The character of a person in the eyes. What can you say about a person by his look. Big eyes with a small iris.

In the eyes of a person, you can read his character and thoughts, mood, attitude towards the world around him and specific people.

They tell about who they belong to, much more than you can imagine. Not everyone can understand what the eyes say. How to learn to understand their language, and will be discussed.

Physiologists call the eyes the part of the brain that is brought out. By changing their size, shade, moving in different directions, the eyes reflect everything that happens in our head, whether we like it or not.

Would you like to know what is on the mind of your interlocutor? Be a little observant, looking into his eyes, and you can learn much more about him than others.

The most truthful part of the eyes are the pupils. They change their size depending on the emotions that we are experiencing at the moment, and not according to our desires.
The larger the pupil and the easier it expands under stress, the softer, the more pliable the nature of its owner. He always defends himself, and in disputes he is inclined to give in, sometimes to the detriment of his interests.
Conversely, a constantly constricted pupil indicates a high level of adrenaline in the blood, which means that their owner is not only always ready to repel any blow, but also to hit back at his offender.

As mentioned above, the pupils of the eyes dilate when suddenly excited.. This reflex is successfully used by merchants in the bazaars. Ask how? You buy something at the clothing market. The thing you have chosen suits you all, but it has one drawback - it is clearly overpriced, which greatly lowers its rating in your eyes. At the same time, you want to treat yourself to something new. And tormented by the question "To take or not to take?" you've been standing at the counter for fifteen minutes. The seller, noticing your torment, begins to colorfully paint all the advantages of your potential acquisition, and, embarrassing you, the price melts like snow in March.

The moment you cross the Rubicon of Doubt and finally decide to buy the product you like, your pupils will momentarily become four times larger than usual. The seller, having caught this moment, immediately stops reducing the price. It is clear to him that the cost of the thing already suits you, and therefore it makes no sense to continue to bargain. True, if he notices that your pupils have narrowed again, which means that you have lost interest in his product, the price will creep down again.

In works of art, you can find something like this: “His eyes darkened with anger,” or “Her eyes radiated joy.” If you think that they write like this only in order to take up more space on paper, then you are greatly mistaken. When a person begins to experience joy, delight, in those moments when he looks at someone who is especially attractive to him, then his eyes involuntarily brighten. In the opposite situation, that is, in anger, in irritation, in rage, the eyes of a person become noticeably darker. When talking with someone, remember this property of human eyes, it will help determine the attitude of your interlocutor towards you and your words.

Another amazing property of the eyes is that they make it clear whether their owner is telling the truth. The fact is that the direction of our gaze depends on what is happening in our brain. If we remember, we remember, and do not invent, what we saw, our eyes involuntarily begin to slide in the right-up direction. But when we try to imagine something that our eyes did not see, after a short wandering, it rushes to the left-up. Of course, you can, by an effort of will, consciously, direct your gaze wherever you see fit. Try, remembering what you really saw, look left-up or right-down, doesn’t this direction of view seem a little strange to you.

Remember the voice of John Lenon, remember, and now pay attention to where your eyes are directed. Most likely, it is directed towards your right ear, right. In the opposite direction, your eyes will look if you try to imagine something that you have never heard before. For example, “A Christmas tree was born in the forest” performed by car horns.

If we begin to remember taste, smell, touch, our eyes will immediately slide to the left and down and will remain in this position until the memory restores the sensation we need.

During intense thinking or internal dialogue, the gaze is usually directed to the right and down. If you notice that the gaze of your interlocutor is frozen in this position, pause, be silent, let the person think about what you said.
Keep in mind that the opposite is true for lefties. Imagining the sound, they look to the left side, and when they remember what they saw, they raise their eyes to the right temple. This phenomenon can be confusing to the novice observer. In order not to get into a mess, look in which direction your interlocutor's eyes are moving when he remembers something. For example, ask him in what color shirt the boss came to work today. Or what the weather was like yesterday. In a word, ask such a question, answering which your counterpart could not lie.

And now a little about the constant properties of the eyes, about their color, cut, size. It is known that the color of the eyes carries some information about the character of their owner.

Man with blue eyes
dreamer and romantic, usually calm, and rare outbursts of anger disappear as suddenly as they appear.

grey-eyed lovers of different puzzles, in any situation they try to find their own, original and unexpected way out. And these persistent, independent, decisive and sometimes a little tough people are helpless in the face of situations that do not require mental exertion.

