Determining the type of personality disorder type test. Borderline personality disorder

Why Borderline Personality Disorder is Difficult to Diagnose

Borderline personality disorder is a relatively recent addition to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) of the American Psychiatric Association and the International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems (ICD) of the World Health Organization. Accordingly, the majority of mental health practitioners who completed training before 2000 were not trained in the diagnosis and treatment of this complex disorder as part of their professional training programs.

Additionally, the clinical definition of Borderline Personality Disorder is very broad. The DSM-IV defines it in terms of nine criteria, of which 5 or more are indicative of a disorder. This results in 256 criterion groups

ev, of which any group is diagnostic for BPD. Within these constellations there are high functioning borderlines who function well in society and whose disorders are not very obvious to new acquaintances or the casual observer. Also within these constellations there are low functioning borderlines who are more obvious as they cannot hold down a job and are prone to self-harm. Suicidal attempts or suicidal ideation and anorexia/bulimia are among the most serious aspects of this disorder - yet many carriers of the disorder do not exhibit this.

The correct diagnosis and treatment of borderline personality disorder is, at best, merely known within the community of health professionals, marriage and family counselors, and family therapists, who are often hesitant to diagnose or treat the disorder. As a result, most borderlines are diagnosed or treated for other illnesses, such as depression or PTSD. If you suspect borderline personality disorder, it is best to use a professional.

Below we have listed available resources for how BPD is defined, as well as several characteristics of the disorder by professional organizations.

The Diagnostic Interview for Borderline (DIB-R) is the best known “test” for diagnosing BPD. The DIB is a semi-structured clinical interview that takes 50-90 minutes to complete. Designed to be administered by experienced clinicians, the test consists of 132 questions and observations using 329 summary statements. The test examines areas of activity associated with borderline personality disorder. The four areas of operation include:
-impact (chronic/major depression, helplessness, hopelessness, worthlessness, guilt, anger, anxiety, loneliness, boredom, emptiness),
-cognition (strange looks, unusual sensations, non-delusional paranoia, quasi-psychosis),
-impulsive actions (substance abuse/addiction, sexual deviations, manipulative suicide attempts, other impulsive behavior),
-interpersonal relationships (intolerance of loneliness, abandonment, absorption, fears of destruction, -anti-dependence, stormy relationships

behavior, manipulativeness, dependence, devaluation, masochism/sadism, demandingness, entitlement).

The test is available free of charge by contacting John Gunderson M.D. McLean Hospital in Belmont Massachusetts (617-855-2293).

The Structured Clinical Interview (now SCID-II) was formulated in 1997 by First, Gibbon, Spitzer, Williams, Benjamin. It is close to the language of the DSM-IV Axis II personality disorder criteria. There are 12 groups of questions corresponding to these 12 personality disorders. Features, their absence, subthreshold value, reliability or unreliability of information are calculated. The questionnaire is available from American Psychiatric Publishing ($60.00).

The Personality Disorder Beliefs Questionnaire is a short, self-administered test that identifies tendencies associated with a personality disorder. People with borderline disorder are more likely to answer questions positively.

Other commonly used tests are the Zanarini Rating Scale for Borderline Personality Disorder (ZAN-BPD), the McLean Screening Instrument for Borderline Personality Disorder (MSI-BPD). There are several free, unofficial, but useful tests available.

Symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder according to the National Institutes of Health

People with borderline personality disorder often have very unstable patterns of social relationships. While they may develop intense but

intense attachment, their attitude towards family, friends and loved ones can suddenly shift from idealization (intense admiration and love) to devaluation (intense anger and hostility). Thus, they may form a quick attachment and idealize the other person, but when a slight separation or conflict occurs, they suddenly go to the other extreme and angrily accuse the other person of not caring about them at all.

People with borderline personality disorder are very sensitive to rejection, even from their own family members, reacting with anger and experiencing stress even during mild events such as vacations, business trips, or sudden changes in plans. These fears of abandonment seem to be related to the difficulty of experiencing feelings of attachment to significant others at a time when loved ones are physically absent, and the person with borderline disorder feels abandoned and worthless. Suicide threats and attempts may occur along with anger when perceived rejection and disappointment.

