Why do we get sick or how do apartment defects affect our health? Signs of bad energy accumulation in your home.

Why is it that in some apartments it’s cozy and comfortable, while in others it’s as if something is pressing on the psyche, and you want to get out of there as quickly as possible? According to psychics and parapsychologists, negative energy is to blame for everything. What if you have to live in such a house? Don’t rush to panic and leave your home: everything can be fixed! So, let’s “clean” the apartment...

The reasons for the appearance of “dark” energy can be very different. Your home may be in a pathogenic zone, and it may also have a bad aura. For example, if a sick person previously lived in the apartment, if there were some things left in it that belonged to sick or unkind people...

First, let's figure out whether the apartment is really “bad.” What if you simply belong to the category of suspicious people?

It’s not for nothing that during a housewarming party it is advised to let the cat into the house first. Pets are very sensitive to the presence of negative energies. Once in such a house, they begin to get nervous, eat poorly, may refuse to enter the apartment and sleep on the staircase, and sometimes simply run away from the house.

If you don’t have a dog or cat, “rent” it from a friend and observe how the animal will behave in your home.

Another indicator of unfavorable energy is indoor plants. If they suddenly begin to wither away for no apparent reason, even though you are carefully looking after them, this is a sure sign that not all is well in the apartment.

Oddly enough, in apartments where the energy supply is not clean, household appliances often break down and cellular communications malfunction.

Listen to your own feelings. If you want to spend as much time as possible outside the home (and men are literally “pushed out” by negative energy), if guests come to you less often, and those who do come try to leave quickly, this is a very alarming sign.

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Bioenergy specialists often advise checking your home using a church candle. It needs to be lit and walked throughout the house. If the candle begins to smoke, crackle, or its flame is uneven, it means that the apartment needs to be “cleaned.”

First of all, “search” the apartment. If you find any suspicious objects, things that belonged to the previous owners, then it is better to get rid of them, the best option is to burn or bury them.

Some house plants “clean” energy well. For example, bright red geranium will fill your home with positive energy. You can even have not one, but several pots of geraniums. Just don't forget to take care of her!

It also doesn’t hurt to hang a wreath woven from birch twigs on the front door, or stick a needle into the jamb of the front door from the side of the apartment - this will “scare off” any negative energies.

Protect from negativity and various kinds of amulets. You can purchase such a talisman or make it yourself. Let it be a “brownie” figurine made of rags, wood or straw. The main thing is that you believe in its protective functions. Be sure to give it a name and talk to it as if it were a living being.

Sometimes the carrier of negativity is one of the inhabitants of the house or frequent visitors. You will easily feel this: after communicating with such a person, you will feel like a squeezed lemon, depression, malaise may occur, your mood may simply deteriorate... If this is a stranger, try not to let him into the apartment. If this is not possible, then you will have to “clean” the house constantly.

So, make it a rule to perform the following ritual at least once a month. Walk around the apartment holding a burning candle in your hands. Cross all the corners with it, at the same time sprinkling them with holy water and reading a prayer of protection.

Clean more often, this also “washes away” the negativity. Don’t accumulate junk in your home; throw away cracked dishes and mirrors, even if the cracks are very small.

After an unpleasant person has visited your house, leave a peeled onion on the table in the room where he visited. Overnight she will absorb all the negativity. In the morning you need to take it out of the house, just don’t touch it with your bare hands, take a bag or a rag and wrap the onion in it...

If a “black” person permanently lives in the house, place where he visits most often a block made of aspen, poplar, bird cherry, lilac or linden wood, or make a decorative composition of corn, rye or oat grains - they absorb negativity. And where you are most often located, place “donor” plants - birch, oak, maple, pine, buckwheat, wheat or rice. They will make the aura of the room positive.

It is also advisable to consecrate the home, especially if all the above measures did not help much.

It’s bad when there is no energy in the house, but when it’s filled with negative energy, it’s even worse. This brings not only fatigue and irritability, quarrels and loss of money, but also illness and even the destruction of the family. That’s why the house needs to be cleaned from time to time, writes cluber.com.ua.