Black eyed people stubborn and persistent, and in crisis situations they are also irritable and quick-tempered. But they have a developed, capable of quickly resolving complex issues.

People with light brown eyes not particularly eager to dedicate others to their own secrets. They terribly dislike when someone puts pressure on them, and therefore they tend to do everything on their own, without outside help.

Great leaders come from green-eyed. Strict, but at the same time fair, once in a difficult situation, they patiently seek and still find a way out of it.

Behind the owners of blue eyes a reputation for being impatient, haughty, and arrogant. They say they are conflicted, like to argue and do not really delve into the problems of others.

Not very common yellow eye color. People with such eyes have rare talents and are said to be able to read other people's minds.

Well, actually there are a lot of opinions about eye color and they are all different. Joseph Brodsky said that "the main thing in the eyes is their cut." And he was right.

For example, in large almond-shaped eyes, the breadth of the soul of their owner is well reflected. This person accepts the world with all its advantages and disadvantages, because his eyes allow you to see a little more than others see.
Large elongated eyes speak of the restraint of their owner, the presence of a goal and grandiose plans.
But the eyes shifted to the bridge of the nose betray a pragmatic and purposeful person who is trying to get to the bottom of things.
Comfort, that's what people strive for, whose eyes are a little bulging. Simply put, they want to live well without denying themselves anything. But, of course, this does not always work out, and in such situations they sincerely wonder why it does not work out, as they would like.
An interesting character in a person with deep-set eyes. A person with such eyes is secretive, cautious, but not cowardly. The excitability of temperament, innate suspicion, almost animal sensitivity make him a very dangerous opponent, who is better not to tease.

Agree, it is impossible to imagine eyes without their natural frame. Yes, long and thick eyelashes are very beautiful. But can they reveal at least some of our traits? Yes they can.

For example, those whom nature has awarded long eyelashes usually gentle, soft, sensitive and enjoy great sympathy with others. With all the meekness of their nature and kindness of character, they are by no means weak-willed and soft-bodied, they will stand up for themselves if necessary. Surprisingly, the vicissitudes of life do not leave traces on the souls of such people, they always remain kind and gentle.

The workaholic usually short and thick eyelashes. He is not a romantic, he believes little and is used to achieving everything with his own labor. He is very active and overexpenditure of energy is a common thing for him. Short-term stresses to such a person are uneasy, but the troubles that continue for a long time unsettle him.
Finishing my short story, I want to say, often look into the eyes of your loved ones, friends and loved ones. You can see a whole world there, the existence of which you did not even know.

An old wisdom says: "Look a person in the eyes when you talk to him, the eyes are the mirror of the soul." When you communicate, look at the pupils of partners, and you can understand their true feelings. The expression of the eyes is the key to a person's true thoughts. For centuries, people have attached great importance to the eyes and their impact on human behavior. Expressions like "She just glared at him", or "She has the eyes of a child", or "His eyes darted", or "She has an alluring look", or "His eyes sparkled suspiciously", or "He has an evil eye", firmly settled in our language.
Watching the pupils of potential buyers was practiced by the jewelers of ancient China. They watched the eyes of buyers as they negotiated the price. In ancient times, belladonna was instilled into the eyes of prostitutes to dilate the pupils and appear more desirable. Aristotle Onassis always wore dark glasses during the conclusion of transactions, so as not to betray his true intentions.

Eye movements.
The basis for genuine communication can only be established through face-to-face communication. We feel comfortable around some people, awkward around others, and some do not seem trustworthy to us. It all depends on how they look at us and how long they keep their eyes on us during the conversation.
Like all other body language signals, the duration of the look at the interlocutor is determined by national traditions. In the south of Europe, people look at each other for a long time, which may seem offensive, for example, to the Japanese, who prefer to look at the interlocutor's neck rather than in the face during a conversation. You should always consider national traditions before jumping to conclusions.

business look
When you are conducting business negotiations, imagine that a kind of triangle is drawn on the face of the interlocutor. By focusing your gaze inside this zone, you will give the impression of a serious person. Your partner will feel that you are responsible and reliable. If your gaze does not fall below the eye level of the interlocutor, you will be able to keep the conversation under control.