People with borderline personality disorder also tend to exhibit other forms of impulsive behavior, such as excessive spending, binge eating, and risky sexual behavior. Borderline personality disorder often co-occurs with other psychiatric problems, particularly bipolar disorder, depression, anxiety disorders, substance abuse and other personality disorders.

Symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder - Mayo Clinic

People with borderline personality disorder often have an unstable sense of who they are. That is, their self-esteem and self-image changes frequently and quickly. They usually see themselves as evil or bad, and sometimes they may feel as if they don't exist at all. This unstable self-image can lead to frequent changes in jobs, friendships, goals, values, and gender identity.

Relationships are usually chaotic. People with borderline personality disorder often experience love-hate relationships with others. They can

idealize someone at one moment, and then suddenly and radically move to rage and hatred against the backdrop of resentment or even misunderstanding. This is because people with borderline disorder have difficulty perceiving “gray” areas—things in their perception may be either black or white. For example, in the eyes of a person with borderline personality disorder, someone can be either good or bad. The same person can be good one day and evil the next.

In addition, people with borderline personality disorder are often prone to impulsive and risky behavior. This behavior often results in harm - emotional, physical and financial. For example, they may drive riskily, engage in unsafe sex, take illegal drugs, spend money, or gamble. People with borderline personality disorder are also often prone to suicidal behavior or intentionally self-harming behavior for the purpose of emotional relief.

Other signs and symptoms of borderline personality disorder may include:

Strong emotions that often increase or decrease.
Intense but brief episodes of anxiety or depression.
Inappropriate anger, sometimes escalating into physical confrontation.
Difficulties associated with self-control - managing your emotions and impulses.
Fear of loneliness.

Symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder - American Psychiatric Association (DSM-5)

Individuals who fit this type of personality disorder have an extremely fragile self-concept that is easily destroyed and fragmented under stress and leads to the experience of a lack of identity or a chronic feeling of emptiness. As a result, they have an impoverished and/or unstable self-structure and difficulty maintaining stable intimate relationships. Self-esteem is often associated with self-loathing, rage and despair. People with this disorder experience rapidly changing, intense, unpredictable and reactive emotions and may become extremely anxious or depressed. They may also become angry, hostile, and feel unappreciated, mistreated, or victimized. They may engage in verbal or physical acts of aggression when angry. Emotional reactions typically occur in response to negative interpersonal events associated with loss or disappointment.

Relationships are based on fantasies of needing others for survival, excessive dependence, and fear of rejection and/or rejection. Dependency includes both insecure attachment, which involves difficulty experiencing loneliness and intense fear of loss, abandonment, or rejection by significant others; and the urgent need for contact with significant others in a state of stress or grief, is sometimes accompanied by very submissive, submissive behavior. At the same time, the intense, close involvement of another person

This leads to fear of loss of identity. Thus, interpersonal relationships are highly unstable, alternating between overdependence and escape from involvement. Empathy is seriously impaired.

Basic emotional traits and interpersonal behavior may be associated with cognitive dysregulation, that is, cognitive functioning may be impaired during moments of interpersonal stress, leading to information processing in a concrete, black-and-white, uncompromising way. Quasi-psychotic reactions, including paranoia and dissociation, may progress to transient psychosis. People of this type are characterized as impulsive, acting on the spur of the moment, and often engaging in activities with potentially negative consequences. Intentional self-harm (eg, cutting, burning), suicidal ideation, and suicide attempts typically occur in the context of intense distress and dysphoria, especially in the context of feelings of abandonment, when an important relationship is destroyed. Intense stress can also lead to other forms of risky behavior, including including substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating or promiscuous sex.

1. Negative emotionality: emotional lability
Having unstable emotional experiences and mood changes; having emotions that arise due to high excitability, intensity and/or under the influence of events and circumstances.