How do you understand that your home has accumulated negative energy and needs “treatment”? The following signs will tell you about this:

Cockroaches, ants and other insects appear;
Things go missing or get lost;
Residents and pets get sick;
Flowers and house plants feel unwell, or even die;
Light bulbs burn out too often;
Household appliances break down too often;
Unusual noises and sounds are heard;
Bad odors appear for no apparent reason or source;
Doors and windows slam by themselves;
Water is constantly dripping or running, pipes are leaking;
Drafts;
Households quarrel all the time;
Household members have incomprehensible drowsiness, apathy, fatigue;
Sleep does not bring restoration of strength, bad or difficult dreams;
There were strangers at home whose sincerity is highly questionable;
Someone died in the house.

If at least three of the above points coincide, you need to think about how to cure your home.

How to heal your home?

Getting rid of negative energy is not as difficult as it might seem at first glance. You can cope with this task using simple rules. This energy cleaning should be done 3-4 times a year, similar to regular general cleaning of an apartment.

1. Cleansing your own negative energy

Before you start cleaning the house, you need to remove negative energy from yourself. To do this, you need to take a shower, but not a simple one, but with salt. The fact is that salt is a conductor of energy. It can accumulate both positive and negative energy. And salt dissolved in water can wash away the negative energy that has accumulated not only in a day, but over many years, that is, destroy all the energy dirt from which you, perhaps without knowing it, have suffered for so long.

So, we get into the shower, after which we apply regular table salt to the wet skin with massaging movements. Try to cover all surfaces except the hair, but do not rub the salt very hard, do it gently so as not to feel discomfort.

After this, get back into the shower and rinse off the salt with water. At the same time, mentally turn to the water with a request to wash away all the bad things from you.

Choose words according to your mood, address water as a living being, the main thing is that it is sincere and your words come from the heart. You will immediately feel good and light in your soul, and your body will become light and unusually clean. Water with salt will cleanse your body and soul. It will seem to you that you have gotten rid of some heavy burden. And this will be correct, because the energetic dirt that was washed away by the water is indeed very difficult for people.

2. Preparing for energy cleansing at home

And now it’s time to start energetically cleaning your home. Dress as simply as possible, preferably a dressing gown or tracksuit. You should not be wearing any jewelry - neither metal, nor leather, nor plastic.

You must be completely energetically neutral. In the entire house or apartment where you live, open the windows, and, if possible, both the windows and the entrance doors. Don’t be afraid of a draft, all negative energy will go away through it. Have people who are not involved in cleaning leave the house. Send your household members to the cinema or for a walk so that they do not interfere with your cleaning.

So, the first thing you need to do when starting to “treat” your home is to get rid of old and unnecessary things. Remember: everything you haven’t used for more than a year collects negative energy.

Ruthlessly throw away or give away things you don't need - make room for new and necessary things! Repair all broken equipment, and if it is impossible to fix, get rid of it without regret. Don’t hoard books, magazines and other papers that you don’t need - you can donate unnecessary books to libraries, and hand over paper trash to waste paper collection points.

Never keep broken dishes at home, even those with a small crack. Positive energy goes through it, and with it family and home well-being. Chipped dishes are especially dangerous; they create a strong leakage of positive charge.

Don't hoard dirty dishes! Leaving dirty dishes overnight will gather in your home a whole breeding ground of subtle living beings (spirits and ghosts) that feed on the smells of leftover food; this will have a bad effect on your physical and mental health. The Vedas say that if dirty dishes remain or accumulate in the house, then a person must leave this house before sunset.

Don’t accumulate trash and dirty clothes, wash them as often as possible and monitor the condition of your things - if you can’t fix them yourself, take them to a repair shop or a sewing workshop. You will be surprised how your life and your relationships will change if you just clean out your closet!

