Symptoms, causes and methods of treatment of hysterical neurosis. What are the signs and symptoms of hysteria? Is there any medication to prevent tantrums in children?

Hysteria is a form of neurosis, characteristic of women and has mental and various somato-vegetative manifestations. This disease has a synonym - hysterical neurosis, to which " artistic type» personality. The “female nature” of hysteria, according to scientists, is associated with the level of estrogen in the blood. This fact was noted back in Ancient Greece. This is where the name of this disease “hystera” comes from - translated from Greek language means "uterus". Female hysteria is a very common disease.

Predisposing factors:

• Stress, physical and emotional stress;
• Sexual dissatisfaction;
• Chronic intoxication (alcohol, drugs);
• Injuries;
• Problems at work;
• Oscillations hormonal levels(pregnancy, phases menstrual cycle, puberty, menopause);
• Problems in the family.

Manifestations

Female hysteria can manifest itself in two forms - a hysterical attack and hysterical behavior.

Hype

Among the peculiar manifestations of female hysteria, one can note one of its varieties, which has long been known in Russia as hysteria. It was expressed in the fact that the clique had an uncontrollable desire to scream in church in certain moments church service, and sometimes fall into real hysterics. Clique is in very close connection with the belief in corruption and possession by various demons that was widespread at that time among the people. And indeed, many hysterical cliques had a subconscious idea or even a conscious thought that they were “spoiled”, that they were possessed by an unclean spirit against their own will and desire. This belief may not be recognized by the cliques and is stored in the unconscious area.

It is very likely that many cases of healing of patients under the influence of conspiracies and other things should be explained by the fact that these diseases were actually symptoms hysterical neurosis. Analyzing the symptoms of other hysteria, one cannot help but notice that they always do not correspond to the picture of actual damage to a particular organ or organ system. In particular, with hysterical paralysis, paralysis of individual muscles is never observed, as happens with neurological diseases when one or another is affected nerve center or nerve conduction is disrupted. This circumstance sometimes allows us to say that hysterical neurosis is a rather mediocre plagiarist. The detected signs correspond to the patient’s idea of ​​the disease and the views prevailing among the population, that is, popular opinions about mental and somatic illnesses.

Sometimes, however, it is difficult to identify such a discrepancy. In the history of psychiatry, there are known cases of false hysterical pregnancy, when the patient not only experienced a sharp increase in the volume of the abdomen and mammary glands, but also experienced such characteristic features labor began, that her relatives rushed her to the maternity hospital, where the true nature of her suffering was revealed. It is interesting that, as a rule, the disclosure is received with hostility by the patient and causes a violent reaction of protest, indicating her reluctance to acknowledge reality.

Simulation of central nervous system disorders

Often hysterical symptoms imitate various kinds lesions of the central nervous system, vascular spasms, infectious diseases, as well as angina pectoris, bronchial asthma, myocardial infarction. Most often symptoms female hysteria are of various kinds painful sensations in the abdomen, heart, chest, spine, not weakened by painkillers. Less common are various difficulty breathing, decreased or complete loss of sensitivity. For example, legs, arms or just parts of a limb.

Motor disturbances in female hysteria can manifest themselves in paralysis, the inability to stand or walk, or, on the contrary, twitching of the upper or lower limbs, frequent winking of the eyelids, stereotypical and unusual contractions of the muscles of the neck, face, and limbs. Contractions of the laryngeal muscles during hysteria can lead to loss of a woman’s voice (the patient speaks only in a whisper), or complete loss of speech. The patient with hysteria, however, even in this case does not lose contact with others, for example, through writing.

There are also cases of hysterical deafness and blindness (in one or both eyes). Causes surprise. that a patient with hysteria, having lost the gift of speech, does not at all strive to overcome the disturbance that has arisen through an effort of will. The composure with which the patient sometimes treats her illness is also striking. She, apparently, is not at all burdened by the unexpected paralysis and does not show any anxiety that would be appropriate in this case. Just as often, these patients with female hysteria display a peculiar ambivalence towards the symptoms and signs of the disease. On the one hand, they turn to the doctor asking for help, but on the other hand, they do not strive for recovery and even protest violently when they learn that there is no serious illness.

