How to make peace with a Cancer woman and get her back. Best friend according to horoscope

Surely each of us had girlfriends born in the Water element of the Zodiac - Pisces, Cancer or Scorpio. Personally, I remember the sincerity of these women. The first impression is that they understand you, they are very attentive and kind to you. In the company of these women you feel very comfortable, peaceful, without expecting any catch. But there are also pitfalls in this quiet backwater, in which, as you know, there are always devils...

What immediately strikes you is the intuition of the signs of Water, and besides, it is female. There is no need to go to a fortune teller, because your friends have a great understanding of people, they feel the rhythm of life and its subconscious movements. The human soul is not much of a mystery to such people. This is why the illusion of lull and understanding is created - you are already understood and you feel good about it. As you know, happiness is when you are understood. Water signs are very sentimental, and this quality is irreplaceable in friendship.

Understanding the mechanisms of human actions and flexibility of character sometimes turns into cunning and the ability to build tricks among Water signs. Deception is the negative element of women born under the sign of Pisces, Cancer, and especially Scorpio!

So, your friend is Cancer. Cancer often seems very defenseless, weak, fragile and touchy... to the point of tears! Exactly, don’t ever buy into tears! Cancer is like a child who achieves his goal with tears. As soon as you walk out the door, your Cancer will immediately turn on cheerful music and, as if nothing had happened, begin to clean the apartment, cheerfully singing a song, getting his way from you. The fact is that, in fact, the Cancer woman has an iron character, persistent and hardy.

In addition, Cancers are often lunar vampires, being under the control of the Moon. They often complain about life and failures, driving you crazy. In the depths of my soul, in fact, without worrying at all. They want sympathy and attention - you worry about them, and at this time they are fueled by your energy, your pity.

The Cancer friend is often jealous and very possessive. She will be displeased to hear that you are spending the evening and time with someone else. With a friend, a new girlfriend, family, your children or classmates. Your time and you yourself should belong only to her! Cancer is more possessive than Scorpio!

Let's consider another sign - Pisces.
Pisces have one significant drawback - their tendency to gossip. It is unlikely that your secrets will remain between the two of you. The fish is silent, provoking its interlocutor to talk with its silence. The fish is a spineless creature and the lack of meaning in its actions, such as “here and there” and the rigidity of character and principles, is obvious. In short, you can’t take a Fish into reconnaissance. She's not as dumb as she seems. Pisces are very envious and this is an important point.
Even though Pisces are capable of mutual assistance and moral support, this impression is deceptive and is created only in your mind, and not in reality. Pisces are cute and pleasant to talk to due to their ability to listen and fish important information.

You will be surprised to learn gossip about you from your friends, but it is impossible to call Pisces to account - she floats away in an unknown direction forever, this sign is elusive and cannot be put under pressure. In general, the Fish took advantage of you and was like that, slipped off the hook, as they say!

Let's move on to Scorpio. Well, what can I say? Here you will have to be silent more often. And cry too. And forget about gossip about her. Secrecy must be maintained. Perhaps your high-flying Scorpio will not take revenge on you, but you should be careful. If you are not afraid of the truth, you will not find a better friend. A Scorpio friend will always help you out in difficult times, but you must give everything to her without reserve. often Scorpio requires only unquestioning devotion and fidelity.

Be careful of taking her with you to the guys' campaign - she will lead you away! If you are an adventure lover, like to go out and meet guys - Scorpio is a wonderful travel companion! Do not turn away from Scorpio in trouble - she will always appreciate it and will come to the rescue at any hour of the day.

The downside of women born under the Water Sign is greed and envy. Pisces are swaggering, Cancers are thrifty, and Scorpio is simply on his own and generous only with a very close person. Water Signs are most often on their own minds and being frank with them is more expensive.

When communicating with them, I would advise you to listen to their advice and learn from them flexibility and diplomacy.

Compatibility horoscope: how to understand a Cancer friend by zodiac sign - the most full description, only proven theories based on astrological observations of several millennia.

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Cancer loves friends who will support his (her) emotional and financial demands when necessary. And Cancer is ready to reciprocate.

Positive factors. Friends are in most cases treated as members of the family and are treated with love, protection, hospitality, sincere respect and great affection. The friends of youth are the most precious.

Negative factors. When Cancer is hurt by a friend, his (her) anger can last a long time and the friend can be rejected. However, if the friend is old, emotional attachment will ultimately lead to reconciliation. Cancers strive to set their own standards, focusing on the successes achieved by their friends.

Cancer often makes a delightful friend. The strong, energetic Cancer type values ​​friendship quite highly because he enjoys giving and serving. But such friendship can sometimes become too demanding and intrusive, and there is no place for equality in it.

Cancer doesn't like noisy companies, he does not feel needed in them and is able to demonstrate his qualities. But if help is needed, Cancer is always on top. If, amidst cheerful laughter and jokes, someone hides their tears in a distant corner, then you can be sure that Cancer will be the first to notice.

Cancers feel kindly treated and try to respond in kind. However, it is difficult to achieve sincere friendship and complete trust from Cancer. The saying “an old friend is better than two new ones” suits Cancers perfectly. Thanks to their sensitivity and ability to compassion, Cancers often become confidants of other people's secrets, especially since they know how to keep them. However, Cancers themselves carefully protect their souls from prying eyes.

Cancer will never leave a friend in trouble. To create friendly relations with Cancer, very little is needed: condescension to his inconstancy and changeability, understanding of his whims. Cancers support many people good relationship, but they only have one or two real friends, no more.

Cancers prefer people who are understanding, honest and open. cheerful so that they complement themselves. Cancer does everything to ensure that the time spent with a friend evokes only pleasant memories in the future.