So, you got rid of all the junk, while simultaneously putting things in order in the house, as if you were doing regular cleaning. Now wipe all the mirrors in the house. To do this, take a damp cloth and make clockwise circular movements with your hand. This is the only way the energetic dirt will go away along with the visible dust.

Try to remember how many years you have had this mirror - and make circles with a wet rag for that many years. Then you will completely destroy all the negative information that has accumulated over the years. If you don't remember how old the mirror is, do thirteen circles.

3. Fumigate and sprinkle

You will need a few sprigs of St. John's wort, thistle or heather. Also prepare a bowl of water. It can be structured (preferably thawed) or holy, but in no case tap water.

First, spray every corner of the house with this water, then wet your face and hands with it and, without wiping, let it dry. After this, set fire to the plant branches and fumigate the entire apartment with them, carrying the smoldering branches to all corners. When cleaning, mentally imagine how the energetic dirt disappears.

4. Cleansing your home with a candle

You will need several thin church candles, but you can also use a regular white household candle.

Take a candle and place a small circle cut out of white paper on it. It is necessary to protect your hands from negative energy that the melted wax will absorb.

Light a candle and slowly walk around the whole house with it, moving clockwise. Start moving from the front door - this is the most important gate of negative energy. Therefore, doors need to be given special attention. Stand at the front door from the outside and draw a candle along its perimeter from left to right.

Use a candle to thoroughly treat the door peephole and its entire surface, not forgetting the handles and the bell. Then proceed to processing the inside of the door, doing the same.

You need to understand that by properly treating the doors, you can be sure that negative information will not penetrate your home.

Now move further around the perimeter of the apartment clockwise. Look into all the dark corners, don't forget about the furniture, especially in the hallway, shoes and clothes. Pay special attention to windows, mirrors, corners, as well as hangers, because a lot of energy dirt accumulates on them.

Treat the walls by running a candle along a sinusoid - either raising it up or lowering it down. Your instincts will tell you where to make ascents and descents. In general, listen more to your inner voice and follow its prompts. Give your bathroom a good cleaning. This is a place that absorbs a lot of negative information, especially the bathroom mirror. After all, it is in the bathroom that you wash away the dirt from yourself, and the energetic dirt settles on the surfaces. Don't forget to treat doors and light switches that are frequently touched by hands.

The largest energy storage devices are household electrical appliances, that is, a computer, refrigerator, TV, etc. They carry a huge charge of negative energy from the outside, especially the computer and TV. Stay on them longer and treat them especially carefully.

Be sure to cross the bed and bedding three times. Starting from the head. When walking around the apartment, do not forget about the toilet and utility rooms. Treat the toilet bowl especially carefully, where a lot of negative information goes. To prevent it from coming back, it must be “burned” thoroughly.

When you finish cleansing your home with a candle, you will end up with one or more burnt candles on your saucer. Immediately throw them into a trash can, the contents of which are immediately sent to the garbage disposal (take it to the trash).

5. Cleaning hands after cleaning

When the cleaning is completed, it is necessary to remove the remaining energy dirt from your hands, where it will inevitably end up.

To do this, wash your hands with soap under the tap. Then wash your hands with salt and wait until they dry. After this, clench your hands and remember them, stretching your fingers. Then rub the palms of both hands clockwise. And finally, shake your hands. To reset the remaining negative energy. In total, it will take you no more than ten minutes to clean your hands.

6. Repeated cleaning

To check how well the cleaning was done and whether repeated cleaning is required (which should be done after three days), light a candle and wait until half of it burns out. When melted wax appears on the saucer and candle, look at its shape. If it is ugly and the wax itself is dark, then there is still dirt left. And if the wax turns out to be light and flows in smooth, beautiful streams, then your apartment is completely cleansed of negative energy.

And for prevention...

Light the candles

It is very useful to light candles at home, especially in a room in which something happened before or is still happening. The cleansing power of fire is incomparable to anything! So feel free to arrange romantic evenings with lots of candles for your loved ones, or just light them sometimes in the evening to create a cozy and soulful atmosphere.