2. Negative emotionality: self-harm
The emergence of thoughts and behaviors associated with self-harm (eg, deliberate cutting or burning) and suicide, including suicidal ideation, threats, gestures, attempts.

3. Negative emotionality: unsafe separation
Fear of rejection and/or separation from significant others; stress when significant others are absent or unavailable.

4. Negative emotionality: anxiety
Feelings of nervousness, tension, and/or being on edge; worry about past unpleasant events and future negative possibilities; feeling of fear and

uncertainty.

5. Negative emotionality: low self-esteem
Having a low opinion of yourself and your abilities; conviction of one's own uselessness and that one is worthless, self-dislike and a feeling of dissatisfaction with oneself, the conviction that one is not capable of anything and cannot do anything well.

6. Negative emotionality: depression
Frequent experiences of decline/unhappiness/depression/hopelessness; difficulties in getting out of such states, the belief that loneliness leads to depression.

7. Antagonism/resistance: hostility
Irritability, impulsiveness; unkindness, rudeness, unfriendlyness, spiteful, angry responses to minor insults and insults.

8. Antagonism/resistance: aggression
Tendency to stinginess, cruelty and heartlessness; verbal, sexual or physical violence, humiliation of others, willing and conscious participation in acts of violence against persons and objects; active and open belligerence or vindictiveness; dominance and intimidation for the purpose of control.

9 Disinhibition: Impulsivity
Acting on the spur of the moment in response to immediate stimuli, without a plan or anticipation of results, difficulty planning, inability to learn from experience.

10 Schizotypy: predisposition to dissociation
Tendency to experience interruption in the flow of conscious experience; loss of time intervals (“loss of time”, for example, a person does not know how he ended up in this place); experiencing what is happening around you as strange or unreal.

Symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder - American Psychiatric Association (DSM-IV)
A personality disorder is diagnosed based on symptoms and a thorough psychological evaluation. To be diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, a person must meet the criteria described in the DSM. DSM criteria note that people with borderline personality disorder have a pattern of unstable relationships, self-esteem and mood, as well as impulsive behavior. They usually begin in early adulthood. These guidelines are published by the American Psychiatric Association and are used by mental health professionals to diagnose mental conditions and by insurance companies for reimbursement purposes.

Borderline personality disorder is a profound pattern of unstable interpersonal relationships, self-esteem, and emotional functioning, and is characterized by impulsivity that begins in early adulthood and is present in a variety of contexts. For diagnosis, five or more of the following symptoms must be identified.

1. Desperate efforts to avoid real or imagined rejection. Note: (not including suicide or self-harm - these are covered in criterion 5).

2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships, characterized by alternating extremes - idealization and devaluation.

3. Identity disorders - obvious and persistently unstable self-esteem and sense of self.

4. Impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially harmful (eg, spending money, sex, drug addiction, reckless driving, overeating). Note: (not including suicide or self-harm - these are covered in criterion 5).

5 Repeated suicidal behavior, gestures, threats, self-harming actions.

6. Emotional instability

and due to marked mood reactivity (eg, intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety, typically lasting several hours and only rarely lasting more than a few days).

7. Chronic feeling of emptiness.

8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty managing anger (eg, frequent temper tantrums, constant anger,

repeated physical collisions).

9 . Transient stress-related paranoid ideas or severe dissociative symptoms.

Borderline personality disorder is a serious mental illness, less known than schizophrenia or bipolar disorder (manic depression), but no less common. Borderline personality disorder is a form of pathology on the border of psychosis and neurosis.

The disease is characterized by mood swings, an unstable connection with reality, high anxiety and a strong level of desocialization. As a result, borderline personality disorder can disrupt families, careers, and an individual's sense of self. As a disorder of emotional control, borderline personality disorder often leads to suicide attempts.

Individuals suffering from this illness have a very complex relationship with reality. It is difficult to help them, but it is possible - modern psychiatry is capable of doing this.

This test will help you preliminarily assess the possible presence or absence of symptoms of this disease. Answer “yes” or “no” depending on whether the symptoms described correspond to your condition.

