How to get rid of fortune teller predictions. Dependence on predictions
I had a very difficult experience in my life. Despite my age. Once I went to a fortune teller. She asked what would happen to me and my husband. And by that time we had already broken up. As a result, she told me that I was at the crown of celibacy and nothing good would happen to me! In upset feelings, I went out and asked, but she doesn’t see the children? In response, she said that I would never have children! And that got me.
While driving home, I was almost hit by a car! And then the fun began. At home I had a high fever, I fainted and couldn’t take even a couple of steps! I felt like I was 90 years old, my blood pressure was dropping and rising, my mother could barely pump it out, and I myself regretted going to see her. A week later I went to church, and everything just went away. And a few days later I found out that I was pregnant! I'm so happy! At least my husband didn't come back! I’m still happy and I know for sure that the baby is my greatest happiness!
Margarita, 18 years old.
In 2004, during Christmas time, my cousin and I told fortunes - they called upon the spirits (they drew a circle with letters on paper and moved a needle on a thread). Her little daughter ran around with us, making us laugh. Well, we laughed then. And at the end of that year, 14 of our relatives died one by one. They died one after another after 2 days, after a week, after two. From then on I will never guess again. Don’t tell fortunes to a girl and don’t cast a spell on her - you predict yourself with fortune-telling, but with love spells you ruin your life and ruin his life, a connection is formed between you - which is oh so difficult to destroy, and you feel bad, and he suffers.
Mila, 30 years old
It’s probably not worse: admitting that your own curiosity has led to the fact that everything is not going well, is not going well, is collapsing. Fortune telling on cards, on stones, on flowers... or on anything, where does this all lead? To the point that we stop seeing reality as it really is! We believe in everything bad that the cards say, everything good is considered a coincidence. We stop living, fighting, striving. We're driving ourselves into a corner! Every day we turn to fortune telling, assuming that today we will receive a correct prediction. Oh, the cards said he doesn't love me? This can't be true! WE NEED TO TELL YOUR FORTUNE AGAIN! AND FURTHER! AND FURTHER! A day, another day... a month, a year... It’s addictive, I know from myself! And instead of this virtual nonsense, more time should be devoted to real communication! Why wait for the cards to say: “Yes, now is the right time! Confess your love to him!” And while you were wondering, “your” place next to him was taken by another... time wasted... Maybe you should stop believing what does not bring any benefit? Maybe it's time to decide for yourself when it's time to take this or that step, without resorting to the help of cards? And if someone is ready to disagree with me, then I can give an example from personal experience.
I was consumed by love. It seemed to me that only he alone could make my life happy. I guessed 3-4 times a day. I knew the layout and combinations of cards by heart. Oddly enough, I only had good things. In the end I had to marry him. And what? Instead of reciprocating his advances, I built an impregnable wall of myself. And why? Yes, because the cards said “WAIT! Don't give in to love right away. Torment him, and he will be with you forever!” And when he completely disappeared from sight, in a panic that I was losing the most precious thing in my life at that moment, I resorted to a love spell! About six months later he showed up... A romance began, and I thought that this was HAPPINESS! And then... it was all over so quickly that I didn’t even realize when I made a mistake! I have never been so hurt and upset! I still don't know why we broke up. I never met him again.
I started guessing again. I thought that the cards would explain to me why he did this to me, and, apparently, I miscalculated all the remaining happiness... completely. I understand this now. My personal life is not working out at all. Whichever man I like is fine as long as we don't get close. Then I get stuck and I rush to the Internet pages to tell my fortune! The young man immediately finds himself a girlfriend, stops communicating with me, disappears from sight, stops calling... he simply becomes unavailable to me. And this has been the case for more than one YEAR! And not just one man! And it’s not about my qualities, not about my character, not about my figure. I know how men look after me. No one can just come close! It's like some unknown force is pushing me away. Throws away everyone who gets a little closer than just a buddy or friend!
Girls, dear, good! For God's sake, DON'T GUESS, DON'T SPELL!!! You don't need this! You yourself don’t understand what you are doing... Then it will destroy your life! Don't ruin her! Don't condemn yourself to LONELINESS! GO TO CHURCH! I WENT. I ASKED TO SHOW ME THE WAY, TO GIVE ME A CHANCE TO IMPROVE LIFE. Everything got better in just a month. And then it jammed again, and I started guessing again! Everything went bad as quickly as it got better! I GIVE MY WORD TO MYSELF, BEFORE YOU AND BEFORE GOD: I WILL NEVER GUESS AGAIN, I WILL GO TO CHURCH, I WILL ASK FOR FORGIVENESS, AND I BELIEVE THAT EVERYTHING WILL BE CORRECT!