We use natural scents

Feel free to use different scents and incense. But make sure they are natural. Various essential oils, aroma lamps, etc. are the ideal solution. They will not only heal the aura of your home, but will also lift your mood, improve your well-being and stimulate creative energy. The main thing is to find “your” aromas.

Mopping the floor

It is very useful to wash the floors in the house with water to which herbal infusions have been added. Wormwood, St. John's wort, string, juniper, and pine have a special power to heal the energy of the house. And at least once a year, despite the abundance of mops of all designs and configurations, you need to wash the floor with your hands - this will create a special aura in your home.

For additional disinfection, cleansing the aura of your home and giving it a fresh aroma, add a few drops of essential oils or a mixture of them to the water for washing floors. Depending on the situation, mood and season, you can use different scents - eucalyptus, lavender, juniper, citrus, pine oils.

Wet cleaning

Do wet cleaning and wipe off dust as often as possible, especially from hard-to-reach places - under the bed, behind cabinets, in corners and on mezzanines. Do not let the pipeline become clogged - this indicates accumulated negative emotions. Dripping or flowing water takes away prosperity, health and money from the home, so keep your plumbing system in good working order by closing the toilet lid after use.

Ventilation

At any time of the year, in any weather, you need to ventilate the room at least once a day - do not create a draft, but give access to clean, fresh air. It displaces negative energy from the home and brings in new, healthy energy.

Bells and wind chimes

And finally. Take the time to cleanse your apartment of negative energy. You will find a clean and healthy home in which every person will be healthy and successful.

You don’t want to go home, your sweet and expensive home has become hateful, it’s hard for you to live in it, you’re constantly sick, a lot of problems appear out of nowhere, everything in the house is falling apart, you’ve stopped sleeping normally. The beloved “geranium” died, and ants and cockroaches appeared in the house, there was dampness on the walls and a constant unpleasant smell. These are the first signs that your home is damaged and corrupted through magic or other extraneous energies.

One of the signs of damage to the house is that you become uncomfortable in your home, you constantly want to sleep in your home, and even after sleep you don’t really feel that you have rested.
The rooms seem dark and the plants are dying. Animals in this house may begin to shit in inappropriate places, behave nervously, or may not settle down at all.
You want to run away from this house, and after work you don’t really want to go home. Also, in this house, when there is damage, quarrels and scandals can very often occur; people are drawn to drinking alcohol more often than before.
Those living in this house begin to experience a series of various diseases that develop into chronic ones, such as oncology, diabetes, pancreatitis, etc.
People have bad dreams in this house and may subconsciously smell dampness or rot. Also, a sign of damage to a house is the sudden appearance of moths, cockroaches or ants in large numbers (as well as rats and mice in a country house) - and in this case it is almost impossible to remove them and it is difficult to find the cause and place of their occurrence.
Also, if the house is damaged, the floors can creak - sometimes on their own, causing knocks and creaks to appear.
People living in a damaged home are often fired from work without reason or transferred with a reduction in salary. Sometimes a damaged house causes infertility in spouses; even IVF does not help in this matter. According to my observations, the following reasons cause damage to a house:

1. Settlement in the house of the soul of a suicide, sometimes several. Sometimes it can be relatives who committed suicide or neighbors who lived nearby. Their souls wander in search of refuge.
2. Damage caused to the entrance threshold, to neighbors (but affects everyone). Suicides begin in such entrances, and often more than one. (they do it for one apartment, but the whole site suffers)
3. The house was built on the site of a former cemetery or military operations, or massacres, burials
4. Damage can be brought by one of the residents of the entrance on shoes from the cemetery (where “good people” spoiled him at the funeral).
5. The house was built on the site of an energetic fracture in the earth’s crust (a kind of gateway to the lower dimensions, where lower beings and spirits live)
6. Damage can be caused to an apartment for no reason by a person who doesn’t care who does the dirty trick (he just feels bad without it, that is, these are people with schizophrenia)
7. Antique items purchased in salons may contain curses and damage that will settle along with these wonders in your home and ruin the entire space, infecting everything around.
8. Recently, in icon shops, “good aunties” have managed to slander both Holy Books and icons (mostly expensive ones) and other church paraphernalia
9. Items purchased second-hand or in second-hand clothing stores from Europe may be damaged.
10. Damage to the house can be brought along with a gift or even with flowers collected by “good people” at the cemetery.