1. My relationships with other people are very turbulent, unstable and fluctuate between idealizing and undervaluing people who play an important role in my life.

2. My emotions fluctuate rapidly, and I experience severe bouts of sadness, irritability, or anxiety and panic.

3. My level of anger is often inappropriate, too intense, and I have difficulty controlling it.

4. I have currently or in the past experienced suicidal behavior, gestures, threats or acts such as cutting, bruising or burning myself.

5. I have a pronounced and persistent feeling of the impermanence of my own personality. I don't know who I am or what I really believe.

6. I sometimes have bouts of suspicion and even paranoia (false beliefs that other people are planning to harm me), or in stressful situations I experience feelings of unreality of the world and people around me and my own

7. I have engaged in two or more behaviors that are harmful to me, such as excessive spending of money, unsafe and inappropriate sexual activity, alcohol and drug abuse, road hazards, and excessive eating.

For many, PPD is a diagnosis vaguely familiar from the wonderful film “Girl, Interrupted” starring Winona Ryder and Angelina Jolie. Unfortunately, this diagnosis is increasingly found not in movies, but in life.

Researchers estimate that borderline personality disorder (BPD) affects 2–3% of the world's population. At the same time, many psychologists and psychiatrists note that PLR is not given enough attention. For example, in the International Classification of Diseases ICD-10, used by Russian doctors, there is no clear definition at all; it is considered as a type of emotionally unstable disorder.

The American Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders DSM-5 contains a definition of PPD, however, American experts believe that this disease has been neglected. They believe that PPD exists “in the shadow” of the somewhat similar bipolar personality disorder. In the latter case, research is much more generously funded, and progress in this area is already obvious.

Bipolar disorder is included in the list of disorders whose negative impact on society is being studied as part of the international program Global Burden of Disease, but borderline personality disorder is not on this list. Meanwhile, in its severity and ability to provoke suicide, borderline personality disorder is not inferior to bipolar disorder.

Diagnosis of PLR also faces serious difficulties; a single and generally accepted description does not yet exist. However, at least 6 signs can be identified, the severity and frequency of which suggests that a person suffers from borderline personality disorder.

1. Instability of personal relationships

Those who suffer from PPD can be called “skinned people.” They are incredibly sensitive to the slightest emotional influences. A word or look that most of us would simply ignore becomes the cause of serious trauma and painful experiences for them.

They perceive themselves as either the most beautiful people in the world, or the most insignificant creatures

It is easy to understand that maintaining the stability of relationships in such a situation is almost impossible. And the perception of people with borderline disorder even of their loved ones can change from “I love you” to “I hate you” in just a few seconds.

2. Black and white thinking

Eternal tossing between love and hate is a particular manifestation of a more general problem. Such people hardly distinguish between halftones at all. And everything in the world looks either very good or monstrously bad to them.

They extend this same attitude to themselves. They either perceive themselves as the most beautiful people in the world, or as the most insignificant creatures who are not worthy of living. This is one of the sad reasons that up to 80% of patients with this diagnosis sometimes think about suicide. And 5–9%, alas, ultimately realize this intention.

3. Fear of abandonment

This fear often makes borderliners appear as shameless manipulators, tyrants, or simply selfish. However, everything is much more complicated. They cling to relationships again and again, strive to spend all their time in the company of those they love, and may even physically try to prevent them from leaving just to the store or to work for the reason that separation is unbearable for them.

Fear of separation (real or imagined) from loved ones can provoke attacks of panic, depression or anger in those suffering from PPD - typical symptoms are listed in a certificate from the US National Institute of Mental Health.

4. Impulsive, self-destructive behavior

We all do something rash from time to time. But it’s one thing to spontaneously buy an unnecessary thing or suddenly refuse to go to a party where we are expected, and quite another to have habits that threaten health and life.