What are the different views?
informal look
When the gaze of the interlocutor falls below the eye level of the partner, a friendly atmosphere arises. Experiments have shown that during informal communication, a triangular zone can also be distinguished on the face of the interlocutor. In this case, it is located between the eyes and mouth of the interlocutor.

intimate look
In this case, the gaze can slide over the face of the interlocutor, fall on the chin and other parts of the body. With close contact, this triangle can stretch to the chest, and if people are far apart, then drop to the level of the genitals. Men and women use this look to show their interest in each other. If a person is interested in you, then he will return the same look to you.
When a man believes that a woman is trying to lure him, then most likely he noticed that the woman is looking askance at him and her gaze glides over the intimate area. If a man or woman wants to demonstrate inaccessibility, then they just need to avoid an intimate look and confine themselves to an informal look. If, during courtship, you use a businesslike look, then your partner will consider you cold and unfriendly.
Remember that when you use an intimate gaze on a potential sexual partner, you lose control of the situation. Your intentions become perfectly clear. Women are great experts in sending and recognizing such views, but men should still learn from them.
The eyes play a very important role in the courtship process. Women use makeup to enhance this effect. If a woman is in love with a man, then her pupils dilate when she looks at him, and he unmistakably recognizes this signal without even realizing it. This is why most romantic dates take place in subdued light, which causes the pupils to dilate.
The intimate look of a man is not difficult to notice, but they themselves almost never notice it, to the deep disappointment of women.

Sideways glance
This is how people who are either interested in you or hostile look at you. If a person at the same time raises his eyebrows high or smiles, then he is clearly interested. This is a sign of courtship. If the eyebrows, on the contrary, are frowned and brought together at the bridge of the nose, and the corners of the mouth are lowered, then the person treats you with suspicion, hostility or criticism.

drooping eyelids
If the person we are talking to lowers their eyelids, it is very annoying.
The duration of visual contact depends on the distance between the interlocutors. The greater the distance, the more prolonged eye contact is possible between them. Therefore, communication will be more effective if the partners sit on opposite sides of the table, in which case the increase in the distance between the partners will be compensated by the increase in the duration of eye contact.

Under certain lighting, the pupils can dilate or constrict, and a person's mood can change from negative to positive and vice versa. If a person is excited, then his pupils dilate. They can become up to four times their normal size. And vice versa, if a person is negative, irritated or angry, then his pupils narrow to the minimum size - "beady eyes", or "snake eyes".
Studies done on professional gamblers have shown that if their opponent wears dark glasses, the pros win fewer games.

Women look longer at those who are sympathetic to them, and men - at those who sympathize with them. Women in general use a direct gaze more often than men, and therefore they are less likely than men to perceive a gaze as a threat, on the contrary, a woman considers a direct gaze an expression of interest and a desire to establish contact. Although, by no means all direct views of men are perceived favorably by women, a lot depends on the man himself.

A man is looking for something completely different. Looking at the Stranger, he, as a rule, looks past the clothes. There, where a piece of snow-white skin opens. Or the contours of the chest, the bend of the waist, the rise of the leg are indicated.
If a woman constantly averts her eyes to the side, but at the same time she still tries to follow the gaze of a man, this indicates that she is not indifferent to the interlocutor.

If a woman looks over the interlocutor more often than at him, you should not flatter yourself - she does not experience romantic feelings, but most likely thinks about how best to use the gentleman who has turned up under her arm.
There are "shooting" looks, when a woman quickly looks at a man - and then immediately looks away. Even before he had time to intercept her "shot". And then, when a romantic acquaintance begins to be tied up, when a man began to enthusiastically perceive the Stranger, a "languid" look comes into play. From under half-closed eyelashes. But it is no longer just interest. This look calls for a new relationship. He says that the woman really liked this man. And she wants to meet. After a "languid" look, there is nowhere to retreat. This look is an invitation to acquaintance. After him, the man should come up and say something.

Young lovers who stare into each other's eyes unconsciously expect their partner's pupils to dilate. This signal is very exciting.

You should not think that a direct look is a sign of honesty and openness. Well-trained liars are able to fix their eyes on the eyes of the interlocutor, and besides, they also try to control their hands, not allowing them to approach the face. However, if the liar is not trained, for example, a child, then his lies are easy to recognize, the liar's hands reach out to his face, block his mouth and nose, his eyes run around.