Wishing you happiness, 27 years old.
I am very interested in fortune telling; I have been doing fortune telling since childhood. I have been married 5 times, I have three children, but none of them are with me. The eldest son sits, and I keep guessing, my son asks me not to guess, everything didn’t reach me. But recently my son fell very seriously ill with tuberculosis. It doesn’t dawn on me either, but a week ago he said that he was suspected of having HIV. After reading your statements, I begin to understand why I have such troubles. How can I quit this, help.
Oksana, 37 years old.
Horror! I read the stories and was horrified. I’m guessing myself, this matter always seemed interesting and harmless. It happens that a friend comes and says casually, like, spread out the cards for me. And we do magic so peacefully...
I've been playing around with cards, but now it's getting a little scary.
A long time ago, when I was little, a friend suggested telling fortunes for the devil (somehow I even got goosebumps and my heart beat faster at this word). Well, of course I’m interested, so we’ve decided. We were sitting over the table, wondering... And then something rumbled in the pipes of the heating system, well, we think, maybe because of the temperature change, they say, the pipes are cooling down. Okay, we sit further, and then there is such a crash throughout the whole house! We got scared, jumped off, and looked: the mirror that stood in the room was cracked in half. It became so scary... Since then, I haven’t dared to “call” anyone anymore.
Only the cards have lured me in, befuddled me... My personal life isn’t working out, and now I think it’s all because of them, because of the cards. At the moment, a young man is looming on the horizon, I think I won’t take up cards, maybe everything will work out...
Enchanted, 27 years old.
My story is in no way “purer” than all of the above. It all started with palm reading; I was only 13 years old at the time. Now - 21. 8 years - an empty pursuit of prejudices. A gypsy woman I knew told fortunes for all the girls that day, said that they would all live well, and when it was my turn, the last one, she took my hand, wrinkled her face and said that she wouldn’t tell fortunes for me - there were only crosses on my hand! To say that I was shocked would be a lie, I was simply terrified! After this fortune-telling, my life seemed to have been replaced, it became not itself.
And of course, I was carried away hard by other fortune tellers - I wanted to erase the sediment in my soul. In general, everyone who was guessing said with one voice - I will marry a military commander, go far away, become a boss myself and live richly.
Not so! Two suicide attempts, two unsuccessful marriages—at my age! Constant depression, insomnia, scandals at home. By the way, all the men whom I read fortunes for sooner or later left and did not return, as a rule, without any particular good reason. But the most interesting thing is that after I started telling fortunes, I started dreaming about terrible things: an icon of the Mother of God, instead of whose face there was Satan, or that gypsy woman who told me fortunes for the first time! And then recently, after all this long torment, some grandmother came to me in a dream, put some piece of paper in my hand and said that too much, dear, you have tested your fate, God doesn’t like this, go to church and ask the Lord for forgiveness! This happened quite recently, and today I came across this site - now I’ll definitely go to church. I will no longer live, wondering how it was before, and I will convince others as best I can! Take care of your happiness when things are bad - don’t go to fortune tellers, but to God, to church - He will certainly give the correct answer!
Yana, 21 years old.
Fortune telling has always somehow attracted me. At the age of 16 I tried to dabble in love spells. I bought different books. She tried to bewitch the boy. She seemed to love her very much. There was a girl I knew at that time with abilities, sort of. I was always running to her with his photo, she said that I won’t get him now, he’ll come later. I didn't believe it. If you don’t need it, how will it come? She's all hers, so it's worth stopping fighting for him. After a while our roads will intersect.
It was all somehow forgotten. I met a man. I fell in love madly. It wasn't just us that didn't grow together. He is a man who loves freedom and did not want to change it for anything. Didn't want a relationship. We saw each other once a month, sometimes less often. We didn’t have intimate relationships, we were very protective. And he seemed to care. But I still didn’t want a relationship.