Such habits include addiction to alcohol and drugs, deliberately risky driving, unprotected sex, bulimia and many other not very pleasant things. It is interesting that Russian researcher Tatyana Lasovskaya attributes the tendency to get tattoos to similar self-destructive behavior patterns. She estimates that PLR can occur in up to 80% of people who get tattoos. At the same time, those suffering from the disorder most often remain dissatisfied with the result and in 60% of cases return to apply a new drawing. And in the tattoos themselves, the theme of death often prevails.

5. Distorted self-perception

Another typical feature of patients with PPD is a distorted perception of themselves. Their strange and unpredictable behavior is often determined by how good or bad they think they look at the moment. Of course, an assessment can be infinitely far from reality - and change suddenly and also without any apparent reason.

People with borderline personality disorder have great difficulty controlling their thoughts, emotions, and the way they express them.

Here's how actress Lauren Ocean describes it in her story What It's Like To Live With Borderline Personality Disorder: “At times I feel nurturing and tender. And at times I become wild and reckless. And it also happens that I seem to lose all personality altogether and cease to exist. I sit and can think about everything in the world, but I don’t feel anything at all.” Ocean has suffered from PPD since she was 14 years old.

6. Inability to control emotions and actions

After all of the above, it is hardly surprising that people with borderline personality disorder find it very difficult (and often impossible) to control their thoughts, their emotions, and the ways they express them. The result is unprovoked aggression and outbursts of anger, although manifestations such as depression and paranoid obsessions are also possible.

Lauren Ocean notes, “One of the most frustrating things about PPD is how it affects my behavior towards other people. I can praise a person to the skies. But I can’t give him a damn - and it’s the same person!”

People with borderline personality disorder suffer just as much from their illness as those who have to endure their endless mood swings, angry outbursts and other severe manifestations of the disease. And although it may not be easy for them to decide on treatment, it is absolutely necessary.

Psychotherapy is considered the best way to combat PPD today. There is no cure for the disease, and drug treatment is recommended only for patients whose borderline disorder is complicated by underlying problems, such as chronic depression.

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Ammon's self-structural test: personality disorder, psyche determines constructiveness, destructiveness, deficiency of aggressiveness, fear (anxiety), self-delimitation, narcissism and sexuality

There are 18 scales in total: constructive, destructive, deficit aggression, fear (anxiety), external and internal self-separation, narcissism, and human sexuality in general make up the whole personality structure.

Instructions for the Ammon Self-structural test - personality disorder, human psyche

Below, in the Ammon structural test, you will see a number of statements about certain ways of behavior and attitudes of a person, and you will find out whether you have any personality or mental disorders.

You can answer: agree - disagree (true - false).
Please note: There are no right or wrong answers in the I-structure test, because Every person has the right to their own point of view.
Answer as you think is right for yourself, without adjusting to someone else's opinion.
Otherwise, you will not be able to accurately determine what personality and mental disorders you have, and accordingly, it will be difficult to choose methods of psychocorrection.

Be sincere and honest with yourself.
Don’t think for a long time, answer quickly, preferring the first answer that comes to mind.

Questions, statements of the Ammon test for determining personality disorders and human psyche