Cancers have the longest attachments and friendships with people born in their period from June 21 to July 20-27, or from October 21 to November 20-27, from February 19 to March 20-27, as well as with people born in the middle their “triangle”, that is, from December 21 to January 20-27.

Zodiac signs and friends for other zodiac constellations:

How do you know which friend will betray you, who is with you through thick and thin? Just find out her zodiac sign and look at this list!

The ideal friend is available always and everywhere, regardless of daily routine, time zones and other vitally unimportant little things. She is always ready to talk - all she does is look at the monitor, waiting for your message.

Many astrologers claim that if you count the number 11 from your sign along the zodiac circle, you will get the zodiac sign of a friend who would understand you as herself and always support you. For example, if you are a Taurus, then your girlfriend should have been born under the sign of Pisces. At the same time, do not forget that you must also count your sign.

However, first, let's figure out why girlfriends are beautiful depending on their signs:

FRIEND – ARIES

GOOD BECAUSE it always helps first. She never procrastinates with anything. She has everything at once and now. Hot and open person.

THE BAD THING is that it never sticks to anything, that it’s all at once and now. And always at the wrong time. Extremely intolerant.

On reconnaissance. Well, if I had gone with an Aries friend, then I think we would have left a lot of damage - we would have blown up something unnecessary, just at the same time. She would have left me no choice, and we would have had to take it, even if we didn't need it. We wouldn't have left unnoticed. They would shoot at us. She would ask: If I were wounded in the legs, she would make me crawl, encourage me with words, but would not abandon me. I fully admit that if we did return, they would give us Heroes Soviet Union, but I would limp and stutter for the rest of my life.

FRIEND – TAURUS

GOOD IN THAT she is always balanced and peaceful. Knows how to enjoy beauty loudly and enthusiastically.

The bad thing is that sometimes it slows down a lot and gets terribly restrained.

On reconnaissance. If I went with a Taurus friend, we would walk quietly, but far away. They would sit patiently in secluded corners and count the enemy tanks passing by. And if at that moment someone had seen us, from her friendly face and a bouquet of wildflowers in her hand, they would never have guessed that we were here on reconnaissance. It was she, peaceful and calm, who would approach someone who was greatly interfering with the task, and with the same calmness would plunge a knife into the enemy’s body and support him so that he would not fall loudly. And if we were still tied up, which would certainly happen, since her reaction is slightly slow, she would not give anyone away. And she would have bitten off a fascist’s finger. But we would have been shot anyway.

FRIEND – GEMINI

GOOD IN THAT he thinks quickly, has excellent taste and works according to the Stanislavsky system.

BAD IN THAT he thinks quickly, has excellent taste and works according to the Stanislavsky system.

On reconnaissance. If I went on reconnaissance with a Gemini friend, I would drink heavily beforehand

Valerian Because the unknown scares us the most. We would go cheerfully. But when we got to the place, we quarreled for a long time in the bushes - we would have disagreements on tactics. Then I would give in. Because you can not give in to Gemini only when you have a lot of free time at your disposal. Then she would take the frivolous outfit out of her duffel bag and turn into a frivolous fraulein. And while I would be crawling on my belly and attaching a mine to the general’s car, she would distract attention with a pole dance rehearsed in the dugout. Most likely I would return alone. And she would have remained a resident. And traces of her would have been lost in Poland.

FRIEND IS CANCER

GOOD BECAUSE he showers you with gifts, showers you with compliments and pet names. He always wants to feed him something.

THE BAD THING is that he thinks one thing, says another, does another. Although, perhaps, she thinks exactly what she then does. Because she will never let go of what she is aiming at from her claws.

On reconnaissance. If I had gone with a Cancer friend, I wouldn't have returned. Everything was agreed upon in the smallest detail - she should throw a grenade in front of the first car, I should shoot accurately at the second. She should cover me, and I should cross the road. And together we would go deeper into the forest in short runs. But for some reason she doesn’t actually throw the grenade, the car doesn’t stop. I shoot at a moving target and miss. She runs over to my side, explaining along the way that she couldn’t take the pin off the grenade, she thought that I would shoot at the wheels of the first car, but for some reason I didn’t do this, that she was sure that: It doesn’t matter what. Schmeisser shots in the back.

FRIEND – LEO

GOOD BECAUSE it is reliable, like a rock. Noble as gold. And he never flirts. This doesn't suit the Queen.

THE BAD THING is that you can’t indulge your weaknesses around her. Conscience doesn't allow it. Next to the queen, all that remains is to be a favorite.

On reconnaissance. If I went on reconnaissance with my Leo friend, we would do the impossible. We would, of course, complete the task without any problems. But they wouldn’t leave so easily. They've already arrived. Why waste time on trifles? It's a stone's throw to the fascist headquarters, but we only mined the bridge. We would get to headquarters. She would take the pin out of her hair and, shaking her hair like in a shampoo commercial, would go to the door with the sentries. Those, as in the advertisement, would have dropped their jaws and would not even have thought to stop her, because they would have wanted to look at her from behind. And then the chaos would begin. They would give us heroes posthumously. But the headquarters would have been decapitated.

FRIEND – VIRGO

The good thing is that her help is not emotional, but material. It is difficult to deceive her - she is an analyst and will not calm down for a long time and will not stop analyzing if doubt has crept into her soul.

The bad thing is that they will definitely notice your pimple and advise you on how to treat it. But it would be better to remain silent, honestly.

On reconnaissance. If I had gone with Virgo: We could have done it. She would be the one who would bandage my wounds sterilely. And they would definitely be, because acting according to the situation means abandoning the original plan. When I couldn’t pull the pin out of the grenade myself, the plan would have to be changed on the spot. But we agreed in the smallest details. She would tell me this all the way back while she was dragging me on her.