I ran to the fortune tellers again... I was going to a completely different woman. I was looking for a house, and my grandmother stopped me on the street. In short, I met, and I was with another girl, and she told us fortunes. Without cards, she just holds her hand over the photo. Says something. And then he tells. She said that I shouldn’t keep him around me now, don’t be jealous of him, don’t make him nervous. That he’ll get some exercise, and in two years we’ll get married.
The joy from all the predictions was enough for a couple of days. Reality prevailed. I also went to see her with a photograph of the girl he slept with. Everything she said came true 100% the other way around. I didn't notice at first. Then everything began to improve, I stopped going to see her. I met a girl by chance. Her mother also treats and tells fortunes. And it was passed on to her. I talked to her well. She began to help me if something went wrong. We will quarrel, she will tell me how to make peace, what to say. He is a very complex person.
And she also told me that this is my man, I just have to wait until he understands everything himself. And time passed. I periodically fell into severe depression, he, of course, did not know about anything.
I consulted with a friend literally every day. What to say, how to act. Every little thing. Well, she once said, say, talk to him. Something is dragging on. I started talking about relationships several times, but it didn’t end well. Well, I say, I'm afraid. She says no, everything will be fine. She said 100% that she might think about it for a few days, but then everything will work out for us.
Everything turned out the other way around again. The conversation went sideways. We stopped communicating altogether. Deleted my contacts. Didn't pick up the phone. A month later I wrote to him. We talked for literally a week. He started dating someone else. For the first time in a year and a half of our so-called “relationship”.
I can't imagine what to do now. After reading all this, I think, maybe I really “miscalculated”?
How to atone for all these sins now? I'm drying up without a person...
Alexandra, 18 years old.
At the beginning of the year, luck smiled on me. A young man (I communicated with him on the Internet several years ago, and in December 2009 I resumed correspondence) declared his love, proposed marriage and was supposed to come for me at the beginning of summer. Everything was fine, but I wanted confirmation, so to speak, “from above.” I found a tarot fortune telling site on the Internet and... I was fascinated! Less than a month has passed since my beloved fell silent and does not answer any of my letters. I was upset and calmed myself down, but today I was so angry that I wanted to find a love spell spell and... I ended up on your site.
Apparently this was necessary. I realized a lot again. Although I knew before that fortune telling is the dark side of life, it was all in theory. And here's the practice: the loss of a loved one. The anger passed, and I felt, oddly enough, humility. I resigned myself to the punishment, I accepted it. Although somewhere in the depths there is a thought: “I will repent, and everything will return.” It’s difficult, right away: it’s like stepping out of the darkness into a bright light—your eyes close on their own. But I don't want to live in the dark. I don't know what will happen next. But I don’t want to return to fortune telling - we have to pay for everything in our lives!
Mistika, 24 years old.
After reading all the stories, I decided to tell my own. When I was about 14 years old, I met a guy, we started talking, I liked him, and then I accidentally saw a book in the store: “Fortune-telling,” and I got hooked on these fortune-telling like crazy, and that guy at that time switched to my friend .
Then another one appeared - everything was fine, but I started guessing again, I could sit for hours! And on maps, and online, and in a book! As a result, this guy also turned away from me.
Then it became no longer interesting, I gave up fortune-telling, became older and met a guy. Besides him, other guys, also worthy, wanted a relationship with me. Then I broke up with him and started a relationship with someone else, everything was fine... but he was talking to his ex-girlfriend, at that time I thought there was more to it than communication, and I was very worried.
Well, and then I got carried away. It started with simple conspiracies to separate them (verbal), then candles and knives were used... but once I succeeded, they didn’t communicate for exactly 6 months (I later compared the dates), and then, feeling that I could separate them, I began make more and more fights, eventually he began to move away from me. And so I had a falling out (against him and her ex), and he left me! Just disappeared.
I loved it madly! He wrote to me 5 months later, he wanted to see me, but he suddenly changed his mind, he was rude... in the end we saw each other exactly six months later. After that quarrel, I realized that I had quarreled myself with him and never set foot in magic again.
But instead, I got hooked on fortune telling again, and I came across a fortune telling game with the alphabet and a pendulum. I thought it was a lie, but when I made this alphabet, and they said the word to me: “Hello!” I was shocked... and started asking: “What awaits me? Who is my future husband? I received answers to all my questions, and one answer was that an acquaintance would become my husband. But two weeks later this friend crashed. I blamed myself, but then I thought it was an accident, but I was deeply mistaken... You have to pay for the truth... and I paid with the death of a dear person.
