Women's magazines will advise how to seduce him, and then we will have to figure out the misfortune that has fallen on our own heads, which we ourselves have caused.

Hot summer seems to provoke us into passionate romances. Twist a curl around your finger, drop an olive in your bra, whisper a passionate word in his ear and place your hand on his thigh - supposedly relationship experts pretend to know a million little things men don't know feminine tricks, which miraculously help in matters of seduction. They promise to tell you the secrets of Japanese geishas and Cleopatra’s secret recipes, select techniques based on your zodiac sign and attract cosmic energy for the benefit of your next affair. The insidious catch of these techniques, which are replicated by all women's media, is that the vast majority of them tell you how to get sex right on the first date, not love on long years. I hope you were counting on it? Then here are 7 stupid seduction techniques that you should not use if you are looking for a decent man.

Oh, the cosmic forces of Venus will help me...

1. Technique for seducing a man: gaze

Conquer a man with your gaze. It is advisable to alternate two types of gaze in turn: sensual and shy. Look passionately straight into the man's eyes, and then look away and meekly look at him from under your brows. Don't forget to highlight your eyelashes, eyelids and eyebrows with makeup.

Result: Most main mistake women on the first date can be explained in one word: overdid it. Sit in front of the mirror and try to perform at least one of those tricks that the “seduction gurus” offer you. I bet that your imitation of a passionate gaze may shock you, but imagine how surprised a man will be when you look at him for an hour either like an angry cobra or like an offended hamster?

I looked at him so much that all his limbs shrank in horror...

2. Technique for seducing a man: red color

Red color is extremely attractive to the opposite sex. Not less than a man They also love women in dresses. Therefore, when deciding what to wear on a date, choose a red dress. Its style should emphasize the part of the body that you are most proud of - neckline, open back or long legs.

Result: Most men are potentially wary of the color red, associating it with stress. Ask your male friends, and you will be surprised to find out that men have a much stronger reaction to colors than women. As for the neckline and cutouts on dresses, their depth is up to you. So if after the first date you wake up not at home, you will, like Carrie Bradshaw, blame it on the dress.

If you don’t notice this one, it can even knock you down the stairs...

3. Technique for seduction: catch his every word

During the conversation, listen to the man carefully, do not argue with him and try to continue his thoughts in the conversation. Ask leading questions, show interest in the answers and his opinion, so that the man feels confident and at ease during a conversation with you.

Result: A woman in a red dress, who tirelessly goggles her eyes and can hardly come up with a complex sentence, is an ideal client for a lover. That is, sexy enough to incite passions, and stupid enough to allow a man to keep everything a secret. If this is not what you expect, do not remain silent like a fish and do not nod like a woodpecker, but communicate naturally and show interest if the interlocutor really arouses it.

While I was catching his every word, I at the same time decided to catch him himself...

4. Technique for seducing a man: sexual positions

Sitting next to a man, show all your grace through sexual position. Place your legs on top of each other and cross them as close to the top of your thighs as possible. This pose gives a seductive curve to the spine and at the same time attracts male attention. From time to time, slowly cross one leg over the other, keeping your back straight.

Result: and her famous somersaults with legs still haunt all anonymous advisers. Instead of discouraging you from the film version of Basic Instinct on a date, on the contrary, I’ll say - let’s do it. If a man laughs and guesses the movie, then he is definitely a normal candidate; if he drools lustfully and becomes silent, we continue the search.

I posed in such a way that he only looked at modesty at my shadow on the wall...

5. Technique for seducing a man: synchronizing breathing

Use your breathing and try to synchronize it with the man's breathing, matching his rhythm. At the same time, include tactile seduction, from time to time touching the man and stroking him. A little flirting and playing with his tie won't hurt.

Result : Breathing practices good at yoga, but not at all public place at the first meeting, and through stroking and strange manipulations with the tie, which will most likely look unnatural, you will create the impression of a sexually dissatisfied person, and most likely the man will rush to provide you with emergency assistance.

Suffocated in cigarette smoke from my own coolness...

6. Technique for seducing a man: white dance

Play some slow music and ask your man to dance. While dancing, try to be closer to him, inadvertently put your head on his shoulder, stroke his back and whisper your feelings in his ear.

