same time at night, you need to monitor your kidney function.
Tea for infections women's diseases(good immunostimulant)
1. 2 teaspoons echinacea, 1 teaspoon barberry root, 1 teaspoon vitex seeds per 3 cups of water. Boil for 15 minutes in a water bath and leave for 15 minutes and take throughout the day. So you take it for 7-10 days.
2. Burdock, nettle leaves, common privet in equal quantities - 45 minutes in a water bath, half a glass 2 times a day.
Yeast infections (thrush/candida)
2. Homeopathic medicines for yeast infections: Borax, dilution 6 or 12, take 6 grains under the tongue in the morning and evening, separately from food (30 minutes before and 40 minutes after). Apply for about a week or two. Borax also helps with heart palpitations and fears.
3. Malavit (medicine available at the pharmacy) - tampons and douching.
4. 1/4 cup vegetable oil plus 2 drops each of lavender, eucalyptus and tea tree, mix all. Make tampons and lubricate the vagina. If you combine all this with malavite, it will be good.
5. Massage like this points: - see Fig. 35 (longevity point or point from 100 diseases) and - see Fig. 36 (from tibia). This is the harmonization of the female endocrine system and ovaries. Especially the first point.At night, it is useful to place a kernel or buckwheat, securing it with a band-aid, on these points. Remove in the morning. Five days in a row.
Several useful recipes
To quickly stop uterine bleeding - take a thin rubber band and put it between the 3rd and 4th fingers and around the Mount of Venus. Leave it like that for two hours.
In the morning, it is important to massage all your fingers and toes, stretch your fingers straight, straightening the channels on your fingers. Large - lymphatic, large - lungs, medium - colon, nervous system, little finger - small intestine and heart.
What do you need female body at all: B vitamins, magnesium intake mandatory (relieves high blood pressure, hiccups, depression, vascular toning) - taken in the evening, magnesium citrate (manufactured by "KALM natural") - taken for 2 weeks. Magnesium also found in: beets, pine nuts, cocoa, bran, contains seaweed, all dark green vegetables, herbs; zinc(promotes the resorption of swelling) - all seafood, crabs, fish, pumpkin seeds, sprouted wheat, parsley, celery; selenium- in addition to iodine, when there is a decrease in function thyroid gland, you also need to take selenium, contains: seaweed, sea fish, lard, sprouted grain bread, bran, in “Zdorovyak” porridges; potassium- dried apricots, apricots.
- Recipe for alkalizing the body (to relieve acidosis - acidification of the body): soak 500 grams of dried apricots and eat the whole next day and drink water. There is nothing else to eat. Soda is sometimes recommended - bicarbonate - hard alkalization, inorganic, it is better to use dried apricots.
Another recipe: 100 - 150 g dried apricots, 100 g dried apples, 60 g raisins, 4 cups freshly squeezed orange juice. Boil dried fruits until soft, cool, chop, add juice, into a jar and into the refrigerator. This mixture - jelly - replaces sugar also. In the morning, half an hour to an hour before meals with half a teaspoon of honey and drink warm water. The body is being cleansed.
Coffee - homeopathic medicine, can be taken if you have insomnia.
- Inability to wake up in the morning - there is a general decrease in energy. Feelings of lack of sleep. You need to go to bed on time (from 10 p.m., because from 10 p.m. to 11 p.m., serotonin, the hormone of joy, is produced) and cleanse the liver. If you go to bed late, serotonin will not be produced, and therefore there will be no joy. And if you go to bed after 23, then irritability and disruption of the gallbladder will begin to appear, from where bile acids will hit the heart and the heart will hurt.
1. Carry out cleaning within 40 days. Start with: Nemozol tablets (in the pharmacy), 1 tablet per day for 3 days (repeat after 2 weeks), during these two weeks: then again Nemozol (suspensions for children), then again Dragon tea. Take a laxative to avoid constipation.
2. We take cognac at 2-3 am with strong, sweet black tea: 1 teaspoon of cognac per glass of tea plus 4 teaspoons of sugar, drink from 2 to 3 am. And in the evening before that, drink a laxative. Plus, after cleansing, drink prebiotics: Hillak Forte with inulin. Avoid constipation.