Again I began to guess, the answers were truthful, but their deadline was shifted, sometimes by a week, sometimes by a day, everything about the past was true, but the future was gone. Or the answer was good for me, but in reality it was all wrong. The pendulum said - my beloved will break up with his ex in two weeks - in the end the guy told me that he had started living with her... And everything like that. I wanted to forget him, find another guy, but everyone is running away from me. I’m a pretty girl, there were a lot of guys who were invited to marry, but now there’s no one. All alone! Even the guy I love (ex) starts communicating with me, seems to be getting better, but as soon as I come home and tell my fortune, he disappears again.
Girls - we guess our own happiness!!! Fortune telling is harmful!!! Quit before it's too late! And ask God for forgiveness!!!
Katya, 22 years old
I’ve been involved in fortune-telling since my student days, and I loved it myself (not seriously, of course), and I went to see fortune-tellers and witches.
I began to notice that depression appeared, failures in my personal life, sometimes a married man would get caught, sometimes they would just disappear without saying a word, work wasn’t working out, there were scandals at home, in general, everything was bad. Thoughts about suicide began to appear.
I converted to Orthodoxy (although I was baptized from birth and believed, I thought that guessing was not so bad), I found out that guessing is a great sin, because of which depression, fears, and failures begin.
It all started with fortune telling using playing cards. I was 14 then. Then I fell in love with a classmate and swore that until he confessed his love, I would not touch the cards. The guy didn’t love me, so a certain number of years have passed, and the deck of cards is still lying where I put it.
One day, a friend told me fortunes using Tarot cards. I liked it because everything came true. After some time (about a month), I again asked her to tell my fortune. She said that she doesn’t do this anymore, and she could give me cards and a manual on mastering the fortune-telling technique. Just in case, I refused. A friend said it makes her angrier, darker.
I used to think that this was something I could easily quit. Once, I cut it off, and that’s it. But after some time I wanted to replace real fortune telling with surrogates. These were numerous online fortune-telling and solitaire games, daisies, fortune-telling for a dream about a betrothed, Tibetan MO fortune-telling, notebook fortune-telling for girls for boys (using sticks, counting and crossing out numbers, answers to questions). The craving for fortune telling intensified every time problems arose in my personal life and I began to doubt the feelings of my chosen ones, or when serious problems and troubles loomed at work.
Now I’m 24, I’m telling fortunes on sticks for a boy, like a sixteen. Every day I raid my favorite esoteric sites and play solitaire, tell fortunes for love using tarot cards online. During these Christmastides, I tried to call my betrothed by eating Taranka at night and not drinking anything. I dreamed about all sorts of creepy crap, and my grandmother dreamed about all my dead grandmothers that same night. When I woke up, I decided that this was the first and last attempt to properly tell my fortune for my betrothed.
No, of course, another friend and I tried pouring wax into water and installing mirrors when we were about 16 years old, but nothing normal came of it.
Besides, I like to climb into dream books. I have Miller's dream book, which I am very proud of, because it is one of the few books in a foreign language that I managed to grab for a small amount of money. But sometimes this dream book is not enough, so I check every image or action from a dream that I remember with dream books on the Internet. Often everything comes true.
I believe in all horoscopes indiscriminately, incl. and in television programs, and in newspapers, and in magazines. It happened that in a supermarket, in order not to buy a magazine, I leafed through it at the counter, read the horoscope and left. And I try not to miss the morning program, because there is a running line with a horoscope. Oddly enough, often all the horoscopes that I read came true.
I WANT TO END MY ADDICTION TO FORTUNE STORIES BECAUSE
1) It takes up too much of my time.
2) When I think about the reasons for this dependence, it begins to seem to me that my life is so dull and monotonous that only fortune telling can brighten up my leisure time. I start blaming myself for not being able to make my life interesting enough.