FRIEND – LIBRA

The good thing is that with her, as in the theater, the performance of one actor does not stop for a minute. She is a wonderful storyteller and a very subtle person.

THE BAD THING is that it carries her along, and at times she gets carried away. And she often doesn’t understand where. He lies and doesn't blush.

On reconnaissance. If I went with a Libra friend, we would definitely come back. And nothing would have been blown up. We would do everything in a civilized manner. We could sit in a restaurant with whoever we need. We would do everything we need for our homeland. And we would find out everything we need. And in the morning they would take us by car to where we were closest to our people. It is quite possible that we would not have returned alone. And with a detachment of liquidators who came from completely out of nowhere on their tail.

FRIEND – SCORPIO

GOOD BECAUSE IT TAKES LIFE SERIOUSLY. As a matter of principle, he does not wear rose-colored glasses.

It’s bad because it’s much stronger than it needs to be. She is egocentric. And it is still not clear why it is so significant.

On reconnaissance. If I had gone on reconnaissance with a Scorpio friend, we would have taken on a lot of sins. We would mercilessly remove the sentries in complete darkness. They would grind their teeth, but would stubbornly move towards the goal. I wouldn’t have noticed how I would have started following her commands. But I don’t know how this adventure would have ended, because I’m almost sure that it would have been my Scorpio friend who would have kindly put a bullet in my forehead if I had been wounded in the stomach.

FRIEND – SAGITTARIUS

GOOD IN THAT she is very optimistic, cheerful and adventurous to such an extent that this is also BAD...

On reconnaissance. If I had gone on reconnaissance with my Sagittarius friend, we would have done some business. Honestly, we would really miss other signs. We would definitely forget something - for example, cartridges. Or maybe a map. And they would laugh at it for a long time. I would have to act from memory and intuition. I would scream at the Krauts and throw stones. And she would hit them on the head from behind with the shafts. I would throw sand in my eyes. And a fascist sniper would definitely hit her not in the heart, but in the medallion on her chest.

FRIEND – CAPRICORN

The good thing is that everything happens to her that doesn’t happen to me. That she talks about everything with taste. And because of her, I know that the impossible is possible, you just have to have a goal and go towards it.

The bad thing is that it can unintentionally instill an inferiority complex.

On reconnaissance. If I went with a Capricorn friend, I would be very tired. I’m not that resilient and I couldn’t jog with a machine gun through the swamps for a long time. She would, of course, wait for me and not be annoyed. Then we would methodically mine everything according to some super-complicated scheme, without making a single mistake. And if she had been accidentally captured and I had not been noticed, she would never have given me up. She would be tortured, and she would try to relax and have fun. How would I know this? She would have told me herself. After all, I would definitely go to free her.

FRIEND – AQUARIUS

The good thing is that being with her is always interesting and unusual. She is unique in that, for all her feminine beauty, she is the only one completely devoid of typically feminine traits.

THE BAD THING is that her hobbies often develop into manias.

On reconnaissance. If I had gone with an Aquarius friend, we would have had enough adrenaline. Every time my heart would sink into my heels when she rose from the trench into full height and would go to talk to civilians. She probably would have talked to the German officers, who would not have wanted to let her go. It's so great to be with her! She would tell everyone about his karma. Their interest would peak when she slipped barbiturate into their glasses. It’s scary to think that I would have been drawn into this story and would have been sitting next to him on pins and needles. I would have been declassified. She is not.

FRIEND - PISCES

THE GOOD THING is that this is the most sought-after person who is adapted to changing conditions. It is not for nothing that she is the last in the Zodiac - an improved model.

The bad thing is that it suits me too much. But one thing worries you - when you extend your hand to the mirror, it answers you in kind. But can you consider a mirror your best friend?

On reconnaissance. If I went with a Pisces friend, we would laugh a lot. Especially on the way back. Firstly, she would probably have acquaintances at the German headquarters who would quietly bring us all the secret documents for us to remember. Secondly, upon closer examination, the fascist bigwig would turn out to be her relative from the Baltic states. The connection, of course, is discreditable, but at the right time it comes in handy. Everything would be done quietly, without pyrotechnics and special effects, based on personal connections and one’s own charm.

So, the ideal girlfriend for:

If you read the friend compatibility horoscope, then for Aries women the ideal friend is one who has the qualities of Aquarius, because girls born under this sign know how to be friends and understand, they will never impose themselves and do not enter into too close relationships, which is very convenient for Aries . Use your friend's advice if you need inspiration and creative ideas, she will always be happy to help you.

For Taurus, Pisces is an excellent option, because it is a friend with such a zodiac sign who is able to tell a Taurus woman about emotional experiences, she will always listen and help, however, you need to remember that this is a closed sign, which has many of its own secrets, it is better not to ask about them if the Pisces woman does not tell herself. It is better to turn to a friend with this zodiac sign when you need encouragement and have self-doubt.

A Gemini woman is closest in spirit to a friend born under the sign of Aries. An Aries girlfriend will become a leader in friendly relations, but Gemini will not be upset. Aries will be happy to take a leadership role and organize joint days of rest. An Aries friend is irreplaceable emergency situations, you can always turn to her for help and protection.

The best zodiac sign for a Cancer girlfriend is Taurus. These friends will always have common interests, such as design or cooking. The Cancer woman will be able to smooth out unpleasant situations, which can arise with stubborn Taurus.

Virgos will happily choose a Cancer woman as their friend, whom they will always look after and help in everything. Virgos need to take into account that their Cancer friend likes to be at home and her mood often changes.

It is better for Libra to choose a Leo woman who is passionate about art as a friend. However, it is important to remember that Leo should not be criticized under any circumstances, even if something does not suit you. Sometimes a friend of this sign can turn into a talisman of your happiness and success.