There are, of course, many more signs, but these are some of the most common. In these cases, of course, it is better to contact a specialist to put the house in order and remove the damage - because the person himself, if he does not have sufficient magical power, will not be able to cope with this scourge.

I carry out cleanings of premises and in every house, as a rule, everything comes out, sometimes during cleaning, wonderful things happen - Spirits begin to speak, often what has settled there is screaming. When I kick him out, he asks or tries to come back in. The doors and windows are sealed against the repeated invasion of an unwanted guest.
Cleaning is carried out in three stages and takes about an hour. It all depends on the size of the apartment.
After cleaning, the entire life of those living in the apartment will change dramatically. Things get better, issues are resolved, the house becomes dear to the heart and it’s nice to return to it. In the house you can relax and gain strength while you sleep.
If family life begins to collapse, many problems and conflicts are neutralized.

Once a year you need to do a complete general cleaning of the house. Not only to remove the dust, but also to clean the energy of the house, as well as the owners living in it.

It’s bad when there is no energy in the house, but when it’s filled with negative energy, it’s even worse. This brings not only fatigue and irritability, quarrels and loss of money, but also illness and even the destruction of the family. This is why the house needs to be cleaned from time to time.

How do you understand that your home has accumulated negative energy and needs “treatment”? The following signs will tell you about this:

cockroaches, ants and other insects appear
things go missing or get lost
residents and pets get sick
flowers and house plants feel unwell, or even die
Light bulbs burn out too often
household appliances break down too often
strange noises and sounds are heard
bad odors appear for no apparent reason or source
Doors and windows slam by themselves
water is constantly dripping or running, pipes are leaking; drafts
family quarrels all the time
household members have incomprehensible drowsiness, apathy, fatigue
sleep does not bring restoration of strength, bad or difficult dreams
there were strangers at home whose sincerity is highly doubtful
someone died in the house

If at least three of the above points coincide, you need to think about how to cure your home.

How to heal your home?

1. Cleansing your own negative energy.

After this, get back into the shower and rinse off the salt with water. At the same time, mentally turn to the water with a request to wash away all the bad things from you.

2. Preparation for energy cleansing of the house.

So, the first thing you need to do when starting to “treat” your home is get rid of old and unnecessary things. Remember: everything you haven’t used for more than a year collects negative energy.

Never keep broken dishes at home, even one that has a small crack. Positive energy goes through it, and with it family and home well-being. Chipped dishes are especially dangerous; they create a strong leakage of positive charge.

Don't hoard dirty dishes! Leaving dirty dishes overnight will gather in your home a whole breeding ground of subtle living beings (spirits and ghosts) that feed on the smells of leftover food; this will have a bad effect on your physical and mental health. The Vedas say that if dirty dishes remain or accumulate in the house, then a person must leave this house before sunset.

Don't hoard trash and dirty clothes, wash it as often as possible and monitor the condition of your things - if you can’t fix them yourself, take them to a repair shop or a sewing workshop. You will be surprised how your life and your relationships will change if you just clean out your closet!

So, you got rid of all the junk, while simultaneously putting things in order in the house, as if you were doing regular cleaning. Now wipe all the mirrors in the house. To do this, take a damp cloth and make clockwise circular movements with your hand. This is the only way the energetic dirt will go away along with the visible dust.

3. Fumigate and sprinkle

You will need a few sprigs of St. John's wort, thistle or heather. Also prepare a bowl of water. It can be structured (preferably thawed) or holy, but in no case tap water.