3) As a result, I begin to blame myself for not being able to escape from my provincial town, in which there is simply nowhere to go except taverns, to blame myself for the fact that, being a believer, I commit a sin, to blame myself for the fact that without fortune telling , I can’t take a step without a dream book and without a horoscope. Thus, being a reasonable, self-sufficient and adult woman, I doubt my ability to manage my life, although obviously, in the outside world, no one doubts this. I have a prestigious job, I’m in good standing with my bosses, I have a driver’s license, I know how to cook, I go to church, good men pay attention to me, but no one except two friends knows about my dirty little secret - my addiction to fortune telling. Even my parents.
4) I have to hide this addiction from all my acquaintances, because I am afraid that they, just like I doubt, will doubt my competence, my spirituality, my self-confidence and in the future, my ability manage yourself and your life.
5) In the end it somehow went wrong.
I need advice from those who have experienced the experience of getting out of addiction. How did you deal with the problem? What helped you?
Let me continue to keep a diary and record all the processes that will happen to me. I hope this won’t bother other users too much, but still, sorry in advance.
Day 1. Everything is tolerable. How I specially dreamed about colorful dreams. I did not remove the dream book from its usual place on purpose, so that associations and connections did not arise. But she didn’t look into it either. On the Internet, to pass the time, I found a couple of interesting books. I wrote a poem.
Day 2. We disagreed with our loved one. We are not dating, we just communicate as friends, but I like him. In the evening, thoughts about the pyramid of love in the tarot reading came to mind. I wanted to bite my fingers and hit myself on the head with something, so I didn’t go anywhere.
Day 3. Your loved one gives the impression of being cold, disillusioned and uninterested. At home I wanted to unwind in the usual way - to play a couple of games of solitaire. I wanted to bang my head again, this time on the keyboard. Since the emotions could not find a way out, she began to roar loudly and for a long time. But a friend wrote on time. We first corresponded, I calmed down, then we called and talked for three hours. Laughed like a fool. I wanted to read the Bible, but I remembered that there is a Psalter there, and Vladimir Monomakh used it to tell fortunes.
Day 4.
Your loved one doesn't answer calls. The desire to tell fortunes is growing.
April, 4. A stage has come when very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very -very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very -very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very -very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very -very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very -very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very -I really, really, really want to. Tell your fortune. For love. I can't convey it. My heart is already squeezing so badly.
Seriously. Everything that happened before is a game compared to what is now.
I'm afraid to open the Bible, otherwise I'll interpret some of the lines as a sign. I'll go to church tomorrow if I have time to get home from work.
For a month there were breakdowns. I looked at a dream book once, casually flipped through books a couple of times, came across lines and thought how this relates to what is happening now. It’s not like she directly called it “page such and such, line such and such.” But then I stood and thought for a long time. And my parents also told me in the morning that they read in the horoscope for my sign in the morning program. Although I watch it too. And I turn away when I see the horoscope.
There is discord in the relationship with your loved one. He was probably disappointed in me, and I had not yet had time to be disappointed in him. And now another guy has appeared who persistently takes the initiative, and I have not yet understood why. And I’m sitting thinking: should I go with him or should I wait? So what if I love him? What if God knows better?
On Easter I had a strange dream. I dreamed that we were being bombed again, and this time heavily. I started looking for meaning in dream books because I wanted to find out whether it was just a transfer of experienced events, or whether God was warning me of danger. I don't feel guilty for what happened - and this is the first sign of a shift for the better. I very rarely want to guess. Then the real frenzy began. Because LILAC began to bloom around. And everyone knows that in order to be lucky, you need to find a flower with 5 petals. And some civilians checked how their day was going, right in the bush))) Now I was thinking about how to make it so that I didn’t want to look into the lilacs. And I realized that there was no way. I myself am interested in finding a flower with 5 petals, and it’s interesting purely for the sake of looking. I'm thrilled to have found him. This is how I deceived myself for a week. And then I realized that all lilac flowers are beautiful - with four, five, six, and even three petals, because they are all the creation of God. They grow not in order to make someone’s day happy, but so that God shows us that there is an exception to any rule, that all life on earth is unique and beautiful in its own way, that the world and the surrounding creatures need to be in it. love and appreciate while they last. So that.
I started looking at daisies with love. After all, if you look closely, these are very beautiful flowers! You can look at them for hours and it won’t get boring! The clear mesh of the yellow center is mesmerizing; you just want to touch the delicate petals to check if they are porcelain. And people tear off these petals with the stupid question “loves it or doesn’t love it” or “whether I’ll give it up or not.” But daisies were not born for this; they bloom and wither. They live for something else. More important than even a loved one. More important than anything at all. They live for the same thing that others live for.