The best option is a Virgo friend who will always take care, be modest and faithful. However, during communication, try to avoid criticism of each other. People born under the sign of Virgo are distinguished by innate healing.

It is better for a Sagittarius woman to make friends with sociable Libra who can always smooth out corners and find a way out of any situation. However, at first after meeting, Sagittarius will take the initiative in friendship, because Libra behaves modestly and indecisively.

Women born under the sign of Capricorn and Scorpio will become close friends on for many years. They will never gossip about each other and will always be loyal and faithful.

Aquarius will happily make friends with cheerful Sagittarius. Often such friends meet during training, because they should have common interests. With the help of Sagittarius, an Aquarius woman can achieve significant advancement in career ladder and gain the respect of others.

For Pisces, Taurus is an excellent option, because it is a friend with such a zodiac sign who is able to tell a Pisces woman about her emotional experiences, she will always listen and help, however, you need to remember that this is a closed sign, which has many of its own secrets, it is better not to ask about them , if the Taurus woman does not tell herself. It is better to turn to a friend with this zodiac sign when you need encouragement and have self-doubt.

Is your girlfriend Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio? Characteristics of the Water signs of the Zodiac

Pisces have one significant drawback - their tendency to gossip. It is unlikely that your secrets will remain between the two of you. The fish is silent, provoking its interlocutor to talk with its silence. The fish is a spineless creature and the lack of meaning in its actions, such as “here and there” and the rigidity of character and principles, is obvious. In short, you can’t take a Fish into reconnaissance. She's not as dumb as she seems. Pisces are very envious and this is an important point.

Even though Pisces are capable of mutual assistance and moral support, this impression is deceiving and is created only in your mind, and not in reality. Pisces are sweet and pleasant to talk to due to their ability to listen and extract important information.

Friendship with Cancer

In friendship, people born under the sign of Cancer can play three roles. Sometimes they choose a patron friend who will give them a feeling of security. Cancers yield to such a friend in any dispute, one might even say they indulge him. They look like small sticky fish that accompany a huge sea fish to feast on the remains of its meal. Both satisfying and safe - who would offend this giant?

However, unlike the sticky fish, Cancers can offer something in return to their influential friends. Firstly, it is admiration and respect, recognition of merit. Secondly, in difficult times, Cancers are ready to support their “rich pinocchios”, if not in deed, then certainly in word. They will always listen carefully, sympathize, and give balanced advice. Well, thirdly, if trouble really happens to a friend, then Cancer will still come to his aid... after waiting, however, for some time. Cancer hopes to the last that the situation will settle down on its own. But if you can’t do without his participation, he will sigh and lend a helping hand.

The second role of Cancer in friendship is completely opposite. Seeing a weak and defenseless creature, unable to stand up for itself, but at the same time kind in soul, Cancer can boldly come to its defense. At the same time, he can show such dedication that he is afraid to even think about in peacetime. Who knows why he does this? Perhaps his noble soul does not tolerate injustice? Or he sees himself in a weak creature, only in a more at a young age? Most likely, both.

And yet, the healthiest and most enjoyable for Cancer is the third role. In this case, he chooses a friend who is like himself like two peas in a pod. Here sometimes there is such a kinship of souls that you don’t often see between relatives. However there is important condition- Cancer's friend should have similar material wealth. Simply put, if you have less money than a Cancer, he will start to shy away from you a little.

The issue of money is generally very sensitive for people of this sign. They know how and love to earn (or receive) money, and they really don’t like to spend it. What is there to spend! A real Cancer won't even admit that he has a couple of coins in his pocket. He will avoid any spending in every possible way, pretend to be poor, and claim that he is on the verge of financial collapse. In general, in his imagination this is not far from the truth - any ruble spent is a great loss for him. And the conclusion from all this is this: if you like to freely manage money, make expensive purchases, dine in the best restaurants, and the like, Cancer will never become your bosom friend.

All Cancers hate risk. It seems stupid and unnecessary to them, like playing with fire. For this reason, they never play slot machines or place bets in casinos. People who love adventure and are easy-going can evoke a lot of admiration and surprise in Cancer. But Cancer will never agree to share their entertainment; he would rather sit quietly at home. You won’t tempt him with the dream of conquering Everest, but he will gladly support a trip to the nearest and proven water park.

Cancers devote themselves so much to friends that there cannot be many of them - two, three, and most often one. Quite often this is a childhood friend with whom Cancer became friends at school or even kindergarten. Such a friend will be included in the Cancer's house along with his family. For your own sake best friend Cancer is capable of anything, but only if he knows that this attitude is mutual. It is worth trying to earn the kind attitude of Cancer. If you succeed, then you can be sure that he will not let you drown in the abyss of life's troubles.

Compatibility of Cancer with other zodiac signs:

Cancer and Aries friendship: Cancer is ready to give Aries a leadership role in exchange for protection, but deep down he will be dissatisfied with this unequal relationship.

Cancer and Taurus friendship: Full mutual understanding and complementarity. This couple will never have any disagreements.

Cancer and Gemini friendship: Cancer may admire Gemini or even envy him. But Gemini loves to laugh at the slow Cancer. It's no wonder if Cancer harbors a grudge.

Cancer and Cancer friendship: Double caution, prudence and frugality promise them excellent business relations. Together they can achieve great wealth.

Cancer and Leo friendship: there will be friendship and patronage. Leo will willingly take Cancer under his wing, and in return he will listen to eulogies all day long.

Cancer and Virgo friendship: They have a lot in common, although sometimes Virgo's criticism can drive Cancer into real depression. Let Cancer show a little humor and lightness, and Virgo show condescension.