If a person is dishonest or tries to hide important information, his gaze meets the gaze of the interlocutor for less than one third of the entire conversation. If eye contact lasts more than two thirds of the conversation, then this can mean one of two things: either your interlocutor finds you a very interesting or attractive person (then his pupils will dilate). Or he is hostile towards you (in which case you will notice a non-verbal challenge, and the pupils will narrow to the size of a pinhead).

It's no surprise that a nervous, shy person whose gaze constantly darts to and fro less than 30 percent of the time in a conversation inspires little confidence. Going to business negotiations, do not wear dark glasses, as they can give your partners the unpleasant feeling that they are being considered point-blank.

What does look mean?
involuntary eye movements (noticeably "shifting eyes") - anxiety, shame, deceit, fear, neurasthenia;
brilliant look - fever, excitement;
enlarged pupils - a feeling of interest and enjoyment of information, communication, photography, a partner, food, music and other external factors, acceptance of something, but also severe suffering;
chaotic movements of the pupils - a sign of intoxication (the more such movements, the drunker the person);
increased blinking - arousal, deception.
A subject who makes eye contact with you noticeably less than one-third of the entire communication period is either not being honest or trying to hide something;
the one who undisguisedly stubbornly peers into your eyes has an increased interest in you (the pupils are dilated), shows outright hostility (the pupils are narrowed) or seeks to dominate.
Constriction and expansion of the pupils are not subject to consciousness, and therefore their reaction very clearly shows the partner's interest in you. You can control your eyes, but not your pupils.
The expansion of the pupils shows an increase in interest in you, their narrowing will tell about hostility. However, such phenomena must be observed in dynamics, because the size of the pupil also depends on the illumination. In bright sunlight, the pupils of a person are narrow, in a dark room, the pupils dilate.
It is worth paying attention if the partner looks up to the left or just up (in relation, of course, to himself, and not to the observer) - he is immersed in visual memories.
Looking up to the right reveals a visual construction. Man tries to imagine what he has never seen.
Looking down to the left is an internal conversation with yourself.

Be attentive to people in order to understand them deeper!

You may have met people with magnetic eyes who seemed to have power over you and entire groups of people. To know the character of a person by their eyes, take a closer look at them: they have this very spark, and the stronger their magnetic attraction, the brighter the eyes shine and sparkle.

How to know the character of a person by the eyes

First of all, look for the sparkle in the eyes. The look, which is commonly called radiant, seems to say: "I have the joy of life." For each of us, this radiance can change depending on the state of awareness, because it is a reflection of what the ancients called "God's spark."

You may have noticed that when you are truly in love, when you are interested in expanding your horizons, or strive for self-improvement and better awareness of the world around you, your life ceases to be boring, and gems shine in your eyes. By examining a person's character with the eyes, you can learn a lot about him.

A person's eyes reflect his receptivity to life in all its varied and exciting manifestations.

Dull, "without a sparkle", eyes with a healthy body reflect a lack of enthusiasm for life and love.

When we are truly interested in improving our consciousness, we also become interested in health. We begin to realize that the body is really the temple of our soul.

This newfound respect for one's body is immediately apparent in the increased brilliance of the eyes. If you want your loved one to be not only the soul of the company, but also a happy person - a source of inspiration for you and those around you, look for someone whose eyes sparkle.

What does a person's gaze say?

Dr. Wayne Brown, another master of physiognomy, points out another important quality of the eyes, studying the character of a person by the eyes, one should pay attention to their stability. The better a person controls his ability to maintain a constant penetrating gaze, the more reliable he is. We have all heard about people with "shifting" eyes and we understand what the true meaning of this expression is.

Almost every cliché has its own truth, and this cliché is no exception. A running, unstable look suggests that a person needs to develop self-confidence and reliability.

People with shifty eyes, even those who have the very brilliance we are talking about, need to use their internal energy more constructively and avoid impulsive actions directed against others.

To know the character of a person in the eyes, try to discern whether the sparkle in the eyes of your loved one is controllable or uncontrollable. Controlled shine (with a constant look) is ideal.

A completely uncontrollable brilliance (with a shifty look) may indicate a person who is a potential (or real) fanatic. Controlled brilliance radiates the world. It is possessed by those who probably have some wonderful secret. Eye size is the third important factor.

The shape of the eyes and pupils and the character of a person

Big eyes

The larger your loved one's eyes, the more sensitive they are.

Small eyes

Small eyes indicate your partner's determination and resilience.

Pupil size is another sign of emotional difference. Under the same lighting conditions, the pupils of different people differ in size.