"Conditional Pleasantness"

All these observations reveal one characteristic feature female hysteria, which psychiatrists called “conditional pleasantness” or “desirability of a painful syndrome.” Careful questioning of a patient suffering, for example, from a hysterical pseudo-infarction and therefore forced to leave work and not leave the house for months, may lead to the conclusion that she simply does not want to leave her child in the care of her mother-in-law, for whom for some reason she feels a feeling of acute hostility. The patient is completely unaware of this. At the same time, it is obvious that the means used are clearly disproportionate to the goal achieved. The patient’s behavior indicates that she has a special system of values, which she is subconsciously guided by. Along with the primary benefit from the disease, for some patients the fact that when they get sick, they surround themselves with great care and attention from loved ones is important.

They tried to explain the amazing ability of a hysterical patient to transform his mental experiences into somatic ones on the basis of assumptions about the hypertrophy of a number of mental functions or their regression at a primitive level. According to some psychiatrists, hysterical symptoms are manifestations of phylogenetically old adaptations serving the purposes of instinctive self-defense. Sometimes hysterical neurosis can result in depression and suicide attempts.

Therapy

Treatment of hysteria in women is mainly psychotherapeutic. The psychotherapist must find out the reasons that led to the formation of hysterical neurosis in a woman. One of important points The treatment for female hysteria is to normalize her sex life and harmonize her relationship with her husband. Many women with hysteria need to consult a sex therapist.

The basic principles of treating female hysteria are aimed at eliminating psychologically traumatic situations and strengthening the nervous system - maintaining sleep and rest patterns, rational nutrition, exception various types intoxication (in particular alcohol), relaxation therapy (physiotherapy), sports.

Some women are advised to consult a gynecologist, who may prescribe medications to normalize her natural hormonal levels and reduction of vegetative manifestations. Sedative therapy is prescribed, mainly drugs plant origin(motherwort, valerian), various sedative herbal mixtures, as well as Novopasit, Persen, Corvalol, Afobazol, Grandaxin and others.

They are ready to do anything to attract attention. They dress and behave provocatively, speak in a special, theatrical tone, and puzzle those around them with a sharp change in behavior - from incredible complacency to unbearable coldness. Few people realize that under the spectacular appearance of hysterical personalities there is often a rather pitiful image of themselves. That is why they are forced to draw confidence from the admiring gaze of others.

The emotional mood of these people is constantly changing, and it is difficult to determine whether they behave this way on purpose in order to further interest and surprise, or, like children, they quickly move from laughter to tears. Moreover, the hysterics themselves are not able to realize their own feelings and sensations. It seems to them that they are natural, although in reality they are afraid that others will not like them. At the first acquaintance, hysterical personalities can captivate and charm, but their demonstrative behavior, rapid mood changes, constant thirst attention, excessive emotions after some time become boring to those around them, and they leave. Which makes the hysterical person put even more effort into charming and seducing, and he behaves even more demonstratively and unnaturally.

Distinctive Features

Constantly strives to attract the attention of others and suffers if he fails. Actively seeks the love and affection of others. + Moves quickly from one emotion to another; often expresses his feelings in a theatrical manner.+ Speaks in an affective manner; likes to describe his impressions, omitting specific facts and details.+ Tends to idealize or, conversely, unfounded criticism of others.

Familiar features?

The need to be liked changeable mood, some exaltation... aren't these typically feminine qualities? For centuries, literature has taught us that women seduce men solely out of coquetry. That they are treacherous, always playing tricks, deceiving in order to better use it for their own benefit. male strength... The ancient Greeks believed that such pure female manifestations caused by rapid processes occurring in their body. By the way, the word “hysteria” comes from the Greek husteros - womb.

However, the term hysterical personality"disappeared from the American Psychiatric Association classification in 1980. It was found that behavior and personality disorders those who were called hysterics had nothing to do with the uterus. Identical symptoms also occur in men: on average, for every two hysterical women there is one hysterical man. Of course, in some ways they behave differently from women, but they also crave attention and recognition. In addition, the term "hysterical" became negative, and in spoken language the word "hysterical" sounds like an insult. For such people, they chose another term - the artistic personality type, which comes from the Latin histrio - actor, comedian. For the reason that almost everyone who was called hysterical is characterized by a manner of expressing their emotions in a dramatic, theatrical form.

* L. Francois, A. Christophe “Is he a schizophrenic?!.. How to communicate with difficult people"(Generation, 2007).

Benefit or harm?