Causes of some female diseases
Everything that forms on the eyelids - you need to look at the ovaries. Wen on the eyelids: left eyelid - left ovary, right - right. It may also be that someone in the family or the person himself has had an infection - gonorrhea, chlamydia.
Sleepwalking. These people are souls from other planets, they are not here, some of them are there, on their home planet. It could still be mental disorder and partial move-in (different in each case).
Vitiligo. An incorrect state of mind in the mother during pregnancy can cause this phenomenon in the child. You can lubricate these places with St. John's wort infusion. The healing is long lasting.
Papilloma virus - has already begun at the cellular level. The reason is the kidneys. Cleaning the kidneys.
Infertility. We need to look at why the child does not come to this couple. It may be that there is no purpose from Above. The main reason is almost always in the man, just as the sex of the child almost always depends on the man. The absence of children can also mean the “autumn of childbirth.” There’s no way to knock on a locked gate if you’ve tried everything and the child still doesn’t come. A woman should approach this question carefully: will a man give her healthy offspring, aka fertile soil, what will he sow in it, what can he give her, can he make her happy?
If you have strong moles on your back , this means there are mushrooms in the body. Mushrooms are found in the following foods: raisins, grapes, kefir, cheese, beer.
Women's diseases - the main reason is that a woman is at war with a man. The sperm consists of water, which is programmed. He falls into the womb of a woman and already there is a war. And then illnesses begin, because at the cellular level there is a spiritual war. If a man and woman live in love and harmony, everything is fine. When a woman accepts a man for who he is, she accepts his seed, does not fight with him, and it has a beneficial effect on her.
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March 8... The holiday of women, as well as the holiday of smiles, flowers and spring. The long-awaited holiday has come - March 8. With flowers, smiles, gifts. Were you waiting? Of course yes! Are you getting ready? Of course! In the minds of a man, a woman was the keeper of the family hearth, and remains so. Years go by, centuries fly by, and a man still appreciates the boundless love of his mother, wife, sister, daughter, grandmother, […]
Own numerological Tarot forecast for 2017
Right now you can find out your own numerological Tarot forecast for 2017! What it is? Tarot forecast is one of the types of numerological forecast. It analyzes your age in the coming year in relation to the symbolism of the Tarot cards. Rather, this is not even a forecast, but recommendations: what to focus on in the coming year, and what to try to avoid. How to count your own […]
Horoscope zodiac signs by month for 2017!
On the eve of the New Year, we invite you to read a brief overview of the horoscope of zodiac signs by month for 2017. The horoscope with its zodiac circle came to us from time immemorial as cultural heritage and the wisdom of our ancestors. On our birthday, the planets line up in the sky in an order unique to each of us, leaving an imprint on our […]
How to plan a closet. Storing things in small, and indeed in any spaces, is a very pressing issue, and convenient storage is a doubly pressing problem. How to properly plan the most comfortable dream closet? So how do you plan your dream closet? First you need to draw it, and this, as it turns out, is the most difficult thing. It doesn’t matter where exactly you are going to put the closet, the main thing is the arrangement of things. Things should be conveniently located so that using the closet is convenient and pleasant. How to properly plan the most comfortable dream closet? Basic steps to properly organize and store things in the closets of your home: Step 1. Understand where the closet will be located, for what purpose it is intended and what things will be stored there. Wardrobes can be divided according to the following principle: - It will be common for husband and wife. - The closet is just for him or her. - Children's wardrobe. - The closet is completely common for everyone. - Wardrobe for outerwear only. - Wardrobe for all clothes, excluding outerwear. - Wardrobe with or without mezzanines. The first step is very important. Because it’s one thing when we plan a closet in the hallway, and quite another thing when we plan a closet in the bedroom. Don't miss this moment! Step 1.1. Understand the actual size of the cabinet that can fit in a particular room. Because we can think and dream about many things, but our reality will offer completely different options... Step 2. Sort things for storage. Divide items according to storage into those stored on hangers and those stored on shelves. At first this may seem stupid... but only in this way will you understand how many shelves you really need for: sweaters, T-shirts, etc.... and how many hangers you really need. And how much space will they take up? Step 3. Think about how to store bags, hats, and small accessories. Review all the options for storing ties, handkerchiefs, bags, belts on the Internet and choose the most convenient one for you. Step 4. Think about how and where