Cancer and Libra friendship: These relationships are likely to be superficial. Here it is most likely not friendship, but social acquaintance. Libra is too fickle in the eyes of Cancer.

Cancer and Scorpio friendship: Two water signs get along well with each other. True, Scorpio gets more from this union. But only until Cancer becomes more cunning.

Cancer and Sagittarius friendship: Many Sagittarius qualities evoke sincere admiration in Cancer: openness, honesty, and adventurism... But they rarely become friends, they are too different.

Cancer and Capricorn friendship: Friendship is like the relationship between a child and an old man. If Capricorn gives Cancer more freedom, then the relationship can be improved.

Cancer and Aquarius friendship: They are always interested in being in each other's company, but there can be no talk of real friendship. Aquarius is too ephemeral for Cancer, who loves stability in everything.

Cancer and Pisces friendship: Cancer and Pisces friendship: This is the kind of friendship where one of the friends constantly consoles the other. Whoever starts crying and complaining first wins this game.

how to understand a cancer friend by zodiac sign

The best, oddly enough, compatibility Cancer with another Cancer. This union turns out to be strong, loving, and

the main thing is that they have common goals and dreams. If you managed to build such a relationship, then definitely rejoice. IN love relationships These water signs will have a lot of happiness and tenderness. The main thing is to be able to be on on the same page with your partner, don't leave it on arbitrariness of fate. Then everything will work out. A man and a woman may not immediately come to such a union, because they have decent compatibility with other signs. Compatibility horoscope for Cancer and others sign very rarely positive. For Aries, Leo and even Taurus, relationships with Cancers will be a pleasant surprise. Open your heart towards true love. Everything works out for those who know the horoscope of their zodiac sign.

When two Cancers meet

If they met, they are unlikely to decide to separate. The compatibility of two Cancers is 100%, strange as it may seem. WITH other signs they are less likely to get this strong union, built on love and mutual understanding. Any astrological forum is replete with stories about how a Cancer man and woman suddenly met, fell in love and lived happily ever after. There is no betrayal in such couples, because both are above it. Only positive things about each other

There is such an ominous and difficult-to-treat diagnosis as oncology, popularly called cancer. In order to most accurately describe the essence of a Cancer friend, a parallel should be drawn with this disease.

The fact is that this arthropod has a death grip on all its acquaintances and close people, from which it is not so easy to escape. It doesn’t matter who meets on her way: husband, friends, girlfriends, just acquaintances, Rachikha puts her claws into the soul of everyone and everything in order to tie them to herself as tightly as possible, and then, just like a tumor, live at their expense. After all, a Cancer woman cannot exist on her own. Or he doesn’t want to, which seems more like the truth.

At the first time of communication, a Cancer friend may seem like the sweetest person, so suitable for the image of Turgenev’s young lady, such an airy and deeply spiritual person, the kindest person. She can cry into her vest and hear a kind word, which, as we know, is pleasant for a cat. However, this will not last long, just until Rachikha understands that you have become attached to her and value your friendship.

From this harsh moment you will have to pay dividends, that is, listen to her long and necessary complaints on her husband and mother-in-law, or even worse, to be aware of the illnesses of all her household members. Not everyone can stand this! If before, you could easily chat about diets, films and clothes, now be so kind as to keep a record of her youngest’s vaccinations and constipation; if you forget something from the conversation, you will definitely be offended!!! And he will cry! Cancer girlfriends love this activity. Anything can be a reason for hysteria, even if the store doesn’t have her favorite yogurt.

Tears! Here is the most powerful weapon of a Cancer girlfriend! And she uses this replenishable resource inappropriately and inappropriately, and she cries pitifully and for a long time, so long until she achieves her goal! So after her next request to do something, you will think several times about doing it and killing the day, or refusing and killing one day to console her tears, and the next to fulfill the request.

On the other hand, it is very convenient to have a Cancer friend as a friend if you are not against adultery with her husband. No matter how obvious your relationship with her husband is, she will not pay attention to it and calmly accept you as a guest. And this can last for years and decades, up to calls in the middle of the night: “Hello! Do you have mine? Okay, tell him they called him from work!” Her life postulate in this regard is simple - let him walk, the main thing is that he does not leave the family! And you are a trusted person, you are also married, which means you won’t take away the breadwinner, read Rachikha’s sacrifice. And here it’s very convenient, and you don’t have to have sex with your husband, and the money goes into the house.

Rachikhas love money very much. True, directly! That is, have them and spend them. Anyone should earn these pieces of paper, but not her. Therefore, if your Cancer friend is unlucky with her husband, get ready for constant complaints about poverty. The main thing in this matter is to feel sorry for her, and to scold her betrothed! And God forbid that you offer her to work too in order to improve the family’s financial resources!!! That's right - he will cry! After all, she, a poor woman, needs to take her child to school and pick her up, how can she work when she’s so busy???

In general, it’s better not to start being friends with Cancers at all, you won’t catch the moment when she clings to you, and it will be easier to pretend that you are friends than to directly send her away and clean up the tubs of slop that she will pour out on you in general acquaintances And who do you think they will believe? To you, this and that, or to her, the sweetest, kindest person???

Read about other zodiac signs in Alena Solntseva’s articles in the section.

Planet: Moon

Element: cardinal, water

Embodiment: crab

The negative result of her constant emotional vulnerability is that she can develop a wide variety of complexes.

The moon gives this woman a “rounded” psyche, emotionality and tearfulness. She is very sensitive and constantly hides in her shell. While your current man was with her, he was given the task of strengthening this shell from the very beginning and has been successfully completing this task ever since. She hates conflicts, so even in difficult periods their coexistence was trying to either control herself or separate the happy part of this relationship. Ultimately, both she and her ex-partner began to become increasingly burdened by the relationship.