At first Spray every corner of the house with this water, then moisten your face and hands with it and, without wiping, let it dry. After that set fire to plant branches and fumigate the entire apartment with them, carrying smoldering branches to all corners. When cleaning, mentally imagine how the energetic dirt disappears.

4. Cleansing the house with a candle.

You will need several thin church candles, but you can also use a regular white household candle.

Take a candle and place a small circle cut out of white paper on it. It is necessary to protect your hands from negative energy that the melted wax will absorb.

Light a candle and slowly walk around the whole house with it, moving clockwise. Start at the front door – this is the most important gate of negative energy. Therefore, doors need to be given special attention. Stand at the front door from the outside and draw a candle along its perimeter from left to right.

Use a candle to thoroughly treat the door peephole and its entire surface, not forgetting the handles and the bell. Then proceed to processing the inside of the door, doing the same.

You need to understand that by properly treating the doors, you can be sure that negative information will not penetrate your home.

Now move further around the perimeter of the apartment clockwise. Look into everything dark corners, don't forget about furniture, especially in the hallway, shoes and clothes. Pay special attention windows, mirrors, corners, and also hangers, because a lot of energy dirt accumulates on them.

Treat the walls by running a candle along a sinusoid - either raising it up or lowering it down. Your instincts will tell you where to make ascents and descents. In general, listen more to your inner voice and follow its prompts. Treat well bathroom. This is a place that absorbs a lot of negative information, especially the bathroom mirror. After all, it is in the bathroom that you wash away the dirt from yourself, and the energetic dirt settles on the surfaces. Don't forget to process doors and switches, which are most often touched by hands.

The largest energy storage devices are household electrical appliances. computer, refrigerator, TV etc. They carry a huge charge of negative energy from the outside, especially the computer and TV. Stay on them longer and treat them especially carefully.

Be sure to cross yourself three times bed and linens. Starting from the head. When walking around the apartment, do not forget about the toilet and utility rooms. Handle especially carefully toilet, where a lot of negative information goes. To prevent it from coming back, it must be “burned” thoroughly.

5. Cleaning hands after cleaning.

When the cleaning is completed, it is necessary to remove the remaining energy dirt from your hands, where it will inevitably end up.

6. Repeated cleaning.

And for prevention...

Light the candles

We use natural scents

Mopping the floor

Wet cleaning

Ventilation

Bells and wind chimes

And finally. Take the time to cleanse your apartment of negative energy. You will find a clean and healthy home in which every person will be healthy and successful.

There is one simple answer to the question “What to do when everything is bad” - enjoy the moment, so as not to miss it later, because soon the crisis will pass and a bright streak will come! But seriously, in order for the gloomy clouds overhead to disperse, it is enough to take simple 9 steps, the effectiveness of which has been tested by time.

Need specifics

Many of us have a well-developed ability to exaggerate. To do this, many use a technique known from literary theory as hyperbole. Its meaning is deliberate exaggeration to enhance effect, emotional enhancement, and so on. Most often, under the phrase “everything is bad” there is an exaggerated “something specific.”

In other words, these are certain moments or situations on which the general condition of a person depends. It is advisable to find them. To do this, you need a piece of paper and a pen that will “endure” everything bad. Most likely, from the first line it will turn out that there are not so many reasons for depression.

But those reasons that exist and are specifically defined have created the effect of a snowball that impudently fell on tired shoulders. If the same question has been ringing in your head for a long time: “What to do when it’s very bad?”, it is advisable to start resolving the current situation right now. Which, in fact, is already happening.

Negative overboard

In order to cope with the surging problems, you need at least enthusiasm and desire. But where do they come from when everything has been “eaten up” by the “what to do” state? To change the situation, you will have to gather the last drops of strength and throw them into a healing activity, which is different for everyone.

This could be going to the bathhouse, cycling, skating, jumping on trampolines, in general, anything that will get rid of the negative, replacing it with the positive. The main thing is to get physically tired, throw out your emotions by screaming or laughing, and also switch. It’s worth it, because what’s at stake is your overall emotional state. It is this that determines our readiness to fight for things to improve. Don’t forget that a healthy mind is in a healthy body, so delicious food and good sleep are exactly what the doctor ordered.