blankets, pillows, and large non-seasonal items will be stored. Step 5. Think about how and where suitcases and large bags will be stored. Step 6. Think about how and where sports equipment is stored - skis, ski boots... skates, etc.... Step 7. Think about storing shoes. Step 8. Measure the lengths of the most long dresses, coat, to understand which compartments to plan for “long lengths”. And now, when it is clear how many things you have for permanent storage in closets, start drawing the future closet. How to properly plan the most comfortable dream closet? How to properly plan the most comfortable dream closet? Let's see how much space a person takes up when: he tries to reach the top shelf of the closet, or is looking for something on the lowest shelf, or where a person can reach if he stands on a stool. How to properly plan the most comfortable dream closet? It immediately becomes clear that hangers for dresses and coats can be placed at a height of 2 meters, and above that you will have to use a special “hanger lift.” How to properly plan the most comfortable dream closet? Remember that there should be a reserve in the closets to replenish your dream wardrobe. So you now have all the dimensions you need to draw the cabinet. How to properly plan the most comfortable dream closet? This is what your final drawing should look like. All things are on their shelves. Everything is clear and conveniently located. This drawing is very conventional, and not a guide to action. It shows how much height your cabinet compartments will occupy on average. For example: if you store the trousers folded, it will take 120 cm. And if they are extended, it will be 140-150 cm. The standard depth of a closet with hinged doors is 60 cm. A closet with sliding doors will take up 8-10 cm more space - it depends on the technical characteristics sliding system. The height of the space above the crossbar should be at least 5-6 cm in order to comfortably reach things on hangers. A convenient shelf height for low shoes is 17-20 cm if the shoes are stored in their normal position and not on special stands. For high boots, you will need to leave a free space of 50 cm high. Since the average height of a boot is 40-41 cm. Small items such as socks, handkerchiefs, underwear are best stored in drawers or pull-out baskets.
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Meat casserole Simply delicious... Ingredients: - potatoes (6 pcs), - minced pork + beef (400g), - mushrooms (100-150g), - onions (1 pc), - sour cream (1 cup), - egg, - garlic (2 cloves), - salt, pepper. Preparation: Peel the potatoes and cut into thin slices. Cut the onion into half rings. Cut the mushrooms into small cubes, mix with the minced meat and season with salt and pepper. For the dressing: mix sour cream with garlic passed through a press, add a raw egg, salt, pepper and mix well. Place half the potatoes in a greased baking dish, add salt and pepper and top with onions. Place minced meat with mushrooms on the onion. Sprinkle the minced meat with grated cheese. Place a layer of potatoes on top, salt and pepper. Pour the filling over the casserole. Bake in the oven at 180-200 degrees for 40-60 minutes. 5 minutes before ready, sprinkle the casserole with grated cheese. Bon appetit!
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Meat with potatoes in a sleeve Ingredients: -400-500 gr. meat (I have pork neck) - potatoes 6-8 medium pieces. -champignons (quantity at your discretion) -1 tomato -1 bell pepper (you can add beans, cauliflower, to your taste). -1 large onion (onion) -4-5 cloves of garlic -soy sauce 3 tbsp. - your favorite herbs (I have oregano, thyme, dill, you can fresh or dry.) - a mixture of "Italian herbs" - a mixture of peppers "Mill" - salt - a "sleeve" for baking Preparation: 1. Wash the meat, dry it paper towel. Wash the champignons and cut into 2 parts. Cut the meat into pieces (about 3*3cm). Finely chop the onion or cut it into rings, half rings, whatever you like. We cut garlic, herbs (if fresh), tomatoes, peppers or other vegetables. 2. Place the meat in a deep bowl. Add to it everything that is listed in the recipe, except salt. Stir and add a little salt, but keep in mind that soy sauce is very salty. 3. Cover our meat with mushrooms and leave to marinate for about 30-40 minutes. 4. At this time, peel the potatoes, cut them into medium cubes (I don’t salt the potatoes.) 5. When the meat is marinated, turn on the oven at 180 degrees. 6. Add potatoes to the meat with mushrooms and mix everything thoroughly again. 7. Take the baking “sleeve” and cut off as much as we need. We fix one end. (I just tie it in a strong knot). We transfer our meat and potatoes into the “sleeve” and fasten it on the other side in the same way. 8. We carefully pierce our “sleeve” in several places with a toothpick to allow steam to escape. I DO NOT recommend using a knife, scissors, or fork for this; you can damage the sleeve and then all the juice will leak out during cooking. Place the sleeve on a baking sheet. 9. Place all this beauty in an oven preheated to 180 degrees for about 1 hour to an hour and a half. Mine bakes for about 1.10. 10. Remove from the oven. Carefully cut the bag down the middle. Place the contents on plates (preferably the plates have a depression), pour generously with the juice that formed during baking.