What do pupils say

Large pupils

Such pupils usually speak of warmth, kindness, tenderness and devotion. A person with large pupils is more open to other people's feelings.

small pupils

Such pupils indicate that the actions of a person in relation to others are based on primitive strength and that he is dissatisfied with something.

The character of a person in the iris of the eye

The size of the iris - the colored part of the eye that surrounds the pupil - says as much about a person's emotional abilities as the pupils.

Large iris

It may indicate a lack of enterprise and courage, but also speaks of a sympathetic and conservative nature. It is not easy to win the sympathy of this person by fraudulent means. Such people laugh and cry easily.

small iris

This person is dry and prosaic. He does not expect an intense manifestation of feelings. Such a person needs some approval or encouragement to show emotions, because exposing himself leads to confusion.

Human character according to the distance between the eyes

When you look into someone's eyes, you can determine if that person's general outlook on life is the same as yours, if their eyes are positioned the same way as yours. Are your eyes close together or set wide apart? How about your loved one or loved one? As a measure of the average distance between the eyes, we can conditionally take the length of the eye.

Closely spaced eyes

These people tend to be specific in their lives - they focus on the details of the material world in order to draw their own conclusions later. In an extreme negative manifestation, these can be limited and tendentious people.

Widely spaced eyes

Do you and your loved one look into each other's eyes? In general, the wider the eyes are set, the wider the outlook and views of their owner. Wide-set eyes may indicate that a person is able to dramatically expand their horizons without much effort.

Some rules for reading character through the eyes

To find out the character of a person by the eyes, all of the above factors must be interpreted together.

But when you master the art of reading a person's character from their eyes, you can tell a lot about a person's personality and ability for the type of romantic relationship you're looking for.

Eye contact—the look you give someone when you meet them and get them back—says so much more than the words of greeting you exchange. By the strength of its sociability, a smile is also priceless, and you can smile not only with your lips, but also with your eyes.

Instruction

The owners of black eyes are considered strong, resilient people with a fiery temperament. They are very loving and almost always achieve their goal, because. walk towards her.

Brown-eyed people have a quick-tempered and sensual character. They are also smart, sociable, amorous, fickle, witty and selective in their social circle.

Light brown eyes go to people who are dreamy and reclusive. They strive to do everything on their own and do not tolerate someone else's interference in their affairs.

Owners of blue eyes are emotional, sensual and unpredictable romantics. They have a highly developed sense of justice, but are also arrogant and arrogant.

People who have dark blue eyes from birth are extremely sentimental, capricious, unpredictable and persistent, have a lively imagination. And they are very vindictive and touchy.

Pale blue eyes are very deceptive - their owners are purposeful and absolutely not sentimental. Violent emotions and feelings often rage inside these personalities, which cannot be seen behind the meek gaze of blue eyes.

Gray-eyed people are smart, determined and inquisitive. Also, the gray color of the eyes gives out lucky people - they are lucky always and everywhere. Owners of gray "souls" are often monogamous.

Gray-green eyes hide a strong, strong-willed personality. The people around them consider them tough, intractable and obstinate, which helps these people a lot in achieving their goals.

Green-eyed people are distinguished by tenderness, sincerity, loyalty and reliability. They have very different and seemingly incompatible qualities: kindness and adherence to principles, tenderness and firmness.

A rare tiger eye color goes to people with a talent for reading other people's thoughts. They are creative, artistic and can be good friends if you think exactly what you are talking about.

People with gray-green-brown eyes are big skeptics. This often prevents them from making a definite decision and stop rushing about. Can't stand being alone.

In addition to the color of the iris, in order to find out the character of a person by the eyes, you need to pay attention to some other characteristics. Big-eyed people usually have a desire for leadership, they are courageous and sensual. People with small eyes are stubborn, gloomy, withdrawn and silent. When the eyes are on the same line - this is a good sign, if they are slanted down, then this means determination - in men and imprudence - in women. A swollen lower eyelid speaks of a hectic life and strong desires. If both eyelids are swollen, their owner is tired of life. Eyes without eyelashes mean stealth. In the old days, the owners of such eyes were considered servants of the devil.

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Probably, you have regretted more than once in a conversation with colleagues, and in a store, and in communication with your loved ones that you cannot read other people's thoughts. In fact, it is not necessary to be a psychic or a fortune teller to guess what a person is thinking. If you practice, you can even know for sure. And everyone can learn this, it is enough to pay attention to the expression of a person’s eyes and be able to interpret it correctly.