Result: Now let's be honest: most men hate dancing, and he will react warily to your offer to spin in his arms. What all your “unintentional” manipulations with your hands will lead to is described above, so if you want to feel contact, just invite him to rollerblade in the park or rent a tandem bicycle.

If a girl feels male gaze, which she cares about, she will do the following:

• He will begin to make smooth movements with his hands: carefully adjust his clothes, hairstyle, or touch his earlobe.
• Throw your head back, then gently tilt it to one side.
• Make moving movements with your head, thereby throwing the curls from your face to your back.
• Maintain an even posture while walking, pushing your chest forward.
• He will begin to stroke his knees or raise his hand higher to his hips.
• She will gently wiggle her shoes on her toes, surrounded by the guy she enjoys being around.
• She will talk quietly and look at her partner and then look down.
• Will look in the mirror while in the presence young man. Perhaps he will demonstratively tint his lips.

Exciting gestures of men

If a man liked this or that person, he will show it by the following actions:

• He will spread his legs, thereby showing his “dignity”.
• He will watch not only the woman’s face, but also examine her entire body with his eyes.
• His hands will be on her hips.
• He will adjust his hair, his shirt collar, and touch his throat.
• Frequent walking back and forth.
• IN sitting position stretches his legs.

It is not at all necessary to be alone with the object of your affection in order to attract attention to your person. The art of flirting can be practiced anywhere and anytime.

You can attract male attention without words; it is enough to master body language and the secrets of a special style of behavior. There are not many conditions - only two. Firstly, the object must be within your reach. Secondly, you must be psychologically prepared to meet him.

Sharon Stone demonstrates several flirting techniques at once

Psychological preparation

To set yourself up for success, use the power of your imagination.

• First, imagine yourself at that moment in life when you felt especially good and took your breath away with pleasure and drive - no matter where and when it happened - it could be either a roller coaster ride, a parachute jump or night walk along the embankment barefoot or swimming in an ice hole, remember each of your sensations, and, having entered this state, begin to act. If you want to radiate erotic vibes, remember the most sensual moments.
• Then clearly state the goal you want to achieve. Its formulation should be structured in such a way that implementation depends only on you, and not on other people. Don’t tell yourself “Let all the guys go crazy for me,” say “I’ll drive anyone crazy.” Avoid constructions with the words “I want”, “I will”. Otherwise, you will want it, but not get it and wait for a wonderful tomorrow to come.

No body contact

Hair is one of the brightest sexual symbols. So sit opposite, shake your hair, straighten a strand that has gotten out of your hair, smooth your hair, or just run your hand through it. Some men can watch, hypnotized, as a long curl of hair is wound around a finger, then unraveled, and then this action begins all over again.

Wrists

Another “male fetish” is inner side women's wrists. Show them off delicate skin, for example, adjusting sleeves.

You can part your lips seductively, just practice first, choosing the maximum diameter in front of a mirror, so as not to appear yawning or asthmatic, in need of immediate access to air.

Thanks to Basic Instinct, everyone has long been convinced of what important role Feet play in seduction. So feel free to move them.

Eyes and smile

A wide and open smile combined with sparkling eyes is an excellent weapon. The pupils reflexively dilate when we feel excitement and excitement. The eye shooting technique is worth learning additionally.

The gaze can lower, expressing agreement, rise to the ceiling, quickly slide over the body, and stop at the eyes of the counterpart. You can not take your eyes off him, then instantly look away and look at the man again, but this time from under your eyelashes. Remember that there are no forbidden looks, the main thing is that they do not look forced, but as natural as possible, so practice!

Move with a straight back, take small steps (they look sexier), sway your hips slightly (don’t get carried away), and bring the heel of one foot behind the toe of the other.

Seductive curve of the back

The way a woman stands, the way she walks, the way she sits is instantly noted by a man at the subconscious level. Wherein greatest strength The bend of your back has an impact. To develop a regal posture, do the following.

• Stand with your back to the wall, touching it with the following areas of your body:
• head without raising the chin;
• shoulders, slightly turning them back, but not too zealous;
• elbows, but not the wrists;
• buttocks;
• calves of the legs, if possible;
• heels

Straightening your back, push your chest forward and up. While maintaining this body position, place the palm of your hand at the base of the spine, at the very bottom, and slightly move it forward, moving it away from the wall: this will ensure spinal column deep bend. Move away from the wall.