Not a single painted piece of cardboard, not a single flash application, not a single dream book, not a single accidentally noticed phrase will make a person happy. But a simple chamomile will do it. She can do it. Because fortune telling satisfies someone's egoism. And flowers make the world a better place.
as for men. In my opinion, for some reason it seems to me that they are also living people. They feel something, they worry, and they don’t necessarily have to worry about me.
I thought for a long time about what to do and who to stay with. Until I prayed and went to bed. This morning a thought came to my mind. There are thoughts that hit the mark. And such thoughts come from above. "I have to leave both of them."
There is a man whom I love very much. But he doesn't love me. There is no point in terrorizing him, I really love him very much, and I wish only the best. I am ready to fight with anyone who does the slightest harm to him, and I am not ready to keep him with me - next to an unlovable woman. I have to let him go, and, Lord, how hard it is to do so! He is often nearby, and sometimes you really want to confess everything to him. I know, if I take at least one step towards him, he will see and respond, and everything will start spinning again... But what will this relationship bring us? Perhaps I don't live up to his expectations, otherwise he wouldn't have thought 2 years before asking me out on a date. Perhaps he only expects sex from me, and I cannot give my body to the first person who looks in my direction.
There was a second man who didn’t mind dating me, but I couldn’t date him because, as corny as it sounds, my heart is very busy. I could barely sew it off, and had to sew it off very roughly. But I know: it’s better to hurt right away so that it goes away faster than to drink blood for years, in a gentle manner.
What I definitely understood is that my men are alive. and there is no need to play them like solitaire.
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- Author of the question - Other Fortune tellers, psychics, gypsies who use hypnosis are people who have chosen the bad guy Satan. It is they who give addiction in thoughts that attack our minds. The death of these people is brutal. You can track their bad end in the press. We recently had a fortune teller stabbed to death right in her adopted apartment and not found someone. People call them witches. And they know from whom they receive power and use this dirt. A believer, a person who loves God lives according to the commandments of God and asks for help only from his Creator. Fortune telling is a great sin. And you have a direct path to confession in the Church and pray to God not to return to these demonic things. Esoterics, horoscopes are not for a believer. Our goal in life is to find love for God and all people. Do not waste precious time, but ask a believing God-loving person for your future husband, and not throw cards at Satan and his friends, demons. Stay good. Orthodox books, films, frequent confession and communion are our cure for despondency and depression. Only a person turns to Bose and an affectionate husband appears and children and the little man begins to see the meaning of life.
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a very familiar situation... I remember myself a few years ago. This addiction disappeared from me as if by hand. but I'm afraid my method won't suit you. Then I had a problem with my mother... a serious operation... then I just prayed to God and talked, make sure everything goes well with my mother, I promise I won’t touch the cards or look in the dream book. and that’s all... I had to hold on out of fear for my mother... it works until today.Well, in general, iostream gave very good advice, don’t satisfy the habit and it will dry up.
and also since you admitted that you are a believer, then resort to the help of God. go to confession from the bottom of your heart, repent of what you have done, for relying not on God but on some maps, omens and horoscopes... God especially helps when a person wants to get rid of his bad habits... not a new car, not a job with a better salary, but improving yourself. in this he is the fastest and most faithful assistant)))
pray about it at home. if you slip up again and pull back on the old behavior, go again and repent... the second and third time, and the tenth if necessary. The main thing is not to give up.
and there is nothing surprising in the fact that you cannot get rid of it in any way... this is the property of sin... it is never possible to get rid of it only on your own, until a person admits: I can’t do anything about it, Lord, help me It is often very difficult for me to achieve any progress.
but this does not mean that everything should be entrusted only to him, do what is in your power and hope for help from above and ask for this help when your strength is not enough... then everything will work out.
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- Author of the question +5.0 Others (1) Just don't indulge the habit. Don’t read horoscopes, dream books, don’t guess, don’t surf websites. This is not easy and the addiction will not go away immediately, but if you start limiting yourself, then over time the craving will decrease. But this is again a question of willpower and desire.
If you satisfy at least once, the addiction will remain, so look, be careful.
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This section was created as a response to the cry of the soul of our readers who have decided to put an end to fortune-telling and other occult-magical experiences and change their lives, but do not know how to do it.