Instruction

A lowered look indicates embarrassment or unwillingness to look into the eyes, it should be borne in mind that in eastern countries this is a sign of respect and humility.

A look to the left (to the left - in order) indicates that a person is inventing something or remembering sounds.

A look to the left and down is an interlocutor about the impression, sensation once received.

Looking to the left and up - a person is trying to imagine any picture, image.

Looking to the right, a person is trying to remember an event.

Looking to the right and down indicates that the interlocutor is considering your words and is trying to make a decision.

Expressively raised eyes can speak of indignation, condescension and clear disapproval.

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Useful advice

In order to quickly learn how to read minds through the eyes, organize a game with your relatives and friends, during which you can ask a variety of questions and follow the gaze of the respondent. You can also ask questions by asking the interlocutor to sometimes lie. To distinguish the truth, remember that looking down and to the left is fantasy.

These rules apply to right-handers, if a person writes with his left hand, then read thoughts in his eyes, as if in a mirror projection.

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Instruction

If the interlocutor looks you straight in the eyes, such contact indicates his extreme interest. But if eye contact continues for too long, this is distrust or fear of the participant in the conversation.

Looking up, a person usually demonstrates his contempt, or irritation towards you. Also very often such a gesture means a manifestation of condescension. If a person raises his eyes up and to the right, this means that he imagines some picture stored in memory.

If your interlocutor constantly lowers his eyes and looks to the right, then this means that he is conducting an internal dialogue with himself. He may be thinking about something he said to you, or thinking about how the conversation should go.

A person who lowers his eyes and looks to the left often thinks about the impression received from something. Lowering their eyes, people often show their poor health, discomfort and even embarrassment. Often, in order to avoid conversation, people simply lower their eyes. But you should know that in Asian culture it is considered normal to look down when talking with an interlocutor.

If the interlocutor tilts his head and looks frowningly, while his pupils rise up, this indicates his humility, helpfulness, emphasized attention.

However, such a look can also reflect a secretive, prudent position - in this case, longitudinal folds will appear on the forehead. And if this look is accompanied by tension of the neck and pursed lips - there is a hostile closeness of the person.

If during a conversation your interlocutor drives aimlessly eyes and on the sides, fixing his gaze on anything, but not on you, this indicates his desire to get away from the dialogue, while showing disrespect for you.

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By the color, shape and shape of the eyes, you can find out a fairly large amount of information about a person. And it will be not only his emotional state, but also health, addictions, career and achievements in various areas of life.

To determine the nature of a person by eye color, you need to look at them in bright light. At this point, the pupils narrow as much as possible, which makes it possible to more accurately determine the color of the iris.

Owners of brown eyes - as a rule, people are too self-confident, able to make their way "through thorns to races" at any cost. In romantic relationships, these persons are hypersensitive. For the most part, brown-eyed men and women are monogamous, but they can look for the only love for many years.

People with green eyes are amorous people, experiencing every fleeting passion as love to the grave. But in terms of career, the green-eyed ones are more serious. They make very responsible and fair leaders, who are loved by the whole team.

Those who have gray eyes are calm and reasonable in everything. The family comes first for them. Most often, such people find it difficult to adapt to any kind of change. Almost all representatives of this eye color have an analytical mindset.

The owners of blue eyes, although they are romantic natures, will never believe in such things as love at first sight. Better than other representatives, they understand the psychology of relations between men and women. In professional terms, they do not pursue fame and awards, but simply do their job with high quality. In the service industry, employees are second to none.

People with a rare yellow eye color are well developed, many of them have extrasensory abilities.

In medical terms, the color of the iris is not so important. Here, the shades of protein are more interesting. In diseases of the liver, gallbladder, hepatitis, the sclera acquire a yellow tint. With anemia, the color of the proteins becomes bluish. If a person suffers from high blood pressure, then this is evidenced by a large number of red streaks and dilated vessels.

The shape of the eyes can tell about the mental organization of a person. Large almond-shaped eyes are inherent in people with an open and broad soul. Small and closely planted characterize the owner as a suspicious and cautious person. The form in which they are observed deeply is found in non-conflict personalities, soft and often spineless.

By the eyes you can find out the emotional state of a person, mood, thoughts. If you carefully monitor the direction of the gaze, the size of the pupils, it is possible to know in advance where the conversation vector will be directed.