The Cancer woman is fussy. She prefers to have everything she needs at her fingertips. But organizing her life is not for her. It is important for her to feel comfortable at home, and she tries to make sure that others who visit her feel the same way. It's not her fault that others instead start to feel afraid of things and want to take a shower. If you ever end up at her house, bring antibacterial soap with you.

In almost every aspect of your relationship with a Cancer woman, your current partner has acted as the protector. Firstly, he was her main source of income. This woman is simply not able to work - due to her emotionality, dependence and unwillingness to do what she is told. At the same time, she loves money and the freedom it gives. Secondly, even as a former friend, she is emotionally drawn to him, and it is he who is blamed for all the changes in her mood. Now, after the breakup, she is more fascinated by the tragedy of loss than by the lost relationship itself. She may call him occasionally, but this will not last long, since an emotionally broken Cancer would rather experience his losses alone. However, there are cases when Cancers liked the role of the victim, and they for a long time they lamented loudly about their losses. Yes, she can be soft, romantic, sentimental and mysterious. These are the best traits that the Moon gives to her children. However, she can also be too annoying in her desire to patronize, jealous, dependent and overly sensitive.

So what should you do with it? Because of her tendency to avoid conflict and hide in her protective shell, the Cancer woman will probably never openly speak out against you. However, beware of her claws, because she can pinch you with them at the worst possible moment. at the moment. Of course, she will avoid conflict with you, but this does not mean that she will leave you alone. Remember: your current partner was her protector. And her dislike of conflicts will not prevent her from “hitting” you using roundabout maneuvers.

If there are children

The Cancer woman is a caring and attentive mother. She simultaneously sees in them a future source of self-care. She knows about the mood variability of children and adolescents and helps them identify their emotional needs and desires. At the same time, he does not pay attention to their mental needs. If a Cancer woman does not approve of your new relationship, she will not want you to occupy any place in the lives of her children.

What does he have to lose?

Her emotional dependence gave him a sense of need. The Cancer woman's dislike of conflict gave him the opportunity to introduce her to many people without fear that she would say anything offensive or rude. The essence of the Moon gave her a mysterious sensuality.

What doesn't he lose?

The same emotional dependence gave rise to the feeling of a beast driven into a trap. Her dislike of conflict suppressed any constructive arguments that could save their relationship. An impulsive hoarder, she spent too much of his money on junk.

What can you do to hurt her?

Since the Cancer woman is "closed" and reserved in expressing her feelings, it will be difficult for you to know how she really feels about you. The Cancer woman doesn't necessarily want your ex back, but she's not sure she's ready to let him go. New love, perhaps, will ease her pain of loss, however, due to the fact that she idealizes love, it is a new feeling that can make her ex-partner even more desirable - after all, it was he who left her life. The best thing you can do to hurt her is to leave her in the dirt and create new dreams and memories with your new partner.

How will your sign handle the situation?

Your impetuous, assertive nature will force Cancer woman take a defensive position. And your new man likes to be with a woman who can logically fight him, rather than crawl into his shell at the first sign of impending conflict. This does not mean that you are a harsh and tough woman. On the contrary, you like to be romantic, caring and see a smile on your lover's face. Your home will be a little more attractive than his former house with a Cancer woman.

You have a natural affinity with a Cancer woman. Do you understand her need for security and stability? cozy home. But that doesn't mean you let her lead your new relationship. You protect your lover and never forget how destructive rivalry with his ex-girlfriend can be (especially if the rivalry is unnecessary and avoidable). At the very least, there will be little open hostility between you, and this will help strengthen your relationship with your partner.

You don't like it at all that the Cancer woman is still very attached to your man. When the three of you meet, Cancer pretends you don't exist. It’s as if she doesn’t exist in reality, but in her own fictional world - and she wants to drag her ex into it. Her frequent emotional calls and long conversations with your new lover make you think that either he will hang up now or you will leave. It’s best to talk to him about this (it’s not difficult for you) and determine the boundaries of his contacts with her. This will help bring harmony to your relationship.

Both you and him ex-girlfriend love to remember the past. The last thing you want to think about is his ex-girlfriend, but you can't help but do so. You are both emotionally demanding and unstable, and if your new man will not draw a clear boundary between his past life and the current one, he will soon become emotionally exhausted. It would also be good for you to outline some boundaries, make a promise to stop thinking about his past, start thinking about the future.

While it's never a bad idea to try to understand another person's point of view, it will require a monumental effort at this time. Giving the Cancer woman space, allowing her to ask questions and speculate, while emphasizing the fact that you are his current girlfriend, will calm her nervousness and protect your new relationship. Everyone around knows that you passionate woman, ready to defend yourself and those you love to the end. By leaving the Cancer woman and starting a new relationship with you, your new man has traded the cool, deceptive ocean for a fun, sunny life.

Typically, women born under the signs of Virgo and Cancer may well be on friendly terms. However, the place that the Cancer woman occupied in your man's life makes you feel extremely insecure. You have already studied all her mistakes (and his too, just in case) and are able to predict what can improve their relationship again. Exes become exes for a reason. Your man knows this, otherwise he wouldn't be so deeply involved in your current relationship. Your habit of constantly criticizing yourself and everything around you can make you forget that everything has its own positive points. You have some great traits, and your man has probably noticed them. Now it’s time for you to notice them yourself and move away from your lover’s past forever.

At first, the Cancer woman's sentimentality will make you feel pity. But gradually you want her to admit that she ex-lover better in his new relationship. She is very emotional, and you will offend this woman more than once by trying to remove her from the scene. Your new lover will probably breathe a sigh of relief because he is now with a woman who is independent and vocal about her preferences. After all romantic relationship may be cold, wet from tears and... painful.