Rules of conduct

What to do

Be prepared for exaggeration and theatricality. The behavior of a hysteric is not whims, but a norm that is entirely consistent with his character. Therefore, it is pointless to get irritated and repeat to yourself: when will he stop this circus? This is not a circus, but a way to behave, to give yourself more confidence, to suppress too difficult experiences in the bud. Try to recognize that his artistry is as natural a phenomenon as, for example, myopia or baldness. Will you be annoyed? poor eyesight or the bald head of your loved one or friend?

Give him the stage from time to time, but impose certain restrictions. The more you reject the tantrumer, the more he will try to regain attention. Be patient, but also set the rules of the game.

Show interest whenever he behaves normally. Sometimes, confident in your attention, the artistic personality temporarily switches from theatrical behavior to normal behavior. Don't miss these precious minutes. React by approving this course of action.

Be always ready to move from hero status to nonentity status and vice versa.

What not to do

Laugh at them. They often seem funny and easily make you want to make fun of them. This applies, for example, to two year old child, who begins to "exhibit" when adults pay too much attention to his little sister. They also laugh at hysterical men because they often seem like frivolous opponents. (Not like paranoids - they laugh at them much less often.) The more you laugh, the more you push him to use all the means available to him necessary to attract attention, even to the point of hysteria, going into illness, attempting suicide.

Take seriously their attempts to seduce you - sometimes there is nothing behind them. They are ready to do anything to attract attention to themselves, and often try to introduce a touch of sexuality into any relationship, even professional ones. In response, you can begin to behave accordingly. At the risk of instantly receiving a rebuff, accompanied by surprise and even indignation!

Allow yourself to be touched. The emotionality, fragility and even infantilism of an artistic personality can make you want to protect it from the entire world around you. But for her you are only an audience. And the public, which is easy to win, quickly loses interest.

Three caveats

If this is your boss, try to remain yourself, even if he asks you to do the opposite.

If this is your employee, maintain a distance that will allow him to idealize you.

If this is your life partner, appreciate the excitement and variety that he brings to your existence. After all, this is why you connected your life with him.

Is it possible to cure it, and also to recognize who is in front of you: a sick person or an ordinary household boor?

Hysterical attacks can be very different in strength and manifestations. The general thing is that a person does not do this on purpose, does not simulate, everything happens by itself.

Charcot's great hysteria (named after the doctor who first systematized hysterical symptoms) is the most severe. It is characterized by movement disorders- weakness and numbness of the arms or legs, hysterical arcs, vegetative disorders (sweating, palpitations, fainting, sensory disturbances). A person during a seizure may suddenly stop seeing, hearing, or feeling touch. And after the attack everything goes away - as if it never happened.

Charcot's minor hysteria manifests itself as milder disorders in the form of nervous tic, tremors (shaking hands), muscle twitching.

Involutionary hysteria is often combined with anxious depression. The person fusses, finds no place for himself, his “heart sinks,” he waves his arms, shouts fragmentary phrases in despair.

Traumatic hysteria can develop after experiencing shock or severe traumatic brain injury.

How to distinguish a real hysteric from an everyday boor?

Actor for life. Demonstrative personality. All feelings are naked. Can't control himself.

The attack breaks out suddenly. Chaotic motor activity begins.

Almost always - a disturbance of the senses: vision, hearing, numbness and muscle weakness, often - hysterical fainting or a state close to it.

You don't even need it for an attack serious reason. But you always need an audience.

He falls into hysterics not even to achieve some desired goal, but to demonstrate his emotions.
Aggression towards others is not at all a mandatory item. The topic of hysteria can be completely abstract.

Cannot stop an attack by force of his own will.

After a seizure, he often remembers it only in fragments and cannot explain why and why it happened.
Vetetative manifestations are often mixed in - sweating, palpitations, polyuria ( frequent urge to the toilet), a feeling of a lump in the throat, choking, as well as motor impairment - tics, trembling, etc.

An attack can last from several minutes to several hours.

Often, after a hysterical attack, they experience a vague feeling of guilt and remorse.

What to do with it? Do not participate in his “demonstration performances” and persuade him to go to a psychiatrist. Properly selected therapy and psychotherapy will help smooth out and reduce attacks.

Brawler

Manifestations do not speak about mental disorders, but about emotional promiscuity.

Hysterics are thrown only for a reason - to achieve a specific goal.

The brawler is always assertive and aggressive.