If I start something, I finish it, regardless of whether anything gets in the way or not.
If I was offended, then I try to take revenge
Most often I feel alone (lonely), even among other people
When I'm angry, I take my anger out on others
I have a great sense of time
As a rule, I work under high pressure
If someone makes me wait, I can't think of anything else
I get along with people easily
What I really feel and think is essentially of no interest to anyone.
I am often accused of being an insensitive person
I enjoy it when other people look at me
Often I find myself thinking somewhere else
As a rule, in the morning I wake up cheerful (cheerful) and rested (rested)
All I want is for others to leave me alone
Sex puts me in a happy mood for the whole day
I hardly dream at all
I can't interrupt a boring conversation for me
I am happy to invite guests to my home
What I really think about I cannot share with others
People often pester me with sexual offers.
More often I am happy than angry
When it comes to sexuality, I have my own fantasies
I willingly help others, but I do not allow myself to be used
What I do often gets no recognition
When I feel angry it makes me feel guilty
I am attracted to new challenges
When I go away for a few days, hardly anyone is interested
Difficulties immediately unsettle me
I attach great importance to having everything in order.
Even a few minutes of sleep can make me rested (rested)
I can only show completed work to others.
I don't feel comfortable being alone with anyone
I willingly come up with erotic situations that I would like to experience with my partner
I expect a lot from life
Often my interest overpowers my fear
In any company I remain myself (myself)
My problems and worries are just my worries
The most beautiful thing in life is sleep
Life is pure suffering
I enjoy spending the whole night with my sexy partner
I often feel insufficiently included (included) in what is happening
In my daily life, I experience joy more often than disappointment
In an erotic mood, I don’t need to invent topics of conversation with my partner (partner)
I willingly tell others about my work
I often have days when I spend hours occupied with my thoughts.
I rarely find anyone sexually attractive (attractive)
I feel that my anxiety is very restrictive in my life.
I like to find things that give my partner sexual pleasure
I always forget something
My fear helps me sense what I want and what I don't want.
I have a lot of energy
I often dream that I am being attacked
More often than not, I am underestimated in my abilities.
Often I don’t dare go out alone
There is no room for feelings while working
I am grateful whenever I am told exactly what I should do
I am often guided by other people's opinions
For me, a good mood is contagious
Fear often paralyzes me
When my partner wants to sleep with me, I feel embarrassed
Most of the time I put off making decisions until later.
My sexual fantasies almost always revolve around how well my partner treats me.
I'm afraid that I might (might) hurt someone
No one notices whether I am there or not
I experience internal discomfort if I have not had sexual relations for a long time
Basically my life is just waiting
It often happens to me that I fall in love with someone who already has a partner.
The responsibility I bear is often overlooked by others.
In most of the threatening situations that have happened in my life, I was drawn into it against my will.
Sometimes I want rough sex
I often feel insecure about life
If I am "attacked" I "swallow" my anger
Thanks to my abilities, I always make contacts easily
I enjoy every new acquaintance I make
I find sex with strangers extremely exciting
Sometimes I have suicidal thoughts
Often my thoughts are in the clouds
I can give myself completely sexually
I'm often forgotten
I don't like games
In my relationship with my partner (partner), sexuality does not play a big role
I get lost in the group
I am not shy about showing sexual desire to my partner
I always let everything fall on me
I enjoy choosing gifts for my friends
I can be easily impressed
I notice that I often talk about the bad and forget about the good.
I hate it when someone talks about their feelings
I manage my time well
I sleep the time I need
If I have to speak in public, I often lose my voice
I enjoy making fun of others
I enjoy arousing sexual interest in women (men), even if I actually don’t want anything from them
I have already experienced many crises that prompted me to further development
In most situations I can be myself
I laugh a lot
When I get angry, it takes a lot of effort to control myself
I have a rich sensual life
I can completely trust the friendly disposition of others
I often have a feeling of not belonging
What I do is not that important
I may not show my annoyance and irritation to others
When I speak I am often interrupted
I often picture to myself how bad things must have been for those who were unfair to me
I like to joke and laugh a lot with my partner during sex
I enjoy choosing clothes for the day in the morning.
I can always find time for important things
It often happens that I forget something important
When my boss criticizes me, I start to sweat
When I'm bored I look for sexual adventures
My daily life has no ups or downs
Difficulties spur me on
Most people have no idea how important the things I'm interested in are to me.
Basically, sex isn't particularly interesting to me.
I am happy to introduce my new colleagues to my work
I often turn others against me
Even minor criticism makes me lose confidence