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How to cook thin and durable pancakes? Classic recipe for yeast-free pancake dough Ingredients: Milk or water - 2 cups Flour - 1.5 cups Eggs - 2 pcs. Sugar - 1 tbsp. l. Salt - 0.5 tsp. Vegetable oil - 2 tbsp. l. Secrets and tricks of kneading dough: Sift the flour - this will give softness to the pancakes. Liquid ingredients should be added in a thin stream to the flour, mixing everything, avoiding lumps. To make pancakes with “holes,” add a little sparkling water to the dough. It is also worth pouring into the dough sunflower oil– it will add elasticity, improve the consistency of the dough, so that it will spread better in the pan, and the pancakes will not burn during frying. Some tips: 1. Use wheat flour premium grade fine grinding. 2. Milk must be warm. 3. Skimmed milk It's better not to use it. 4. For thin pancakes, the dough should be liquid. 5. Than more eggs you add to the dough, the denser and tougher the pancakes will be. Secrets and tricks of frying pancakes: 1. Before frying, let the dough rest. Leave it for about 15 minutes - this will improve the strength of the pancakes and they will not tear during the turning process. 2. You need to fry pancakes in a hot frying pan, greasing it with butter or vegetable oil. A cast iron skillet works best. The main thing is that the bottom is smooth and thick, and the dough does not stick to it. 3. Pour the dough into a ladle, holding the pan in your left hand, and quickly distribute the dough over the entire area with deft movements. Our goal is thin pancakes, so you don’t need to pour a lot of batter. Wait until the pancake becomes golden brown on the bottom and matte on the top, and carefully turn it over with a thin wooden spatula or a knife with a blunt rounded tip. Grease the finished pancake with butter - this will add a little flavor, juiciness, and the pancakes will not stick to each other. Tip: A new cast iron pan for baking pancakes also needs to be “cooked”. Namely: first pour salt into the frying pan so that it completely covers the bottom, and heat it, stirring, for 20 minutes. After this, pour in the salt, let it cool, and then rinse and dry the pan thoroughly. Next, grease it outside and inside with vegetable oil and bake in the oven at 180 degrees for about 30 minutes. After the pan has cooled down, it is completely ready to prepare thin and beautiful pancakes.
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ROYAL COOKIE I almost swallowed my tongue 🙀 The simplest of the simple. Anyone can handle it. Well, in the end - oohs and aahs are guaranteed for you, and “you will swallow your fingers” and “you are the goddess of the kitchen.” The main thing is to bake in the evening. Let it sit overnight. And the cottage cheese will set and cut evenly. First, the filling: Pour half a kilo of cottage cheese into one bowl. Add half a cup of sugar. Let me immediately note that we use a 360 ml bowl as a cup. We measure out sugar and flour for her. Choose something more suitable for yourself. So, cottage cheese, sugar. There are also 4 eggs, a small packet (teaspoon) of vanilla sugar, a teaspoon of baking powder (you can replace 1/3 teaspoon of soda. And be sure to add the zest from 1/3 of a lemon. The zest is very appropriate in the finished filling. All the contents of the bowl are neat stir with a whisk or mixer. The filling turns out to be very liquid, a little thicker than kefir, a little thinner than sour cream)) Put the filling aside - take a second bowl and make the “dough”. In fact, the role of dough here is played by sand crumbs. And it’s magical - you don’t have to knead anything, roll it out, etc. The crumble is made simply: Pour one and a half cups of flour into a bowl, another half a cup of sugar, half a teaspoon of salt and a full teaspoon of baking powder (you can also replace half a teaspoon of soda). Then take 150 grams butter or margarine, cold. And a grater. Place the grater directly into the flour. And constantly dip the butter into the flour and grate it. If you mix it with flour right away during the process, it will not stick in one lump on the grater. And then just grind everything into crumbs with your hands. A minute's work. Take a mold and cover it with paper. Grease the inside with oil - just to be on the safe side)) Pour 2/3 of the crumbs into the pan in an even layer. Slightly pressing with your fingers, mold a small side around the edges. Pour in the curd filling. Gently and evenly sprinkle the top of the pie with the remaining crumbs. That's all. Place in an oven preheated to 200 degrees. Bake for exactly 45 minutes. Then remove the cake from the oven, remove it from the pan, but do not remove it from the paper. Leave on paper overnight. If it seems to you that the pie in the middle is not baked and the filling is a little runny, then in the morning you will be convinced that you really did. Overnight everything will come together as it should. Cut into 12 pieces - you can't go wrong. Don't eat it yourself. Well, maybe just a tiny little piece. To confirm to yourself that your hands are golden, and yes, it melts in your mouth. Bon appetit!