The consequences of Sonya's fortune telling are typical for all active fortune tellers. Destruction of personal life, depression, addiction to fortune telling. Fortune tellers are deeply unhappy and have forgotten how to manage their own lives. Let’s say right away that you can get rid of all these troubles.
Stories of overcoming mistakes - love spells and conspiracies
About a year ago I bewitched a guy. There was no effect, but only torment and anxiety, I suffered for six months, and then went to church and repented, began to pray to the Mother of God. It calmed my soul, of course I didn’t return the guy...
Stories of liberation from fortune telling (Part 1)
Yesterday I asked my friend’s mother to tell my fortune as before, she refused, and gave reasons that she couldn’t. A couple of days ago I suddenly quarreled with a friend, through whom one girl recently told me fortune. And then I find myself on this site! And dreams! I cry and understand how the Lord is already knocking on my heart with his fists: “Come to your senses! Hear me, stupid, because life passes, and what are you doing? You ask for happiness, I want to give it to you, but you still don’t hear me, how you need to live for this!” And so, my dear, my dear, I got through! Previously, I gave up fortune telling and said that I would only listen to Him. And she lied. But He didn’t turn away, girls. Now I DO NOT WANT to trust anyone or anything other than Him. And I won't.
Stories of liberation from fortune telling (Part 2)
One fine morning I realized that I had to do at least something myself, and not rely on someone unknown. I went to church that same day. In our suburbs there is a temple with an icon of the Iveron Mother of God. She defended her service, lit candles for the health of all people and her opponents, and the one with whom the relationship was completely complicated, simply in her own words asked for happiness for him. It’s strange, but after leaving the church, I somehow felt calm and good, I had a firm confidence that everything would work out and everything would be fine, and most importantly, instead of melancholy and despondency, light, hope and faith appeared. Since then things have really improved. You can’t go anywhere without adversity and troubles, of course, but when you know that they won’t last forever, and in the church there is always a place for everyone, and there is enough faith for everyone, life becomes easier and brighter.
Stories of liberation from fortune telling. Girls' fortune telling (Part 3)
My mother has been telling fortunes all her life. At one time even for money, but mostly at the request of friends. And her friends also wonder. At the same time: not one of them has a successful personal life, not one of them has happiness. Their children are also all unhappy: one got divorced, I never had anyone, the third friend has no children.
Stories of liberation from fortune telling. Rite of Exorcism (Part 4)
I had a similar experience when I was 16 years old - I tried to bewitch a guy for a long time, and at first without love, I wanted power over him. Nothing worked out, but I myself fell in love with him very much. I bewitched her many more times, I lost peace, as if I was in a fog, I thought only about this and as a result - nothing, just emptiness in my soul. At the same time, I was telling fortunes on playing cards, every day, everything came true. After some time, I came to faith, went to confession for the first time and was smart enough to confess that I was practicing love spells. This guy and I have gone in different directions, we even live far from each other...
Healing from the effects of magic (1)
At the age of 13-14, my mother brought home books on Stepanova’s magic, then on Buddhist philosophy. I was unbaptized, my mother was from a Muslim family, my father was a terrible atheist. I started practicing, but nothing worked. Then I read that the unbaptized will not succeed. At the age of 15, in September, my mother, my younger sister, and I received the Sacrament of Baptism, not knowing what kind of sacrilege we were committing, a desecration of holy baptism...
Healing from the effects of magic (2)
I also began to notice that the program “Battle of Psychics” made me a fan of horror films. Which is not at all like me. As if someone is pushing... Do you understand?! It became scary to ride on the subway because bad thoughts came into my head. I started reading horoscopes and deciphering dreams. There was once, as if a man’s voice whispered a bad word, I didn’t even want to write, although there was only one in the room. Moreover, it’s strange, but true, I attracted gypsies in my life, as one, the second will come, I run away from them, because I’m afraid.
The spiritual world should be explored carefully
We know that the spiritual world exists, that this spiritual world is ambiguous - there are light (good) forces, and there are dark (evil) forces. Any occultism is a direct contact with dark, evil forces. When a person begins to communicate with these forces, they, being interested in the person becoming dependent on them, initially give the person various baits: they allow him to experience some unusual states, discover some abilities in himself that intoxicate the person, give him the illusion that he has achieved something big, good, valuable...