Remember that a man reacts not to the volume of a woman’s breasts or the length of her legs, but first of all to the curve of her spine. A woman of any age should pay attention to her spine Special attention, and then she will be able to make a lasting impression.

Learning to sit attractively

When a woman places one leg on top of the other at the knee area, she simply sits in a way that is more comfortable for her. But the closer to the top of the thigh her legs are crossed, the more interest she attracts in men. In addition, this position of the legs automatically gives her spine the desired curve. And in general, legs crossed high at the hips look slimmer, longer and sexier. This is the most effective way for a woman to demonstrate the overall strengths of her figure and, of course, the shape of her legs. A pose with your legs crossed at the hips will emphasize your sensuality, but only if you do not allow yourself to forget about the length of the skirt: it is very important not to overdo it in demonstrating your charm. In principle, clothing that is too provocative and provocative can scare away rather than attract a man.

"Object games"

Roll something oblong in your fingers. Since the time of Freud’s grandfather, no significant changes have occurred in the psychology of sexuality; phallic symbols have remained an important component of it. So pick up a cigarette, the stem of a glass, etc., hinting to the man that you would not mind doing the same manipulations, but not with this object. If you have achieved that the man does not take his eyes off you, shake your shoe. Such actions are perceived by representatives of the stronger half of humanity as a very strong and clear erotic signal.

The art of touch

If you touch your body, a man interprets these actions as “I want you to do the same.” You can run your hand over your shoulders or hips, buttocks or chest. Attention will be drawn to your chest if you accidentally shake a drop of water from a foggy glass into your cleavage and then begin to wipe it with your finger.

The game of “random” touching can be the beginning of closer contacts. You can touch his wrist, expressing agreement, run your hand along his forearm, saying goodbye. Or you can simply hand him something - a glass, cup, lighter, cigarettes, pen (depending on the situation).

In principle, all these techniques can be called classic, but they still work. And with their help you can make anyone fall in love with yourself. In order to achieve maximum effect“adapt” to the man, speak his language (use the same words as him), breathe in rhythm, move at the same pace and rhythm, in a word, adapt to him.

Modern men have become very picky and picky. Give them not just a woman, but “a chef in the kitchen, a queen at a party and a mistress in bed.” But no matter what they come up with, we women are capable of seducing and conquering any “king” if we wish; we know how to seduce a man. As soon as we use our “secret weapon,” the handsome guy is ready to forget his rider, if only the seductress would trust him. So, let's look at the most interesting non-verbal signals that will help seduce a man.

1. Look into the eyes!

If a man is looking at you and, moreover, trying to catch your gaze, be sure to hold it, but not for long, then lower your eyes and look at the “object” again, but only through your eyelashes - a little ironically and modestly.

2. Mesmerize with hair

Owners of beautiful and voluminous hair have something to torment a man with: twirl your curls around your finger, straighten and smooth them. If you short haircut, then use another trump card - an open neck also drives Don Juans crazy. While straightening your hair, run your hand along your neck - and it’s already yours!

3. Smile

Men don't notice or, in best case scenario, they feel sorry for “problem” women, but do not lust at all. They need to be easy-going and responsive to jokes. Smile as often as possible, but provided that there is a real reason for this, then the question of how to seduce a man will disappear by itself.

4. Lower your voice

Hide the shrill notes in your voice as far as possible if you want to capture the attention of a man. The heart of your chosen one is more likely to respond to a calm, rather low (sensual) voice. Train your ligaments when no one can hear you, and then consolidate your success during telephone conversation with a gentleman.

5. Create your own beauty image

Although men do not necessarily need a woman to have a full bust to fall in love, there are nevertheless things that are fundamentally important to them. In order to seduce a man, you will need: clean hair and teeth, neat clothes, beautiful posture, tripping, unobtrusive aroma of high-quality perfume and fresh breath.

6. Be sincere in everything

The previous points will lose relevance without the last one. The lady's pretense will scare off even the bravest knight. Try to show sincere interest during the conversation and show it in your eyes, even if the man dedicated his speech to the characteristics of his engine new car. If it becomes completely unbearable, honestly say that you don’t understand anything about this, and immediately ask your question on a topic that is understandable to you.