Unlike a real hysteric, he always makes clear demands and, during the scandal, “announces the entire list” of claims.

His task is to suppress, to crush those around him.

A boor can go into a rage, at the height of hysteria, look unattractive (the face is distorted, saliva splashes), he is not aware that he looks terrible, but at the same time he mentally controls himself.

He easily comes to his senses as soon as he gets the desired result or, on the contrary, feels a firm and decisive rebuff. You can reason with him social measures, for example, threaten to call the police.

After the scandal, he remembers every word - and he will also remember and remind you of what you might have carelessly blurted out.
He doesn’t feel any annoyance or shame for the scene he created - after all, if he didn’t plan it, he carried it out quite consciously.

What to do with it? Do not give in to provocations, stand your ground firmly, and do not allow yourself to be manipulated.

Hysteria is one of the varieties of complex neurosis. Its main manifestation is a specific affective-emotional attack. Having seen it once, you will never forget it again and will not confuse it with anything else. Reversibility is also typical for the disease mental disorders and the absence of local changes in the brain. Such patients try to attract as much attention to themselves as possible. It was once believed that this disease primarily affected women. But now in equally it also occurs in men.

Causes of hysteria

As in any mental illness, the main cause of hysteria is considered to be a violation of human behavior. The basis of hysteria is the development of behavior and personality. All this is directly dependent on how suggestible and emotional a person is. Often a hysterical attack is a consequence of conflict, various experiences and neuropsychic stress. The main role in the development of neurosis is played by human infantilism and hysterical character traits, burdened by heredity. Provoking factors include:

• Severe diseases of internal organs.
• Physical overexertion.
• Dissatisfaction with professional activities.
• Trouble in the family.
• Injuries suffered.
• Alcohol abuse.
• Excessive use of medications.

In addition, it has been proven that the disease occurs in people lacking certain character traits. A person who is deprived of them, under the influence of provoking factors, has a reactive state. According to scientific research, a hysterical attack rarely occurs suddenly. Usually they prepare for it like actors before a performance. We can say that in this way the patient is trying to get away from an unbearable reality and get some benefits from it. There is even an assumption that, under the influence of certain factors, a person’s reflex is triggered and a hysterical reaction begins.

Signs of hysteria

Most main feature The behavior of such patients is the desire to always be the center of attention, to arouse feelings of envy and admiration among others. Such people try to dress loudly and provocatively, talk about high achievements, about the tragic past of his life, often far-fetched. The disease begins with the appearance of signs of hysteria. Provoked by a quarrel emotional experiences, excitement. This diagnosis is most often not difficult to make. Although the disease has large number a wide variety of symptoms. No wonder there is hysteria in ancient times called the “great simulator”, because under it can hide many diseases that require differentiated diagnostics. What can you see?

• Demonstrative behavior with increased psycho-emotional explosion, various seizures.
• Complaints about discomfort in the heart area, interruptions in heart function, lack of air.
• Mood instability - crying is replaced by laughter.
• Unsteady gait, functional paralysis and paresis, inability to move independently.
• Playing for the public, there is childish, absurd behavior that does not correspond to the patient’s age.
• Lack of sensitivity in some areas of the mucous membrane and skin.
• Loss of consciousness with seizures. The patient remembers the state of the attack well, although he does not always talk about it.
• Feeling of a lump in the throat.
• Clutching headache.
• Impaired perception of the surrounding world - changes in sensitivity, deafness and blindness.
• “Flight into illness” - even a minor conflict with others causes a person to have an attack. They cannot work normally and pretend to be seriously ill.

Quite often, hysteria is hidden under many diseases that doctors try to treat for a long time and ineffectively. standard methods. But with hysteria, symptoms arise at those moments when the patient himself needs it. Classic version manifestations of the disease are a hysterical attack. The main reason for the development of a seizure is some experience that led to a breakdown of the mechanisms nervous activity. In persons with a tendency to hysteria, a seizure may develop at the slightest provocation. During a seizure, the following movements appear: patients tear their clothes, hair, knock their feet, fall to the floor and roll on it, bend over, cry. The most important thing is that the hysterical attack begins before everyone’s eyes. The attack is preceded by laughter or crying, which will never occur in a sleeping person. You will never have a seizure alone. Unlike an epileptic attack, here patients carefully fall to the floor so as not to be seriously injured. Won't happen after a hysterical attack involuntary urination, tongue bite, bruises. If a lot of people and sympathizers have gathered, then the attack of hysteria may drag on. But when others appear irritating factors (cold water, pain) the patient quickly comes to his senses. These patients are characterized by the following character traits and behavioral characteristics:

• Constant desire to be the center of attention
• Egocentrism
• Tearfulness and moodiness
• Frequent mood swings
• Theatricality and demonstrative behavior.