Black humor

Sometimes black humor and self-irony remain underestimated aids in the fight against depression, but much is known about their healing properties in the world of modern psychotherapy. Perhaps it is worth thinking about what is “missing” for a complete picture of hopelessness. After all, it can always be worse. Laughing at yourself, and this is considered a sign of a strong personality, not only lifts your spirits, scaring away the snowball of failures, but also reminds you that everything is really not as bad as it can be.

If it’s hard for you to find a reason to laugh, then it’s time to go to the movies, but only to see a comedy. Movies are therapeutic, so choose something incredibly explosive.

Algorithm of actions

When the negative emotions have gone away a little, it’s time to return to the “black” list. Opposite each item that “poisons lives” you can write detailed instructions on how to provide yourself with emergency medical care. That is, think through your actions, the so-called ways to overcome the problems that have arisen, in order to clearly determine for yourself what to do if everything is bad.

The main thing is not to look for global and sophisticated solutions, but to find affordable and simple options that are easy to take.

General cleaning

It is worth admitting that rarely does anyone have perfect order in all areas of life. Many different things have been put off for years in a long box of immense size. Now is the time to carry out an audit of this “long box”, thereby doing a general cleaning in it.

If you are passionate about doing something, improvements will begin imperceptibly in at least one area of your life. Decorating furniture, traveling to distant relatives, replanting flowers will be a good reason for global vital reforms.

Equilibrium as an axiom

Many scientists from different fields agree that everything is balanced in the world. If it disappears somewhere, it soon appears in another place. So, in every unpleasant situation there is a second side to the coin, on which a rainbow is painted in bright colors; you just need to see it.

Is your dress torn? There was an opportunity to update the style by altering it in the workshop.
Fired from your job? It's time to take a break and find something more worthwhile.
Has your husband (wife) left? That’s what he needs, and a new life begins for me!

Healing Humility

Sometimes people, hastily searching for what to do when everything is bad, need to calm down and stop doing anything at all. There are things that do not depend on us. Naturally, it is quite difficult for those who are accustomed to control their own destiny to come to terms with such a statement. But no one can predict illness, accident or the loss of a loved one.

It is important to try to forgive your fate, accepting its “gifts” with humility and gratitude. This is difficult, but effective, because a little humility and understanding attracts love, and anger and resentment attract hatred.

Good deed

If we don’t know what to do when everything is bad, then the whole world seems unfair, spoiled, embittered. If gray, gloomy weather is added to the dejected mood, then a meeting with apathy is guaranteed. To warm yourself up by helping good defeat evil, you can do something good for another person.

This could be anything: a charity dinner, gifts for children with special needs, visiting a sick person, and so on. As a result, it turns out that this helped ourselves first of all, because sincere gratitude from others heals, over time returning goodness threefold. And the ability to share and sacrifice leads to a mature alignment of priorities and values. It’s not without reason that they say that the hand of the giver will never fail.

Looking in the mirror

If, after some time, the situation has not improved, but only worsened, moving into the chronic stage of losing on all fronts, then it is time to use heavy artillery. It is a critical self-analysis of one’s actions and behavior. A psychologist, spiritual mentor, or other person with good life experience will help you cope with this.

It’s worth asking yourself questions: “What did I do wrong?”, “How do I respond to other people’s requests?”, “How do I feel about fulfilling my duties?” The main thing is to remain honest with yourself. Only under this condition can you see yourself from the outside. Having determined which behavior pattern attracts trouble, breaking the chain of failures will become much easier.

These 9 steps were created for a person who is tormented by the question “What to do when everything is bad?” Each step is a small hint leading to the answer. Those who have decided to act, grow and change their life for the better can use them. Perhaps there are those in your circle who need advice at this moment. Share this post with them to help cope with the cloud of problems flying over their heads and prevent the onset of the Ice Age.