Is it possible to heal a healer?
“Extrasensory perception is not just a type of occult healing. It is also a special worldview, with its own ideological axioms, views on life and principles of behavior. This worldview is based on completely non-Christian positions, and this is the whole difficulty of trying to convert psychics to the true path.
Return from the road leading to hell, or confession of the “twice initiated”
What is the price of that “secret knowledge”, those “superpowers” that people in their pride so passionately crave to obtain in order to be “gods” without God? Unusual skills are often “discovered” so simply, “suddenly,” that behind the naive, ignorant delight, “newcomers” forget to even think: where do I get all this from, how will I pay for it, and who will I pay?..
Return from the world of parapsychology
At the age of 19, due to non-reciprocal love, my journey into the world of parapsychology began. I read and used everything that came to hand, fortunately the Internet now allows me to do this. I did love spells and spells, some worked, some didn’t - that’s how I lived...
Who's in a hurry to get a report?
Nowadays, you can often hear a recommendation to undergo a reprimand in connection with a variety of problems - a person drinks, studies poorly, does not want to go to church, has a serious illness, experiences failures in his personal life, etc. - the machinations of demons are seen in everything, from whom they offer to get rid of by being present at the lecture. Is this always justified?
Cases of healing and liberation (from the effects of magic)
His ancestors were engaged in Russian magic and spells. As a result of this, his grandparents developed mediumistic abilities. His grandmother suffered from depression and was irritable and selfish by nature. Mental disorders led to her being admitted to a psychiatric hospital...
It is no secret that some people, having once received a prediction, begin to ask for a prediction for any action they take - this can simply lead to a kind of addiction. Yes, there are such people... From the outside it begins to seem that a person turns into a robot when he perceives every fortune-telling as a program. And worse - if he hasn’t been told such a program yet, then he begins to panic and go into depression. A person loses himself, loses his choice from many options of paths.
In fact, a person’s life (or better yet, fate) is dictated by global events that cannot be avoided. However, the path to these events can be completely different and here it is up to the person to choose, that is, a person can choose a shorter path, a longer path, or a completely different path with different events. If you were predicted that everything would be fine with you, and you were told, for example, with whom it would be good and how to get there, then you don’t need to ask further about each step you take.
A prediction is an approximate and most beneficial development of the situation for the questioner. So that everything will be wonderful in the future. Even if it is negative. But if there is negativity, there is always a way to avoid it.
Telling the truth is easy and pleasant (c)
Of course, curiosity is in everyone’s blood, and even if everything is normal in people’s lives, they all certainly need to know for some reason when things will get even better - husband, children, etc. Moreover, the majority do not even know what to do with this information - they received it and that’s it, they calmed down, they don’t even wait, but just a sigh of relief.
We want to know the truth, but then we don’t know what to do with it.
It is good to know the truth when you are ready to change something in life (thanks to this truth).
Fortune telling addiction
Appears when you do not want to decide anything in your life. And also the deep-seated thought that nothing depends on me. If this is so, then you don’t need to do anything, but to calm down you can tell fortunes so that it doesn’t get too bad.
It is also important to consider the following points. Often, people are simply looking for easy solutions to their problems. It is much easier to hear words of hope and continue to wait for something without taking any steps towards achieving your goals. A person should not rely one hundred percent on a predictor, even if he is a highly qualified specialist. Besides, sometimes you just come across charlatans. Often, those fortune tellers and predictors who work for money themselves deliberately “draw” the client into addiction. A weak person follows the lead of scammers when they do not even stop at banal intimidation. We cannot discount the notorious gypsies with their ancestral ability to braid their tongues.
Breaking free from dependence on predictions
To get rid of dependence on predictions, you need to clearly understand that a person’s fate is in his own hands. Anyone can change their future. Believing in yourself is the best way out of difficult situations. Relatives and friends can help with this; you can tell them about your experiences. You can also go to church (for Christians) and confess - perhaps the root of the problems lies in some sins that do not allow one to live in peace and require constant tension from a person. Father will read the prayer and everything will return to normal, and over time it will be possible to completely give up going to soothsayers and fortune-tellers. As a last resort, it is advisable to turn to psychologists, because by and large, such an addiction is no different from a gambling addiction or an addiction to alcohol.