The disease has chronic course With periodic exacerbations throughout life. Hysteria in children arises as a consequence of long-term psychological trauma, which infringes on his personality and rights (as the child himself believes). It has been noticed that this disease affects pampered children with weak will and immunity to criticism. Such children are not accustomed to any responsibilities around the house and do not understand the words “need” and “no.” But the words “give it quickly” and “I want it” are perceived very well. Children have contradictions between desires and real life. The first attack of hysteria in children can be found in infancy. The baby asks to be held by his mother, but she cannot take him. What do some children do? They begin to cry, scream, and may throw their head back and fall on the bed. As soon as you take the baby in your arms, he becomes silent and calms down. This is the first manifestation hysterical attack. Older children, when they refuse to buy a toy they like, begin to behave the same way in the store. The attack ends when the mother agrees to the child’s conditions.

Patients with symptoms of hysteria require consultation and treatment by a psychiatrist. But only after the examination. Treatment of hysteria requires mandatory assistance and relatives. Such a family member should be treated calmly, without unnecessary anxiety. First of all, it is necessary to establish the cause of the disease and eliminate it. They try to find the optimal solution to the problem and help them overcome it. Conducted complex treatment medications and psychotherapy. From medicines use vitamins, psychotropic and restorative drugs. Physiotherapeutic procedures include acupuncture and soothing massage. The impact on the psycho-emotional background is achieved through autogenic training, rational psychotherapy, the use of hypnosis and the method of suggestion. During psychotherapy, together with the patient, the doctor analyzes the causes that led to the disease. Hypnosis is considered the most in an efficient way treatment of hysteria. Occupational therapy also plays a certain role - it distracts the patient from worries, creates conditions for communication with other people and the team. How to help a child during an attack of hysteria? Can be sprayed cold water, shake, slap. If the baby falls and convulsive twitching begins, then it is advisable to lay him on a soft surface, hold his legs, arms and head a little so that there is no severe damage. In principle, helping adults is also not very different from helping children. You can only spank an adult on the cheeks, preferably by pressing on the earlobes. Depending on the severity of the disease, treatment will be outpatient or inpatient.

We often use the expression “throwing a tantrum,” meaning an overly impulsive display of emotions with tears, screams, and even sometimes breaking dishes. What is hysteria - a disease or ordinary behavioral promiscuity?

Hysteria as a disease

It is necessary to separate the concept of “hysteria” as a disease and everyday “hysteria” as a deliberate “acting” scene. It's not the same thing.

What is hysteria?

Hysteria- psychosomatic neurotic disease. Hysteria is characteristic, in addition to the demonstrative expression of one’s emotions (laughter, screams, tears, sobs) and other symptoms of hysteria such as spasms, seizures, headaches, confusion, convulsions, and even blindness and deafness after a particularly violent attack of hysteria.

Often the symptoms of hysteria are associated with other psychopathic manifestations: phobias, dislike of any colors, numbers, confidence in a conspiracy against oneself. Hysteria varying degrees gravity ( the most severe of them is hysterical psychopathy) affects about 8% of the world's population. Hysterical attacks of such people- these are manifestations of a serious illness, and not a performance at all. As a rule, the first signs of hysterical neurosis appear in childhood, therefore, parents of such children who react excessively violently, hysterically to events, arching and screaming, should definitely show them pediatric neurologist. The last one is signs and symptoms of hysterical fit in children.

Sometimes only a psychiatrist can help with hysteria

In the event that the problem has been growing like a snowball over the years, and is pronounced an adult suffers from hysterical neurosis, only a psychiatrist can help him. In each specific case, the doctor must conduct a thorough analysis and on its basis prescribes treatment for hysteria. It usually includes psychotropic drugs(usually sleeping pills, tranquilizers and anxolytics), as well as persuasion psychotherapy, autogenic training in order to reveal those life circumstances that cause and support the disease, and to try to level out their significance in the patient’s life.