An attentive interlocutor will be able to determine his mood by the eyes of a partner, even read his thoughts. But for this you need to be not only observant, but also to show empathy.

Pupil size

When a conversation is being conducted, the interlocutors meet with their eyes, look at each other. If the conversation partner often avoids making eye contact, either he is not interested in continuing the topic, or he is hiding something.

A sidelong glance is often used to convey interest. In most cases, it is accompanied by a slight squint and raised eyebrows. But if there is anger in the eyes, this is a sign of hostility or suspicion.

It is good if the conversation is held in daylight. Then you can observe the pupils. They completely convey the mood of a person. If the interlocutor is in a great mood, the pupils expand four times. With a decrease in mood, they are reduced to "beads".

The location of the pupils

When solving important issues with the interlocutor, you can not even peer into his eyes, but simply try to observe the location of the pupils. This will help to determine in which plane consciousness is located at a given time. In other words, to determine whether the truth is being said, another lie is being invented, or the person has simply temporarily dropped out of the conversation.

If, during communication, the interlocutor says something, lowering his eyes down and turning them to the right, his consciousness stays in the past, fishing out memories from there. But when the gaze is directed upwards and to the right, then the process of planning, presenting a picture of the future, analysis takes place. With a directed look to the right side, an analysis of the situation at a given point in time takes place, without moving to the past or future. Man is in the here and now. When solving important questions, choosing an answer, a person often looks to the right side horizontally, as if concentrating.

If the interlocutor looks to the left, he is trying to tune in emotionally. The left side of a person is responsible for emotions. That is, when the gaze is directed

Special Correspondent Daria Nikolaeva

Psychological observations show that during personal contacts, the interlocutors are not able to look at each other constantly, but only no more than 60% of the total time. However, the time of eye contact can go beyond these limits in two cases: in lovers and in aggressive people. Therefore, if an unfamiliar person looks at you for a long time and intently, most often this indicates hidden aggression. The duration of visual contact depends on the distance between the interlocutors. The greater the distance, the more prolonged eye contact is possible between them. Therefore, communication will be more effective if the partners sit on opposite sides of the table - in this case, the increase in the distance between them will be compensated by the increase in the duration of eye contact.

Women look longer at those who are sympathetic to them, and men - at those who sympathize with them. Observations show that women are more likely than men to use a direct gaze, and therefore they are less likely to perceive a gaze as a threat. On the contrary, a woman considers a direct look an expression of interest and a desire to establish contact. Although not all direct views of men are perceived favorably by women, much depends on the person himself.

You should not think that a direct look is a sign of honesty and openness. A person who knows how to lie can fix his eyes on the eyes of the interlocutor, as well as control his hands, preventing them from approaching his face. However, if the liar is not so trained, for example, a child, then deception can be easily recognized: his hands reach out to his face, block his mouth and nose, and his eyes run around.

The contraction and expansion of the pupils is not subject to consciousness, and therefore their reaction very clearly shows the partner’s interest in you. The expansion of the pupils shows an increased interest in you, their contraction will tell about hostility. However, such phenomena must be observed in dynamics, because the size of the pupil also depends on the illumination. In bright sunlight, the pupils of a person are narrow, in a dark room, the pupils dilate.

The theory of neurolinguistic programming claims that by the movement of the eyes of the interlocutor, you can find out exactly what images are now in the mind of a person and what he is doing at the moment: he is inventing or remembering.

If the partner looks up to the left or just up, then he is immersed in visual memories. Such a look can be observed in a person answering the question "what does a banknote of one hundred hryvnias look like?".

Looking upwards to the right reveals a visual construction. The man is trying to imagine what he has never seen. For example, try imagining your close friend wearing an astronaut suit.

Looking to the left to the side speaks of auditory memories. For example, remember the sounds of the piano. If the gaze is directed to the right to the side, this is a sign of auditory construction. For example, imagine how aliens talk.

Looking down to the left is an internal conversation with yourself.

Looking down to the right or just down gives kinesthetic representations. For example, emotional and tactile. That is where your gaze is directed when you remember your feelings from the soft warm bed in which you were lying.

For lefties, the picture is completely opposite.

The ability to easily and imperceptibly observe the eyes of the interlocutor, as well as analyze the results, will provide you with invaluable assistance both in daily conversations and in the event of an important business conversation.

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