Sometimes I am tormented by thoughts of causing physical pain to people who irritate me terribly
Often my fantasies haunt me
I need to think about decisions over and over again because I have doubts.
Until now, I have never experienced complete satisfaction from sexual relations
I am much more sensitive (sensitive) to pain than others
I often feel too open (open)
What I do, almost anyone could do
The feelings I experienced in childhood haunt me to this day.
The unknown beckons me
Even when I am in fear, I am fully aware of what is happening.
I often get into such a panic that I can’t even do important things.
Often I want to have another partner (partner) in order to overcome my sexual inhibitions
I can get really passionate about something
I put everything on the shelf
I can get terribly worried about little things
In my sexual relationships, I felt that they became better and more intense over time
I often feel superfluous (superfluous)
You shouldn't have sex too often
When I have difficulties, I quickly find people who help me
I don't allow other people to easily disrupt my life.
I can concentrate well
I willingly seduce my (my) partner (partner)
If I made a mistake, I can easily forget about it
I rejoice when unexpected guests come to me
Almost all women (men) want only one thing
Even in a state of fear I can think clearly
I have not had sexual relations for a long time and have not felt the need for them
If someone offends me, then I pay him the same
If someone tries to compete with me, then I quickly give up
I can keep myself busy
In order to avoid unnecessary worries, I avoid disputes
When I am in a state of rage, I can easily hurt myself or have an accident.
Often I can't decide to do anything
After sexual contact I am especially efficient all day long (efficient)
Most of the time I am satisfied with erotica, sex is not that important to me
I feel especially bad on weekends
I don't want to show others my feelings
People often pick on me even though I don't do anything bad to them
I find it difficult to start a conversation with people or find the right words
If I like someone, I start talking to her (him) to get to know her better
I believe that always being in control of your feelings is a goal worth striving for.
During vacations and holidays I often have sexual adventures
I dare to express my opinion in front of the group
Most often I don't express my gene
Nobody knows how often I get bullied
When someone looks at me askance, I immediately begin to feel anxious.
When someone is sad, I quickly become sad too.
In my fantasies sex is more beautiful than in reality
I have difficulty deciding to do anything because I am afraid that others may criticize me for my decision.
My fantasies make me happy
I don't know why, but sometimes I wish I could smash everything to pieces
During sexual relations, I am often mentally somewhere far away
I have often been in risky situations
If something worries me, I share it with others
I often think about the past
I maintained friendly relations even during crises
I get bored at almost all holidays and parties
When I'm angry, I easily lose control and yell at my partner.
I don't let myself get confused easily
Sometimes I drown out my fears with alcohol or pills
I'm a timid person
I'm very afraid of my future
What gets me most excited is when my partner doesn't want to have sex with me
There are days when I constantly break something or hurt myself on something.
I rarely have sexual fantasies
I have many dreams and I put a lot of effort into making them come true.
I'm always happy when I can meet a new person
Personally, fairy tales don’t tell me anything important.
Most often I have sexual partners (partners) with whom I am not the only one (the only one)
If someone breaks up with me, I strive to ensure that nothing reminds me of her (him)
I am often confused when communicating with people
I willingly talk about myself and my experiences
I often indulge in thoughts
I prepare thoroughly and in a timely manner for difficult tasks.
I usually know the reasons for my poor health
If I plan something good for myself personally, I often don't implement it.
Direct sex is more important to me than just communication with my partner (partner)
I often take the lead in a group.
The most attractive people to me are the ones who always remain calm and act confident.
Often my fantasies revolve around sexual activities that are not usually discussed
I enjoy everything I can do
When others unexpectedly catch me doing something, I get startled easily
You achieve more with your mind than with your feelings
If I'm interested in something, nothing can distract me
I am rarely completely satisfied (satisfied) with absolutely everything
It happens that I really “get” someone
If people who are important to me talk to others for a long time, I literally go crazy
Basically, sex disgusts me
When others laugh, I often can't laugh with them.
I am primarily interested in those sports that involve risk.
I don't have a high opinion of psychology
I often don't understand what's going on
I'm very curious (curious)
Fantasizing distracts me from work
I experience sexual relationships as a painful duty.
I volunteer to take on even important tasks that make me afraid
I will probably never find a suitable (suitable) partner (partner)
I often miss
Whether I exist or not is not that important
I enjoyed answering questions related to sexual relationships.
I often feel crushed (crushed) by demands
I often manage to involuntarily encourage others to take on tasks that I dislike
“Pre-launch” excitement can give me wings