Most likely, you will become friends. You assume that she should always be expected to show sentimentality, and you give her some freedom of choice (which does not happen to many). You are both able to understand others, and she will be more likely to be happy rather than jealous when your relationship grows and hers fades. This gives you the freedom you need to focus on your relationship. Your lover will consider you much smarter and more developed than his ex-girlfriend was, he will appreciate your intelligence, passion, courage and desire to build your relationship.

Your new partner will have plenty of opportunity to do his own thing and have his own own life, and you will support and inspire him. This is a stark contrast to his past relationships. Cancer's constant proximity could be oppressive. Now she is upset and it is likely that she will become even more dependent on the man who left. First you try to support it. However, as soon as you realize that she herself prefers to be weak, your patience will end. It is unlikely that you will become so angry that you lash out at her, although it would be good to keep her at a distance.

It is almost impossible for Capricorn to reach a compromise with a Cancer woman, since you have contradictions since birth. Cancer will expect from you and your ex-partner emotional support in the difficult time that she is going through after the breakup of her previous relationship, and soon you will get tired of her endless demands. You will remind her that you and her ex don't have to do this. You are a more mature person than a Cancer woman - your man cannot help but appreciate this. You are also less emotional, you don't like to manipulate people, and you are much more successful at work and socially.

Communication with a Cancer woman requires great patience. The number of breakdowns he has helped her overcome during your relationship with him drives you crazy. It remains to be expected that he himself will determine the boundaries beyond which her need for support should not go. Unfortunately, water signs never fully say goodbye to their former partners and are always ready to fan the extinguished flame. But once a man finally breaks up with her and can give you his full attention, he will see that you are intellectually much richer than her, and the home he creates with you will be respected in society.

You have a chance to make friends with a Cancer woman. You know why she keeps her distance and is always on the defensive. Doesn't the same happen to you sometimes? There will be no tension between you until you mistake her calmness for hostility. Your man will get more joy from his relationship with you. He likes the feeling of freedom and the ability to fulfill his desires. Let's hope he's the type to be grateful for what's between you and him. ex-wife(girlfriend) a good relationship, although it may be a little embarrassing for him.

I recently wrote a post about how I am very afraid that my friend has cancer. She didn’t tell me anything at all about the fact that she had some kind of nodules in her thyroid gland. She just said one day that she should get examined because there is “something” - she always does this, reports about the problem with a smile and somehow casually.. To me, as a terrible cancerophobe, such things seem to simply be the collapse of the universe.

I didn’t listen to her talk about queues, etc., I pulled my friend out of her area and... From there she was urgently hospitalized, I was terribly afraid, but everything turned out okay.

She had a huge cut out tumor measuring 10 centimeters , I don’t understand where it was hiding in her thin neck...

With these introductory notes, I suggest you go to the post (the history of the node and the operation, and photos are written there in detail):
Diagnosis based on the results of the first puncture in 2014: colloid cystic goiter grade 2.
Diagnosis of the Central Clinical Hospital of the Russian Academy of Sciences before surgery: left-sided multinodular euthyroid goiter, degree 2 (WHO).
Diagnosis based on the results of pathological examination after surgery: follicular adenoma thyroid gland mixed structure with cystic transformation of some follicles.

"In preparation for pregnancy in 2014, I underwent full examination, during which a rather large thyroid nodule with a volume of 3.63 cubic meters was identified. cm at age 24, and I was referred for a biopsy.

In my report it was written: “colloid cystic goiter, degree 2.”

Already at that time, I was offered to undergo surgery with the prospect of follow-up for 1-2 years for relapses and searching for the optimal dose of hormones without the possibility of getting pregnant.

I decided to give birth first, then have surgery.

I can’t accurately assess to what extent exactly the thyroid disease affected the course of pregnancy, but literally from the very beginning, due to the risk of miscarriage, I was prescribed Duphaston 2 times a day, which I took throughout the pregnancy, as well as a bonus:

Vitamin E, 200 mg 2 times a day,

· folic acid, 2 mg 1 time per day,

· Iodomarin, 200 mg 1 time per day.

By the 2nd trimester, vitamin E and folic acid were discontinued.

At the 34th week of pregnancy, Iodomarin was discontinued and due to significant swelling and gain of 17 kg by this time from the beginning of pregnancy, the following was additionally prescribed:

Magnesium B6, 2 tablets 3 times a day,

· tincture of lingonberry leaves, 2 sachets per 1 glass of boiling water - drink in 3 doses a day,

· aminophylline 1/2 tablet 2 times a day.

I donated blood for hormones many times, TSH level was significantly below normal and close to zero, which is not typical for a singleton pregnancy, but the endocrinologist saw no reason for concern and no reason to prescribe me medications other than Iodomarin. IN certain moment after the 2nd screening, the risk of trisomy 21 (Down syndrome) was identified, which made me pretty nervous. Maternal thyroid problems are said to significantly increase the risk of developing mental retardation in a child (this has nothing to do with Down syndrome, but all this was doubly scary).

The birth itself went through emergency C-section, although from the very beginning I was preparing for natural childbirth, read a lot of literature and attended training courses.

By the end of pregnancy in 2015, the node had increased to 9.68 cubic meters. cm due to the effect on my body of growth hormone, which is actively produced during pregnancy. Subsequently, the dynamics of the node volume was insignificant.

In 2017, I decided to get tested earlier than usual, in May. It turned out that all left lobe the thyroid gland no longer functions, and against this background an increase in right lobe. The endocrinologist advised to repeat the biopsy, since the nature of the tumor could have changed during pregnancy.