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12 super-effective ways to fertilize your houseplants. 🌿 Feeding with sugar 1 teaspoon of sugar is evenly poured onto the surface of the ground before watering. Or dilute 2 teaspoons of sugar in a glass of water. This feeding is carried out once a week. 🌿 Eggshell feeding Eggshells are rich in calcium, and calcium neutralizes acidity. Therefore, when applying mineral fertilizers that increase the acidity of the soil, shells are added to neutralize. shell raw eggs washed well, dried and crushed, then added to the soil. Eggshells are a product that decomposes slowly, so you need to add them very sparingly. And it’s worth grinding as finely as possible. Suitable for fertilizing adult cacti. 🌿 Another method that is suitable for fertilizing seedlings. Pre-washed and dried shells are poured into 3 liters hot water, leave for 5 days, then water the seedlings. 🌿 Feeding with banana skins Banana skins are finely chopped and dried. When transplanting plants, they are poured in a layer or simply embedded in the soil. 🌿 You can use one more method. The dried skins are ground in a coffee grinder. The result is a dark brown powder that can be added to a plant pot before watering, or diluted with water and used as a liquid fertilizer. This banana fertilizer is suitable for flowering plants, roses respond well and delight with abundant blooms. Flowering is provoked by potassium, which bananas are rich in. 🌿 Feeding with ash For 1 liter of water, take 30 g of ash and leave for a week, stirring from time to time. Then used to water plants. Wood ash contains potassium, phosphorus, calcium. Phosphorus provides energy processes in plant cells and is one of essential elements needed by plants. 🌿 Tea and coffee Spilled tea and coffee dry well. Added as mulch and fertilizer for indoor plants. To feed the seedlings, make an infusion of drunk tea. 1 glass of tea is poured with 3 liters of hot water and left for 5 days, stirring. Strain and use as top dressing. Tea and coffee neutralize the alkaline environment, so it is advisable to use it for plants that love acidic soil. When transplanting or transshipping a plant, the remaining tea is placed on the drainage layer, then the soil, and then the plant is planted. Supplements in the form of tea and coffee make the ground light. It is highly undesirable to apply such fertilizer if soil flies live in pots, this will only increase their reproduction. 🌿 Water from washing cereals Many housewives use water from washing cereals (rice, buckwheat, etc.) as fertilizer. This water contains silicon, iron, magnesium, phosphorus. 🌿 Fertilizer with onion peel Onion peel, as it turns out, is a very effective fertilizer for plants. Moreover, an infusion of onion peel contains a substance that destroys pathogenic microflora. The infusion is often used as foliar feeding, rich in microelements and plants perceive it as a complete fertilizer. The infusion is prepared as follows: 10 g - 20 g of husk is poured into 5 liters warm water, insist 4 days. Or a quick way: pour a liter of boiling water over the husks and boil for 1-2 minutes, leave for 2 hours and then spray with a spray bottle. 🌿 Spraying orange peels with infusion This is more of a prevention against spider mites and shields. Citrus peels are poured with a liter of boiling water and left for 4-5 hours, then filtered. The plants are sprayed from a spray bottle. 🌿 Aloe juice is a growth biostimulator. It is used to increase seed germination. When soaking the seeds, add a few drops of aloe juice to the water and leave for 8-20 hours. When watering indoor plants, aloe juice is also added. Use the juice of plants that have reached 3 years of age, after keeping the leaves for several days in the refrigerator.