In mild cases, hysteria is treated on an outpatient basis, in more severe cases - in the hospital, but not in psychiatric hospital, but in neurosis clinics, that is, the patient is not registered at the dispensary.

Household hysteria - a sold-out performance

Doctors have different opinions on how to define the line that separates a hysterical patient from a person who is prone to violently express his emotions to the point of hysteria. Such people can restrain themselves, but sometimes they do not consider it necessary to do this, because the outburst of emotions gives them the desired release, after which they feel better. Thus, his hysterical antics are a simple uncontrolled outburst of emotions due to accumulated experiences, fatigue, fear, etc. The key difference between such a person, who sometimes expresses his emotions excessively, and a person suffering from hysteria, is precisely the possibility or impossibility of self-control. A patient with hysteria does not know how to express his experiences in any other way, both joy and anger.

So let's separate the wheat from the chaff. Hysteria is a disease. And in the everyday understanding, “hysteria” is a scene of an outburst of overwhelming emotions, and 99% of it is a work for the viewer. Hysterical emotional outbursts, such as “screaming in the kitchen while breaking dishes,” are nothing more than a way to get one’s way.

“Oh-oh-oh, what have I done?!” Consequences of hysteria

Such a person is impulsive and emotional from birth, has a developed, creative imagination, easily “gets turned on” by trifles and just as skillfully “turns on” those around him. He always successfully manages to attract attention to himself. He always needs an audience, without it the intensity quickly fades away. The main goal of this whole “performance” is to attract the attention of others and achieve your goal. Such people will benefit from psychotherapy aimed at correcting behavior.

A small nuance. For some reason, women are more prone to “making scenes,” just as women are more likely to suffer from hysteria. For every 10 women who periodically break dishes, there is approximately one man who, in the anger of a quarrel, breaks down the door or throws the TV off the balcony, only to then sit down and quietly ask himself, “Oh-oh-oh, what have I done?”

A separate type of hysteric is a mentally healthy and outwardly quite balanced person who at one moment can explode. Such people then tend to regret their outburst and are ashamed of their unbalanced character. Psychologists call this type “epileptoid.”

Is the wandering uterus to blame?

Speaking of female hysterics . Even in ancient times, Hysterus (translated from Latin as “wandering uterus”) was considered a disease exclusively of women. Like, a “dissatisfied uterus” in the literal sense of the word wanders around the body and makes a woman periodically lose her temper.

And even then, in the Middle Ages and modern times, it was believed for quite a long time that Only women are really hysterical, and this was explained by the vagaries of female sex hormones. No, of course we today we know about premenstrual syndrome and that these days a woman is characterized by increased excitability, touchiness and irritability. But this does not make her hysterical in the sense in which this word exists in medical reference books. Let's just say that apparently women have simply found the most effective tool for influencing others: sobbing and wringing their hands - and everything will be my way. Although with medical point vision, involutional hysteria can be observed in women in some cases, the so-called. pathological menopause, which is characterized by other disorders of the nervous system - depression, mood swings, anxiety, and various autonomic disorders.

What to do if someone near you is hysterical

Of course, it is often impossible to figure out on your own whether the actor in front of you is “breaking a comedy” or whether a sick person is in distress. And this once again confirms the fact that, be that as it may, there is little you can do to calm him down. But there are some general recommendations, concerning what will help to quickly stop an attack or a scene of a game.

Do not persuade him to calm down, do not feel sorry for him and do not fall into hysterics yourself - this will only encourage the hysteroid. Be indifferent or even go somewhere until the scene ends.

If the scene goes off scale in all respects, and this is seen, for example, by children, you can try to stop the attack with some sudden action - pour a glass of water on the person, give a gentle slap in the face, press pain point on the arm just below the ulnar fossa.

After a seizure, give the person a glass of cold water or persuade them to sniff ammonia.

Be sure to seek medical help if we're talking about about your relative - the disease may progress.

If you yourself know that you have a craving for arranging ugly scenes just for the sake of release, and even more so, you find some kind of “charm” in this, it is better to try to direct your energy in another direction - for example, get release by playing sports, dancing, walking the dog . It would also be a good idea to contact a psychologist, otherwise you risk over time not getting any reaction at all to your hysterics - a person gets used to everything. About you in best case scenario They’ll think: “He’ll scream and calm down,” and in the worst case... it’s scary to even imagine.

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