I was denied admission to two clinics in Odintsov:

· “Health Med” on Molodezhnaya Street 18A, since the doctor’s license to perform this procedure has expired;

· paid department of branch No. 3 of the Federal State Budgetary Institution "3 Central Military Clinical Hospital named after A. A. Vishnevsky" of the Russian Ministry of Defense, since the doctor performing the puncture himself recently underwent surgery and will not return to duty soon.

Considering how the story with the puncture developed in 2014, and I had to wait a long time for my turn, I was pessimistic, and it is quite possible that this whole story would have been pushed into the back drawer if my friend had not taken control of everything, and together we managed to get into the RAS. I just came to the day hospital with my story.
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Less than a week later, I found myself at the Central Clinical Hospital of the Russian Academy of Sciences at an appointment with Pavel Sergeevich Glushkov, who, in addition to his academic degree, is constantly undergoing advanced training, including in the field of thyroid diseases. After initial examination and ultrasound, I was asked to perform an operation instead of a puncture, followed by histological examination cut knot.
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On the day of hospitalization, 1 day before the operation, less than an hour later, I took many blood and urine tests, had an ECG, got a chart, was placed in a double ward, and had a consultation with an endocrinologist to discuss my problems with the thyroid gland since 1999. Before noon, I talked with the anesthesiologist and surgeon (Pavel Sergeevich). The entire second half of the day was devoted to rest. I was amazed by the efficiency, because with my extensive experience of visiting hospitals with early childhood, these procedures, taking into account all the queues and the work schedule of doctors, could take several days.

The chamber deserves special attention. I had the opportunity to undergo surgery at City Clinical Hospital No. 53, and spent 2 weeks undergoing treatment at City Clinical Hospital No. 29 named after. Bauman, lying in a single paid ward in the Odintsov maternity hospital, spending several months in the Kaluga branch of the MNTK Eye Microsurgery - there is something to compare with.
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In a double room surgical department The Central Clinical Hospital of the Russian Academy of Sciences has a complete set of happiness: 2 beds, 2 bedside tables, 2 chairs, 1 table, 1 closet, its own bathroom, sink and shower, TV, refrigerator, 6 sockets per room and free Wi-Fi. The bathroom had soap and toilet paper in abundance (*happiness*). Immediately upon check-in I was given a towel. The bed linen, 2 pillows and blanket were fresh.

For me, the biggest shock was the number of sockets, because with the current number of gadgets ( e-book, smart watch, smartphone, laptop) 1 socket even for 2 people in a room is a complete disaster and a reason for constant conflicts. What if there are 6 people in the room? That's exactly how it was in Infectious diseases department Odintsovo Central District Hospital, where my husband and child were lying - 1 socket for 6 people, who are located on 15 square meters in a ward with a ban on ventilation and an antibacterial UV lamp that has never been turned on for a week.

Wi-Fi + comfortable table and chair + power socket + ban on children under 14 years of age + beautiful view outside the window = ideal workplace.

After giving birth, I work remotely, from home with my child. Over these 2 years, for the first time I felt true pleasure from the process, maximum efficiency and the ability to concentrate and throw myself into work with my head. It was happiness (I say, listening to the frantic scream of a child in the next room, in the process of writing this text).

In the hall, in addition to the reception, where a friendly nurse always sits, there is a library, a relaxation area and an aquarium with fish. The treatment room is located right here in the department; there is no need to go to another floor. There is a cooler, tea bags and sugar in the always open kitchen.

Fed 3 times a day. During hospitalization, I arrived on an empty stomach and before the operation I was only given 200 ml of cabbage soup and 1 glass of compote for the whole day. On the day of the operation, I couldn’t eat anything; I couldn’t even retain water. But then freedom began, and after two days of fasting, all the food seemed to me like nectar and ambrosia. For those who are particularly hungry day hospital The Central Clinical Hospital of the Russian Academy of Sciences has a cafe, vending machines with coffee and snacks. I didn’t fall into this category, there was more than enough food, but on the last day before discharge I couldn’t deny myself a muesli bar and nuts.

Immediately upon discharge from the hospital, I received a medical history with full list conducted laboratory and instrumental studies, their results, procedures, recommendations. The results of the pathological examination were ready within a week. All documents have doctors' signatures and stamps.

According to the microscopic description, I had a follicular adenoma of the thyroid gland of mixed structure with cystic transformation of some of the follicles. It is this type of node that most often transforms into malignant, and it cannot be reliably diagnosed by biopsy. During the operation, instead of classical suturing, special glue and special medical instruments were used to reduce blood loss during the operation. I am sure that soon the postoperative wound will look like a scratch, but next week I will resume my half marathon to marathon training with my surgeon's approval.

In the coming year, I will have frequent tests for TSH levels and monitoring the dose of levothyroxine sodium (currently 50 mcg per day): 10 days after surgery, 1 month, 3 months, six months, and subsequent regular studies once a year. Pavel Sergeevich believes that in the future it will be possible to cancel hormone replacement therapy, and my healthy portion of the thyroid gland will cope with the production of hormones. I also believe in this and am optimistic. Communication with a doctor who is not affected by burnout syndrome, who pays attention to each patient and surrounds him with care, charges you with positivity and confidence that everything will be fine now.

A week before the operation, I rested in a rest home near Moscow and, I want to say, the conditions at the Central Clinical Hospital of the Russian Academy of Sciences were much better, I worked and rested much more fun. "

my friend almost nothing

morning before surgery
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immediately after resuscitation - then she slept for a day
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two days after surgery
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Thanks a lot Glushkov Pavel Sergeevich!

It’s very difficult for me to write about all this: even though everything happened very quickly, I was worried. The toughest thing in this situation was that I didn’t know at all how to react, how to talk, or how to properly support a person. I tend to press and dig into someone I want to feel sorry for, and I was very afraid of becoming a burden with my experiences to a person who himself needs support.